Crust pasta and pizzeria photos

Should we start a #NotMyLily?! 😂 Don't get me wrong, I love Blake Lively but this is not at all how I pictured Lily. I can't quite figure out what the costume designer is going for...are double pants a thing now or are those boxers?
(apologies for deleting & reposting, but one of the photos was cut off and I added the spoiler tag in case some may not want to see anything before the movie)

I don’t know where to begin really. So I’ll just spill my guts.
Over the weekend I found out some heavy stuff. My husband for eight years cheated on me on multiple occasions. Times before we were married and after. .. what makes it stings more is that it was with men. The gender I can’t compete with… now before this I’ve caught him surprisingly here on Reddit. Back in 2019 I’ve seen his posts, comments about men and women… seeking out meet ups with local men… he was an frequent poster of porn images. It was almost like a game.. prized possession… now the porn itself didn’t upset me.. it was the active seeking out meet ups. Idk if any of them were successful but from what I learned over the weekend..
I hate that I love this man. We share a child together. At this point I’ve cried most of my tears and now just feel myself emptying away. I’m losing sight in my hobbies I’ve picked up.. I’m drowning in my work load…
He blamed that I work too much which made him distance away…but really it was before I started a real job that he was into all of this (cheating and the porn) me working a lot just made it easier for him.
I can’t say I’ve had the best relationships before him. I was the cheater, but when we first got together I made a promise to myself that for once I was going to be good to someone… to prove I can actually make effort into relationships. There’s no sense in lying or hiding…. I can’t help but think this is something I deserved.
For so long I thought everything was good. I thought we had good communication… of course until covid hit… is when the real disconnection started to make itself apparent. I started looking in and being home more.. in fact I was lucky enough to start a new job working from home! I was able to be present (physically) mentally of course… a wreck. I distinctively remember going downtown and blurting out “ if we continue like this, we won’t last” I’ve brought up many times before this how he talks to everyone else, but me. He was always in his screen. .. right now I’m even playing in my head what he would say as his excuse.
I thought I was creating a open and honest relationship… I was the only active participant.. I know that now.
I don’t think I’ve processed much in the last few days. Ive been keeping busy with work and well our kid. I took our family photos down, not all of them. He didn’t notice the ones I took down in our room when I initially found the Reddit stuff so taking them off the fridge and a few walls.. was me making a bigger statement. I had to make him feel uncomfortable to show the magnitude of what he’s done. He says he hasn’t done anything with anyone for sometime now… taking that with the smallest grain.
I feel used, manipulated, ugly, sad… and just all the bad things. I’ve worked so hard to get where I am.. not only for myself but financially as well. Not to say I’m rolling in dough because yeah fucking right. But I worked so hard for everything. I don’t want to be like my parents… but here I am.. dealing with the lying and cheating husband. I feel like I’ve lost it all.. except for my kid. My work life took everything from me. The high volume kept my brain fried and unable to see the time of my life lost. Unable to notice everything in front of me… literally hate it here.. this state of being.
All I asked of him and I told him this straight up, was that if there comes a day where this isn’t working for you, let me go. I’m stubborn and madly in love and it’ll do us no good.

Hi! So I'm very confused and sad. My account on Instagram had around 17k followers and I'm 99.99% sure I did not go against terms in service however Instagram told me they temporary disabled my account and asked me to send a selfie with a number on it. I did that and then it was immediately removed. I still have no answer on why.
However I came here to ask for help on getting my data or atleast my archived photos. They didn't give me an option to download date. I have childhood photos that are only on my Instagram and now they are gone. I have no idea how to go about this. Of course I want the account back but I've almost accepted defeat.

Let's start off with this: It's not flexgate. Flexgate is when the backlight has some issue and is failing or intermittently operating. It has been diagnosed by multiple Apple stores as not flexgate repair covered. The display is failing due to a design flaw in this era of MacBooks caused by an overheating SoC that cannot be easily replaced without replacing the entire display. The laptop itself is worth around ~$350USD when fixed and sold on eBay on a good day, and requires a $217 display along with the $$$ hours to repair it successfully. It's not economically worth keeping around, nor do I need it.
With that out of the way:
I've got a recently wiped 2017ish MBP with four thunderbolt ports ready to be recycled. The display has terrible horizontal lines across it, and is barely readable in most parts, leading me to believe it's one or another of the SoCs related to LCD controller management slowly failing and not flexgate as mentioned above.
In terms of Reducing, Reusing, and Recycling, I'm hoping there's someone out there that can reuse it before it needs to be half recycled. If there's someone out there that can use it, let me know what you plan to use it for. I don't know the rules on this, but I'll pick the most upvoted response after the end of ~72hrs I guess?
My only request is you pay for shipping by whatever internet payment app, I'm looking to make sure this stays alive longer, not pay more to keep it running.
Mods: Happy to send photos of the existing MacBook with whatever proof needed to verify I'm offering this up.

I (16 F) had a boyfriend (16 M) we got together the night of KOH on February 19th. We dated and all seemed good until last Friday May 26th. So Thursday night I got a message from my ex saying that he was wondering if I could meet up with him sometime so he could talk to me about something serious. So I message and ask him if I did anything wrong and when did he wanna meet up and he told me on Friday and I asked him at what time and he didn’t respond and he told me that he wanted to meet up at the gulch at 11 AM. I agreed and I went to go talk with my dad about it and he said that he didn’t feel comfortable with me going down there by myself because if it was something that was going to upset me he doesn’t wanna see me hurt. And when my mom got home that night she told me the same thing. But I was so confused because Wednesday we hung out and all seemed perfectly fine but I did notice that when I would go and try to be affectionate with him I felt like something was wrong. But I didn’t think much of it and thought he was just tired. But back to that Thursday night I just kept getting the feeling like something was wrong and I couldn’t help but cry because of how scared I was. I thought I was going to vomit. I told him that this was making me nervous and that I couldn’t help but cry and he said that he was sorry if he caused that and I told him that this doesn’t sit right with me and that I feel like he’s going to break up with me and he told me something that I don’t remember but he said to me “just please make this easier and go to bed.” So when I woke up Friday morning I was growing more worried every minute that passed by. He said that he didn’t want me to feel this way and that he wanted to talk to me. Around 10:55 I leave my house and I’m waiting for my ex at the place he wanted us to meet up at. He shows up and he makes small talk and I asked him what he wanted to talk about. So he told me that he felt like he couldn’t open up to me and that he’s always had trouble with it and that the last thing he wanted to do was break my heart. I told him how I felt. He told me that it felt like we grew distant and he went back to him not being able to open up to me and I asked him “if you want too we can work on that. Only if you want too.” And then he told me that he wanted to break up and that he thought about breaking up with me for awhile. I went and hung out with him some more and I feel stupid for doing so and when I got home I just cried and my mom came up to my room and asked me how I was feeling cause I had told her and my dad about the break up and my friends. I just looked at my mom and cried and she hugged me and comforted me. I then bawled my eyes out to my dad and he hugged me tight. But Saturday morning I get a text from my ex’s best friend asking me if my ex had another girlfriend and I told him that I didn’t think so and his friend told me that he was just wondering cause my ex had sent him a photo of him in another girls car but I just thought it was a friend but later this friend told me that he thinks that my ex has another girlfriend because he was sent a photo of her and him together and his friend sent it to me and conveniently I was listening to “kill bill” by SZA and his friend asked him if he had another girlfriend and my ex said “Yeah lol, sadly me and RT broke up and we both thought it was better if we were just friends.” But during this week however my two friends and I were hanging out when we picked up my ex and while we were all hanging out I noticed a hickey on his neck but he told my friend that it was just a bruise. Which I didn’t believe. And then Tuesday night he sent me a photo of his neck and he had hickies on his neck and this girl who I’m assuming is his new girlfriend sent me a photo pulling down the collar of her shirt showing me a hickey she had near her chest. I told my ex yesterday that I didn’t feel comfortable with seeing that and that should only stay between them. He said he understood and then he shifted it to me running off anytime he caught up with the group. But tonight I cut contact with him and all the stuff he gave me I put away. My friends are saying that my ex was definitely seeing another girl and my grandma said that you just don’t decide that over night. And when I told my ex that I didn’t want him to contact me anymore he asked me “what did I do?” Idk guys what do you think?

Why am I so unlovable
Every day I wake up in an anxious state because it’s been a year and I just want him back
I (23 F) don’t know if he (38 M) is still playing mind games with me or not? I am feeling unlovable after played with my senses
Is there a difference between “do not contact me” and “do not contact me again”?
Does one imply the person will eventually come back?
Three years ago I met this guy online and straight away he put my photo as his Lock Screen and sent me romantic messages. Anyways during that time I was really depressed and we ended up ending conversation. Then a year later on my bday he popped up again and we resumed communication. It was like a Dr Jekyll and mr Hyde from him. He switched from being kind to me to being so cruel and sarcastic. I knew he was stalking me on my instagram because anytime I would post anything activism related he would advise me not to. Anyways I remember one time I told him i was training at work at he said “training, I like the sound of that”. He was in and out of my life during this time and he would take 3-5 days to respond to me and then if I didn’t respond quickly he would be passive aggressive. Anyways he would disappear for weeks and I would feel my heart so scared to loose him. One day I told him about my family history of trauma and how when my parents don’t like what I do they stop talking to me. He told me “thanks for telling me that”. I told him one day I was afraid he’d do the same. He said he’d never. Anyways by the end of it I was put on antidepressants which induced a manic episode. I remember I was sending messages and he was being snarky and sarcastic to me and twice I caught him online but ignoring my messages. He’s 38 and I was only 22. I confronted him but he just deleted his profile picture so I sent him a manic text telling him that he taught me that people were going to use me and that he can’t keep using the excuse he’s busy at work. I regret sending that message. He blocked me and in my manic mind I texted him so many messages on his number (I wasn’t thinking) to avoid him leaving because he still wasn’t replying. After three days of this stupid and manic behaviour I called him but he didn’t answer and he texted “all of this has to stop. Don’t text me” and it’s been a year and I haven’t heard anything back from him. Of course I’d never contact him but my heart is so broken over him and I have no idea why. I’m off the meds but everyday I wish I could get a second chance. I feel used and discarded especially after he saw such private parts of me and I opened up. Advice how to move on? Everyday I wake up with a panic attack because I just want him back. He made me feel so useless and alone. I made a post a long time ago before he left saying “why does everybody leave me” and he saw it so he knows how much it hurts me. The emotional pain is so much

Total budget (in local currency) and country of purchase. Please do not use USD unless purchasing in the US:
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$600-800 USD, but can do up to 1000 if necessary
Are you open to refurbs/used?
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No, want to buy new
How would you prioritize form factor (ultrabook, 2-in-1, etc.), build quality, performance, and battery life?
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Doesn't really matter to me, I'll be using this at home. I just need something simple but effective
How important is weight and thinness to you?
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I prefer bigger laptops
Do you have a preferred screen size? If indifferent, put N/A.
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Like a bigger laptop, my current is 17" diagonal
Are you doing any CAD/video editing/photo editing/gaming? List which programs/games you desire to run.
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Just gaming, I mainly use Steam
If you're gaming, do you have certain games you want to play? At what settings and FPS do you want?
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Mostly the fallout games (mainly New Vegas, 4, and 76). I like nice video quality but it doesn't need to be perfect
Any specific requirements such as good keyboard, reliable build quality, touch-screen, finger-print reader, optical drive or good input devices (keyboard/touchpad)?
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Please no touch screens, looking for something simple but does the job. DVD drive would be nice but not necessary
Leave any finishing thoughts here that you may feel are necessary and beneficial to the discussion.
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I appreciate the help!!

Hi there,
We want to build a large kitchen island in a not too large living room / kitchen in a new house. We are thinking about the kitchen color. On the one hand we would like it to be colorful (mustard yellow/Terra Cotta/moss green), which is how we decorate our current apartment. On the other hand our kitchen salesperson suggested that such a big island in relation to the space is a statement on its own and it is more relaxing to do that in a neutral color (we think of a warm sandy white) so that the rest of the furniture can be more bold.
When we look at Pinterest, we favor colorful kitchens, but that can be deceiving since Pinterest kitchens are too stylized and in larger spaces then we imagine ours.
I would like to hear your opinion. Should we follow our first interest and go for color with the risk of it being too screamy and also being out of fashion in five years. Or go for the warm neutral which we know to be good?
Attached are our plans + a photo of three colors we like, the neutral color, and left a piece of our chosen countertop. We will have a wooden floor.

Everyone plans builds based around the assumption that the case will be delivered as advertised, including the photos in the advertisement, but the case I received was not the same as it was in the photos and this is a functional difference.
I am doing an all air cooled build for a 13600k + 3060ti. I had a base with feet 3D printed so I could mount an important 140mm fan underneath, blowing through the advertised holes in the base of the case. But the case I received was a different version which will block much of the airflow from the fan.
You can see the version with the holes I need here: https://cdn.shopify.com/s/files/1/0504/5652/7032/files/Meashroom_s_06.png?v=1684645012&width=800(And%20in%20most%20pictures%20of%20SSUPD,%20Newegg,%20etc.)
On the other hand, if you are going to put a water pump, then you probably want the holes that I have so you can maybe mount stuff easier. https://imgur.com/a/CJXeQga
I'm looking for someone to swap bottom panels with me. I'll pay shipping both ways plus $20. DM me if you can help me, please! My build has been delayed over and over because of this stupid case!! (My case is black by the way, but I thought the interior metal box (and its bottom piece that can be unscrewed) is black no matter what for any case color.)
Thank you!
And yes obviously I could do it myself and have the case look like bad or potentially damage it, or I could take extra money and buy tools I don't have and spend hours trying to copy the holes that should already be there, but I would in fact like to escalate this issue instead as many times as needed until the company just corrects the problem. I just want what was advertised and what I paid money for.
Not only that but it's not exactly smart to tell people they should do a bunch of extra work with a case instead of the company just fixing it.... you never know when that person had been thinking about buying multiple cases for their friends. But if it's going to be a struggle, then obviously that's not going to happen.

I setup the app, hook it up with my android and it works for a bit, but then randomly reverts to showing this message. At which point I cant make calls, see messages or photos.
I then reconnect it - it will work for a while - and then revert to this error again.
Further : When making calls via Phone Link, does the call not use the PC's audio devices? I want to be able hear the call on my PC's headphones and talk through my PC's microphone. Instead it appears that all Phone Link does it initiate the call on my phone (I hear and talk to the person on the phone itself, not the PC)
Thank you for your help and advice.

What is the recommended bank to open a RDA account ? I have one in Bank Alfalah but lately their mobile banking app has lot of glitches. Another important issue is there seems to be no privacy of your bank balance and your details at all. There are staff members from Bank Alfalah who are literally sending me photos of my bank balance on their computer screens randomly on whatsapp and asking me to make deposits because, apparently, they need to show that on their balance sheet. How can the bank share my private info with random staff members?
Please advise an alternative bank.
Thanks

When I was born, as per my culture parents took me to fortune teller.
Fortune teller told my parents I was a butcher in a past life and will be destined for hardships. Also that I will die as a teenager.
I did had a near miss accident when I was 15. But otherwise I am now in late 30s.
When I was young I used to be fascinated with butchers cutting meat in the markets. But otherwise I had no interest in butchery. However i had always been fascinated with old photos. I have a heartfelt connection to 1920s/1930s buildings and styles. I see the 1950s as an optimistic design era, and the 1980s as a depressive era style wise. I like to think I was born once in 1920s and died around 1970s/80s. Generally I’m fascinated with historical styles in general.

I can’t let things go. I know that’s general, but I don’t know how else to describe it. I have no chill. I have difficulties delegating and trusting coworkers to do certain tasks, because I know they won’t get done the way I would do them. I get obsessed with an idea (like wondering late at night if the front door is locked), and then am incapable of letting it go and going to bed without double checking. I’m high strung and hyper fixated on every little problem. The biggest offender is my home: my safe space. During the pandemic, my home life was perfect. Immaculate. We moved into a new place, decorated the entire apartment just the way we liked it, and kept it pristine. I’m big into cooking, and our tiny apartment’s kitchen shelves were sorted just the way I liked them. Pasta and beans sat in beautiful clear storage containers, my spice shelf was organized by region of the world the spice is mainly used, fresh produce was kept in a fruit hammock, bread was kept in the breadbox, butter was kept in the butter dish. We had one shelf for groceries that didn’t fit a category (the occasional snack, a jar of coconut milk for an upcoming curry, bagels for my fiancé, etc). We would use the things on this shelf in the 2-3 days after buying them, only to replace them when the shelf was empty again.
Fast forward to now. My fiancé and I no longer work from home. Promotions and new responsibilities have led to a busier, longer workday. A family member has moved in, and that’s another mouth to feed. We have less time for apartment upkeep. My kitchen has fallen into ruin. My fridge has no organizational system. The spices are no longer sorted. The shelf with beans, pasta, and lentils now has random groceries stuffed onto it, and our main pantry shelf is overflowing. But the problem is that only I can see it. To everyone else, our kitchen is spotless. The dishes are done, the floor is swept, the counters are scrubbed. It seems like only I can see the grime on the front of the fridge, or the stain on the ceiling, or the unorganized spice shelf.
It drives me insane, but I don’t have time to fix it. Even when I do fix it, the next day I see bananas sitting adjacent to the fruit hammock rather than atop it, and I lose my mind again.
I know logically that I’m being insane and unreasonable. The kitchen is spotless. Our apartment is super clean: the result of many hours of upkeep. Why can’t I see it as clean? No matter how many hours we spend cleaning, I can’t see anything but the flaws. It’s not fair to my fiancé, who spends so much of his time making sure our home is clean and nice.
I had a busy day at work today. After work I did the grocery shopping, came home, and pet my cat. My fiancé knew I had a big day, and offered to put away the groceries while I showered. I took him up on that, then read my book for a while. It was 9 PM by the time I went into the kitchen to make dinner. I opened the cupboard and saw all of our new groceries jammed into the small shelf. A new box of pancake mix had a dent in it where it was bending against another item. A loaf of bread was getting smushed.
Now I’m trying to hide the fact I’m nearing a panic attack. All of our new groceries, perfect and shiny and new, just crammed in with the old groceries. I’ve always had a rule: you can’t put away nice new clean groceries if the kitchen is dirty, like if there are dishes in the sink. Like somehow the dirtiness of the sink will corrupt the new nice things. I guess that rule extends to a cluttered pantry too.
Now I’m tempted to throw out perfectly good food just to make room on the shelf for the new groceries to sit nicely. I’m tempted to go in there and clear everything out of our pantry and rearrange it all to make it nice again. I’m tempted to drive to a 24-hour target, buy a clear container, and dump the pancake mix into it so it doesn’t have to sit in a dented box. But I also know it’s 11pm at night, and I should be sleeping. I know that if I go and start cleaning, it will hurt the feelings of my fiancé, who offered to do something nice for me and put things away. I know that it doesn’t actually matter, and that the groceries aren’t infected with the essence of clutter. But also I don’t know that at all.
And it’s not just the kitchen. I won’t let us put up holiday decorations unless the entire home is spotless. Why on earth does the level of organization in my sock drawer affect the presence of a Christmas tree in my living room? I don’t know—but it does. The decorations are nice and pure, and need to be put up in pristine environment. I don’t want my cluttered sock drawer or undusted window sill infecting that new painting we’re thinking about hanging.
How do I stop caring so much? I have all these tips and tricks for how to calm myself out of a panic attack, or how to get my mind away from the dark places I go when I’m depressed. But that all feels like band-aid fixes. Upset? Try XYZ. How do I avoid getting upset in the first place? How can I be like my fiancé, and see a beautiful apartment and a clean kitchen, and not hyper fixate on the flaws?

Picture THIS... What if we could download their selfie/photos and strategically place banners near their residences or scam centers.
Most Asian countries are shame culture. Their relationships with family and friends are strong. Once their parents/friends lay eyes on these banners, the consequences for the scammers could be dire.
Imagine the shock and disappointment on their parents' faces as they see their child's photo accompanied by a clear message exposing their scam activities. It's a powerful visual reminder of the harm these scammers cause, not just to strangers but also to those closest to them.
Also good YT video idea tho

the spoopies, where go? was here, was happy, life good, 27 day later, no more. gone. why? i tell you why. the craeture has come for blode, and byt bloed i mean pasta, it is italian and loves a nice marinara sauce. perhaps we could appease the crearture and return spoopies back weekly if we all band together and make the worlds best alfredo sauce? just foodf or thought. haha funny. oh my god the cRAERTURE I HERE OH MY GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO hello he no more it is i creature i come for whoever read this next yes yes be very scare BOO

hii, looking for anyone to VC with on discord. just a heads up i’m a bit shy at first but I warm up a bit afterwards. preferably someone from north america as that’s where i am from. i’m okay with just messaging too but people tend to be a bit dry over text but if you’re not, then i’m open to just messaging. thank you! do not ask for photos upon our first conversation, it makes me uncomfortable.
-i’m trying to get into playing more games, though i’m not very good at all so i only play occasionally -i like learning new things so if you’re a history nerd or just any kind of nerd feel free to talk about whatever you like, i’m a good listener :) -i like to cook and bake -i like watching movies and shows -super open minded and i’ll always match your energy. you can pretty much tell me anything and i’ll be here for it (there are a few exceptions, like if you confessed to being a murderer or something i might judge just a little bit.)