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I went over to hook up with someone. We had talked for months and we had a good time once before the only other time we hooked up.
Once we started having sex, they started talking strangely, saying they were into violating boundaries, and led me to believe they were not being honest about their history/status/intentions. They also said that they were hoping i wouldnt notice if they took the condom off. I tried to redirect, tell the person to stop or get a new condom, asked for a break multiple times but they didnt. After a bit longer they stopped but i was crying and they still kept groping me/touching me. They were my ride home.
I got dressed and they got on top of me again and wanted to go again, but listened when i said no this time. They had also mentioned wanting to do more/worse so I remember feeling lucky they didnt rape me. But then when i confided in a friend they said it was rape. And it feels really difficult to understand and comprehend that it could have been “that bad”

Right now my kids dad and I are going to court. Since their dad has been trying to come around our son has been acting out a lot more and his attitude has changed when he’s home with me (mom). They’re dads been away for basically 12 years he how’s 41k in back child support and pays about $685 with current and past support. I’ve taken care of them on my own their entire lives but everything I’m doing is wrong and he wants dad now. If I let him go with his dad to show him it’s not all that he thinks it is. Can their dad turn around and get child support from me ?

spoilers for a crown of candy if you haven’t seen it yet. So i’ve been rewatching a crown of candy in between episodes of the ravening war and i’m only on episode 4 but i’m just now realizing there is so much foreshadowing (intentional or not) of calroys betrayal.
for example in episode one during the king can’t coup bit calroy adds in the end “a count can coup”
As well when we see keredins reaction to calroy running in to amethars aid, his eyes go wide in surprise. Surprise not that he got caught but calroy who orchestrated the whole thing is now actively working against their goal.
It’s given me a whole new appreciation for brennan and dming.
I may be overthinking this but can you guys think of any other examples?

For years I’ve been struggling to find a healthy female friend. And when I do, I end up having to move out of the city/country.
I’ve been friends with this woman for 2 years. We have similar interests, enjoy same things and share our experiences/problems. She listens to my stories, understands me well. Gets excited for me whenever I buy new stuff. She’s helped me whenever I passed out after drinking too much.
Things I don’t like about her is that she doesn’t pay for her share every time we go to restaurants or movies. I’ve talked about it and she’s been paying, well not always. For this reason I’ve reduced going out with her, made friends from Reddit so that I have people to go out with.
Sometimes when I’m hanging out with her at her place she asks me to get her water from her kitchen. Says she’s lazy to get up. She also comes over to my place during lunch time so that she doesn’t have to cook at home. We don’t mind her eating at our place, it’s just that we don’t have enough food to feed an extra member last minute.
One time we met a guy at a bar, she was talking to him and I barely had the chance to talk to him as I was busy with other friends. Next day she tells me that the guy was interested in her and not me. And that he didn’t show interest when I tried talking to him. I don’t remember that though and it didn’t bother me. But I was surprised why would she tell me this.
In the beginning when we just started talking I followed her on insta, she didn’t follow back. Later I learnt that she doesn’t take a day to follow back unknown men. Well she followed back after 6 months and that too when I was drunk. She thought I wouldn’t remember next day.
Why have I been keeping up with this for so long? Probably because I was feeling very lonely and I needed a friend. Also, for being there when I needed someone.
What are the things you let go in your friendships?

I just need some spirtual advice and or a push.
I’ve been thinking a lot about an old best friend I’ve had. I’ve always had these doubts and go back and forth constantly about whether or not we should continue to be friends. We’ve been friends since middle school and she is closest person I’ve been friends with and I was a quite depressed and introverted person when I was younger but in recent years I’ve done a lot of healing and she wasn’t there for me so much, she had gotten into a relationship and I felt like her focus led towards more of that and she would no longer put that effort towards our friendship and we’ve talked about it multiple times and we’re not talking at the moment.
Currently I feel like maybe our friendship should end forever, because I can easily cut off other people but with her it’s very hard, and I think about how she hasn’t been there for me in the past years when I really needed her (I’m not emotionally dependent on her I’m self sufficient but needed that friendship effort that I did not get) I also had this intuitive thought that she could not be trusted around my future partner I’d be worrried she’d flirt with my partner but was going to push that thought and not worry about it so much but TODAY I went onto an astrological app and it said a hypothetical situation about that we were in a play and “their name flirted with “my names partner” I was a bit shocked by that. Any advice or support from those that can relate.
Any help would be greatly appreciated 💗

I donated my kidney about a year and a half ago and more recently just got into weight training and working out. I'm trying to gain muscle, and most advice I find suggests to maximize your protein intake. I consulted the transplant team dietician as I know that a high amount of protein isn't suggested for people with one kidney or with kidney disease. The dietician gave me a suggested amount based on my weight and donor status and it is considerably lower than most weight-lifters suggest for people in normal circumstances. I'm going to follow the dieticians advice. Any tips for gaining muscle while on a normal to low protein diet?

There's a sorta funny story I like to tell my friends about something I did when I was younger lol.
When I was younger, I loved Madagascar. So I always watched it in my room on dvd if I wasn't watching Wow Wow Wubbzy or Ruby Gloom. Well one day I thought it would be the best idea ever to tie a jumprope to my ceiling fan with a hula hoop also tied to it so I could swing around like I saw on TV. I got ready and stuck myself through the hula hoop, ready to spin around as I expected. As you can tell, it did not go well at all. I fell face first on the ground and my ceiling fan came with me, soon my step dad ran into the room and beat the crap outta me. I still think about this story, knowing I have the replacement fan from the incident still on the ceiling.

Hi! I'm really struggling with my education and I need help figuring out which school to go to. I'm currently at a really shitty alternative school and I need out, but both of my home schools aren't options. Another alternative school would be okay if its on the larger side and at least a bit challenging. My main requirements are that it has good creative writing/social issues (not sure how to phrase it lol) programs, at least a few clubs vaguely relating to that (debate, student council, poetry club ect), excepts grade 10s and has teachers that actually know (and care) what they're talking about.
I'm not sure if this is the right subreddit but I assumed Torontonians would know a bit about Toronto schools.
ps: it doesn't have to be detailed but it would be great if you could just point me it the right direction

I went over to hook up with someone. We had talked for months and we had a good time once before the only other time we hooked up.
Once we started having sex, they started talking strangely, saying they were into violating boundaries, and led me to believe they were not being honest about their history/status/intentions. They also said that they were hoping i wouldnt notice if they took the condom off. I tried to redirect, tell the person to stop or get a new condom, asked for a break multiple times but they didnt. After a bit longer they stopped but i was crying and they still kept groping me/touching me. They were my ride home.
I got dressed and they got on top of me again and wanted to go again, but listened when i said no this time. They had also mentioned wanting to do more/worse so I remember feeling lucky they didnt rape me. But then when i confided in a friend they said it was rape. And it feels really difficult to understand and comprehend that it could have been “that bad”

Recently had a contractor build a base for 4 Ikea pax units and build cabinet storage above. The first day of work everything went well. He built the support for the back of the pax units and the base.
I put together the ikea units a couple days prior and he moved them into place and secured them together. I was happy with the work and excited to see the finished product.
All week he’s telling me the rest of the work will take 3/4 hours. He shows up today and it takes from 1-10pm to build, install, and paint the upper cabinets and 2 trim pieces at the end of the pax units. This took way too long to complete and the work looks rough. The cabinets he built don’t look finished. He didn’t use any edge banding around the doors, no putty or caulking around wood insert designs or areas where caulking was needed for a finished look.
No primer and I’m sure only one coat of paint on everything. You can see the wood pattern underneath the paint. Interiors of the cabinets are unpainted as well. Also one of the cabinets looks to be damaged from installation. The top seems to be split from when I assume he tried to force it in place.
I haven’t received an invoice yet for todays work. I can’t justify paying for what I believe is going to be a ridiculous amount of money for the quality of work I received. Im fine with paying for materials even though I’m probably going to rip this out and start over. The labor cost is what is driving me crazy.
What would you do in this situation? I plan on taking pictures in the morning of areas of concern. Hopefully he rectifies these issues at no cost but I doubt it.

I am so tired and just utterly done of feeling like everyone’s therapist. Throw being an empath in there, and it’s even more exhausting. I love being here for the ones in my circle, but there’s times I just can’t emotionally take on everyone else’s personal struggles. I’m trying to assert my boundaries and saying “I can’t emotionally handle your struggles right now” is much easier done in my head than actually typing that message. I don’t want anyone to feel like I’m not listening. I just can’t anymore. Especially when they never ask me how I’m doing, or just anything pertaining to my life. It’s constantly the same things they talk about everyday with no fucking end. I feel like I could honestly go crazy. I’ve been battling myself and my own struggles for quite a while now. I don’t feel like I can talk to them about anything because they don’t care for anyone but themselves. I can’t ever get a word out. I have a problem with alcohol and I’m trying so hard to quit on my own, and all of this is honestly a huge trigger lately. I have a lot more than that going on in my life, but this is my main one. I want to be able to talk to the ones around me about it. I want to have the free space to not have to hold my emotions in. I’m so tired of being understanding but never being understood.

I'm putting myself through all these mental gymnastics to justify my existence. Like for fucks sake I was irreversibly mutilated on my first day of life only to be gaslighted by nearly everyone. What the fuck is there for me to keep going? This is a lifelong punishment that I didn't deserve this is shit

Me and my partner both agree to changing our babies name. After she was born I questioned her middle name choice (honor name) but ultimately just wrote it down after no sleep, hormones going crazy etc. I really hate it now, and want to change it.
Because of this we are also changing her first name slightly. Just making the spelling a little more phonetic so it's easier on her later in life.
Anyone have any experience with this? Will this cause problems for her later down the line? The only other option I could think of, would be to leave everything alone until she's old enough to have an opinion on it. The process while she's so young is super simple, so I'm going back and forth on whether I should bite the bullet now. Really kicking myself for not spending more time thinking about little ones name...

Last night I was going to kill myself. I was in my car going high speeds and I was planning on crashing my car into a wall and ending my life. A police officer pulled me over and talked to me and calmed me down. He helped me through my problems and gave me resources to use. If I hadn’t gotten pulled over I would have killed myself.

So I've put in about 100 hour into TOTK and around 300 in BOTW. And I ve come to the conclusion that while they are good games, amazing even, they're just not good Zelda games.
Now I don't know if I'm making much sense, but it's that best way I can put to words. I've played all Zelda games except for a few. (DCi games, Triforce Heroes, Crossbow Training, and Four Swords.) And while TOTK did everything I wanted to improve on BOTW, like more enemies, dungeons etc, I don't think it'll ever be the solution to make bigger and more grandiose to me.
I don't think the open world thing is the best fit for LOZ. I think it would've been better as an original IP. But I do understand if it wasn't a LOZ game, it probably wouldn't have been successful. But I feel that the linearity pre BOTW better suits the heroes journey to save the princess and beat the big bad.
I don't think it's me just nastalgia pandering either. In the past year I played ALTTP (my favorite), WW, OOT, and Minish Cap. Then I played BOTW, and something was just not feeling right. Imo I feel like it's missing some kind of magic. Idk maybe I just grew up. But I felt it again playing ALTTP and OOT.
I understand that Zelda games in the future are going to become more like this. I know the game sold stupid amounts so they have no need to go back to the previous play style.
I have more to complain about but I'm tired lol. But does anyone else get what I'm saying? Or does anyone else agree? That the game, while great, is not the best route for the LOZ franchise to keep pursuing?

I went over to hook up with someone. We had talked for months and we had a good time once before the only other time we hooked up.
Once we started having sex, they started talking strangely, saying they were into violating boundaries, and led me to believe they were not being honest about their history/status/intentions. They also said that they were hoping i wouldnt notice if they took the condom off. I tried to redirect, tell the person to stop or get a new condom, asked for a break multiple times but they didnt. After a bit longer they stopped but i was crying and they still kept groping me/touching me. They were my ride home.
I got dressed and they got on top of me again and wanted to go again, but listened when i said no this time. They had also mentioned wanting to do more/worse so I remember feeling lucky they didnt rape me. But then when i confided in a friend they said it was rape. And it feels really difficult to understand and comprehend that it could have been “that bad”

Earlier today, I made this comment on the Connecticut Sun vs. Minnesota Lynx game discussion thread and it read as follows:
"If the Lynx want to have a shot at winning this game, I think they absolutely need to give its bench forwards, Juhasz and Milic, more minutes this game. The issue with the Lynx is that its coaching staff is adamant on running a small ball lineup and rarely gives meaningful minutes to Juhasz and Milic, in certain matchups who have clear height advantages. I've made a post in the past on this subreddit regarding this and a perfect example which I mentioned was the Lynx vs. Mercury game. The Mercury very clearly had a height advantage with Griner who is 6'9 and despite this, the Lynx played their tallest player in Juhasz (6'5) for only 7 minutes. Griner proceeded to have a 19 point + 8 rebound game with 3 blocks. The best way, which I stated in my post, to counter a height / rebounding advantage that a team might have is to stack the paint with the tallest players that your team has as this requires the opposing players to rely more on their talent than their height advantage. With DeWanna Bonner (6'4), Brionna Jones (6'3), Olivia Nelson-Ododa (6'5), and Alyssa Thomas (6'2 and terrific rebounder), the Sun have a favorable matchup and clear height / rebounding advantage against the undersized Lynx today. Furthermore while Diamond Miller's absence will hurt the Lynx on the offense today, it will also be a big impact on the defense today as she was the Lynx's second tallest player in the starting lineup a 6'3, an inch shorter than Jessica Shepard at 6'4 and who is their starting center. Aside from the bench, Napheesa Collier is the next tallest at only 6'1 while the rest of the Lynx starting lineup is under 6'0. In my opinion, the Lynx are going to need to give meaningful minutes to both Juhasz and Milic today if they want to win this game."
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Game Strategy: Unless someone from the Minnesota Lynx coaching staff read this comment of mine from above and changed their game strategy today against the Lynx (would be funny if they actually did) , I correctly called out what exactly the Minnesota Lynx needed to do if they wanted a shot to win this game. As stated in my comment above from the game's discussion thread, the biggest thing the Minnesota Lynx needed today was to have height and size in their rotation today. The Connecticut Sun had a huge height advantage with Jones, Thomas, Bonner, and Nelson-Ododa. For the Lynx, Jessica Shepard would have been the only one in the starting lineup who could handle these players defensively and height wise. Therefore, I suggested that the Lynx needed to play players like Juhasz and Milic more this game. Furthermore, I referenced how the lack of doing this against the Phoenix Mercury game is what led Griner to have a great game against the Lynx and get the win for the Mercury. Especially in the WNBA, stacking the paint with height and size is the best way to stop opponents who have a great height advantage to do well in the game.
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As the game started, I noticed that the Lynx did in fact end up going big in their lineup. For the first time this season, the Lynx started Juhasz, who is 6'5, and played her for a season high 37 minutes. I didn't expect the Lynx to actually change their lineup since the Lynx coaching staff are very adamant on not changing their lineups, especially to put in another big. I thought Juhasz did fine this game going for 7 points and 9 rebounds with 2 blocks this game as a rookie. She stepped up when she was needed and that was a good sign for her. Now, we can check how she impacted the game. With Juhasz and Shepard in the starting lineup, there were two bigs in the paint listed at both 6'5 and 6'4. This is a good combination of height when stacking the paint as defenders will have a tougher time getting easy baskets than if Napheesa Collier (6'1) was playing Juhasz's role this game. While the Lynx did have some trouble adjusting to a new lineup in the first half of the game allowing for easy buckets in the paint, they figured out the pace in the second half. With Shepard and Juhasz in the paint, both Jones and Bonner (the Suns's two main bigs) went for a combined 3-8 inside the paint in the second half. Furthermore as Bonner wasn't able to get easy shots in the paint as she is used to, she was forced to play beyond the perimeter for this game and went 2-7 from beyond the arc. By the end of the game, Jones had 12 points, four which came from free throws, and Bonner had 13 points, one which came from the free throw. Both Jones and Bonner were held under their season averages this game and weren't really able to dominate the paint like they are used to in terms of both points and rebounds. Furthermore, Juhasz ended up with the highest +/- score among the Lynx starters. At the end of the day, the Lynx came close this game to beating the Sun, even tied the game in the late 4th quarter at 79-79, but ended up losing by only 5. Had the Lynx ended up playing with a small ball lineup like they were used to this game, they might have lost by even more. Hopefully, this lineup isn't a one time show and the Lynx continue to use this big lineup in matchups where they have a clear height disadvantage.

TW: I refer to queerness as sin, because I fear it is and i’m just very confused lol
I promise I’m not try to offend anyone Injusy thought I’d mention that because I don’t want to confuse other people and make them feel more uncomfortable if their struggling too
Hey! I’m feeling rather alone lately and was wondering what other people experiences were with queerness and religion, specifically Christianity? I was really excited for pride month, and now that I’m out to my parents I wanted to wear a pride pin to school. But, I feel like i don’t deserve to celebrate because it’s ‘sinful’ and I’m not even gay and i don’t know what I’m doing or I’m just following a trend and i’m gross for continuing to be gay knowing it’s ‘wrong’. Then I lost my water bottle with a pride sticker, I couldn’t find my bi pin this morning and the rainbow lollipop earrings my friend made broke during school and I keep thinking it’s a sign from god that he’s telling me I’m wrong and I keep doubting myself and idk what’s going on and I’m just afraid that i’m corrupted beyond repair and I don’t know what to do. I’m also scared I won’t be with my family in heaven and i’m just really worried. I’m not sure if reddit is the right place to ask but Im not sure where else to go aside from the church. any advice with how to deal with this maybe??

I’m just coming here to say that I really didn’t think this book would redeem itself. I didn’t hate it, or even dislike it, honestly, it was just a bit slow and honestly hard to follow for the first half of the book. It also felt a bit too fantasy-ish for my taste until I progressed further in the book.
But, MAN. It finished off extremely well. The entire scene with Jack and Richard at the black hotel and Morgan with his minions just preying on them was really well done, and damn intense.
I read the DT series as my first ever King experience, and this took me back to that feeling in so many ways, I really, really enjoyed it. Will definitely follow up with Black House.
All of this to say, I always tell myself to finish the book I’m reading because I never know how it’s going to end, and this really proved itself worthy of “just sit it out and wait until the end”. SK has had some poor and/or rushed endings, but in my opinion, this was exactly what I was hoping for.
I have so much to say, and many thoughts, but would just enjoy hearing what you all thought of it?

Me and my boyfriend going on a walk and we have passed a spot we’re we used to do (the devil’s tango)so just for fun we went there to make new memories. (Down to the issue) My boyfriend has been having bladder problems for the last year and he’s told me many times about it,I’ve preformed oral on him before so I didn’t think much of it. I started sucking the tip and by the end he ended up telling me he was about to finish I tasted a salty-watery taste so my first reaction was to spit it out and I accidentally spit it on him. I walked away with him following me in the car, I told him to get in the back and I just ignored him as he tried to apologize.
As we got home I ran to the bathroom to brush my teeth and take a shower, when I was done made dinner and was ready to head to bed I let him sleep in the bed I decided to sleep in the living room he offered to have me sleep on the bed instead but I just ignored him.
I want to apologize to him for ignoring him because I am aware of his bladder issues and but I don’t know what to say do I say something like “hey I’m sorry for ignoring you after you pissed in my mouth” i just don’t know what to do”
Do I have the right or wrong for ignoring him?