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2023.06.09 07:22 BurnItQueen Pay equity - and how it’s lacking
I just figured out that the guy I work with was making about 50% more than me. Same job title. I trained him. I knew he was making more than me, but wow.
I know I need another job, I’ve needed one for a while. I’ve been dealing with a lot of depression lately, and It’s really hard to convince myself that I’ll be treated more fairly elsewhere.
Any advice for starting job hunting? Especially something WFH?
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2023.06.09 07:16 CryptographerMuted64 Is it realistic to get a job outside my major and still end up being in my field in 2-3 years?
I (22M) just graduated college with a finance degree. I had an ok GPA (3.05) and had some work experience as an assistant at the financial services department at my school. However I am finding it very difficult to land a job even with the help of recruiters, connections from LinkedIn and over 100 applications sent. I am getting very discouraged because one of my roommates is close to landing a remote job even though he has much less experience than me and he hasn’t even graduated yet. I feel like shit. This job hunt has really taken a toll on my mental health and it sorta makes me feel unworthy of a decent job making a decent living. I am thinking of maybe going a different route, maybe marketing or recruiting to see if I get any luck there. I fear that I won’t be able to switch my career path back to finance if I land one of these roles which is sad because I have a lot of passion for finance. Is there any advice or other people going through the same shit? tl;dr: I’ve applied to several entry level finance jobs with no luck. I am looking at other business related jobs but I fear I won’t be able to switch back to business if I get one of these jobs. Any advice?
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2023.06.09 07:07 sadgalbaby 27F, struggling with job rejections
I went to school for illustration haha I thought I was finally getting a break when I got a book deal and illustrated my first kids book this year but it's like all opportunities have dried. Constant rejection from both art related and non-art related jobs. I'm back on antidepressants trying to deal but it's starting to feel hopeless. I'm lucky I can live with family but just want a place of my own and it feels so out of reach. I'm tempted to move somewhere else and just wing it but with how bad my luck has been with job hunting it may not be worth the risk. Feeling demoralized. It feels so difficult to break into the job market these days.
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2023.06.09 07:06 FarmerAdorable9566 WTS Benchmade Custom Shop Bugout - Titanium scales and 535-3 first production blade swap
Hi Folks!
It’s late at night - shouldn’t you be sleeping or something?
Timestamp and photos:
https://imgur.com/gallery/RTi7kHW I have a bit of a Franken-Bugout up for sale today. It started life as two knives - knife #1 was a Custom Shop Bugout with titanium scales, black hardware, satin liners, and a Damaladder blade and knife #2 was a First Production 535-3 in CF and s90v.
I sold the 535-3 hardware separately and pulled the Damaladder blade off of the custom shop Bugout to make a Zirconium and Damaladder Bugout, and then I made a Bugout with the remaining scales, hardware, and blade that I’d like to sell.
Title describes the knife - s90v blade with minimal use and no chips or scratches that I can find. It appears to have the factory edge, but I’m at least the second owner. That’s paired with Benchmade grey bead-blasted titanium scales and black hardware. The scales have a few snails that I tried to show, but I don’t see any huge obvious scratches or anything like that.
I’ve obviously disassembled and rebuilt the knife, and in the process, polished the washers and liners and oiled and tuned the knife so that it has absolutely fantastic action IMO. I was planning on doing an anodization job and going all out on this one, but I have too many Bugouts already and I’m chasing the next big thing - which I just caught - and now want to recoup some funds.
The knife comes with box and baggie, but the box is the “Custom Shop Dama” box (obviously there’s a box mismatch since it’s two different knives…).
Pricing this one at $250 with PPGS and UPS shipping and tracking.
Thanks for looking, and happy knife hunting!
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2023.06.09 06:57 The_Story_Builder M for Transgender Person (Adventure story, with elements of mystery and mysticism)
I am a writer, and I have been role-playing for some time. I would like to create a story with somebody I would find a harmonious and creative connection. I am also happy to discuss your ideas and we can come up with something together.
The main premise is:
(Not much is known about me. But research leads you to learn how I own some of the biggest companies in the world. Primarily in Bio Engineering, Green Technology, Robotics, and Aeronautics.
There was an incident in my home. You, as a young reporter, on the hunt for a career-making, Pulitzer award story, manage to get a job on my personal staff, under the guise of my new secretary. The position was vacant because my secretary was unlived by assassins, clearly targeting me).
The story can go in any direction, but the main premise would be, a conflict with the Vatican, and the cult, within the organization of the Holy Mother Church, Opus Dei.)
This is planned to be a long-term, articulate, detailed story with elements of romance and it is to be filled with the discovery of the conspiracy spanning the whole world and going back to the early days of Christianity.
I do understand life happens, but I will do my best to be consistent with my replies, and I would desire the same from my story partner. I am located in Western Europe, but I tend to adjust to time zones as much as I can.
If interested, feel free to text me, and we can talk more in detail. I tend to role-play on Discord.
In my view, the length of paragraphs is irrelevant, the flow of the story is what counts. The magic is in the style, cooperation, and how descriptive and imaginative the story partner is, combined with the creative connection the two share.
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2023.06.09 06:50 dogsrulecatscool I’m starting a new job on Monday and my anxiety is through the roof. Advice?
Hey, hope you’re all doing well!
I’m starting a new job on Monday and my anxiety this past week has been through the roof.
For context, I was unemployed and on a VERY grueling job hunt for close to ten months before landing this job. I thought I completely fucked up a portion of the interview and felt defeated afterwards because there was no way they’d hire me! But here we are! I’m grateful to have a job after so long. It’s a new role they’ve created within a specific department, and my guess is since I’m the first hire for it, they plan to expand this department later on. Its also an area I was interested I. At my previous company but I wasn’t given much opportunity to grow there. I’m hopeful that I’ll be able to grow at this new job and from what I gleamed, they’d want me to grow there too.
Since I was laid off Aug of ‘22, I’ve not had health insurance, therefore, I’ve not been to therapy or had my SSRI meds for ten months (prev diagnosed GAD and MDD). It’s been a long road just getting to this point of beginning a new job, but I’ve never felt so freaking anxious about starting a job before. I think because it was TEN months before even getting an offer somewhere and how brutal the job search was for me, my brain feels like anything I ask or say between now and Monday will make them revoke the offer or think twice (even though I know that I’m more than qualified for this role and have the work ethic and experience to back it up).
I guess I just need some advice to help qualm my overworked anxiety riddled brain. What are some ways you’ve dealt with anxiety from starting a new role? How do you cope without therapy or medication, if you’ve had to do so?
And if you’ve got no advice that’s fine too. Just need to put it out there to people who understand how torturous anxiety can be for someone. I try to explain to family about how my brain works (and doesn’t work for that matter lol) and why I feel some kinda way before starting this job, but all I get is “stay positive! Don’t overthink!” Which… yes I’m really trying to, but since I’m off any kind of meds, it’s been really difficult for me to calm my racing thoughts.
Thanks for hearing me out. Appreciate you. Stay well everyone!
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2023.06.09 06:42 JustSomeOnlineNerd What is a free SD Card recovery program for Mac?
I had a job for my school to document a 7-month long process, and I took thousands of pictures. And I was foolish enough to use the same SD card I already had for the camera (which had family event pictures) because at the time I couldn’t afford a new SD card.
Now I have a corrupted card error. All the data is there and I’ve previewed it, but after weeks of hunting for a program to recover it, all the recovery is behind paywalls… it’s ridiculous to me that you can lose all your pics due to something out of your control and be kept from recovering it by a paywall. Basically, I am broke and can’t afford to pay for a program, especially at the prices some of these cost. I know there must be a free way to recover them, but I can’t find it.
That SD card has prom photos, dog pics, family memories, and tons of pictures for the job I had. I am desperate to get that back. Please, if you know a free program, let me know!
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2023.06.09 05:52 dnoj Useful facebook groups for job hunting?
Here's my contribution: I found my first two jobs in Independent Creatives and Advertising Professionals (ICAP). Not much luck in the actual job-hunting platforms. So if you have fb groups that have a decent response rate that you're willing to share, it would be appreciated.
P.S. I'm looking to get into the film, tv, or games industry. Any tips for someone looking for a job but with no connections and mostly advertising experience? (I can already use Blender and Unreal Engine 5, and the usual Adobe stuff)
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2023.06.09 05:30 Davess_World2019 Hagwon Blacklist Toyko John's Blacklist Site
After 4 years, these get deleted at
Toyko John's Blacklist Site, but before they do, here is a "who's who" of Hagwons who made the list, posted in chronological order from
January 1, 2016 ~ Jan 6. 2023. See a list of blacklisted schools posted on this site
here.
As a bonus, if you want to know what was posted about a hagwon, I have copied every comment from Toyko Jon into a Microsoft Word file. If you want to retrieve it from the
memory hole, send me a message and I send you the complete complaint. *Some I have failed to copy before they were removed.
Memory Hole
*NOTE: Although some of these will be dated, by a couple of years in some cases, my experience is,
"People rotate in and out of jobs, but cultures don't change." Koreans stay on he job for years, not rotate through like foreigners do.
Learn about toxic cultures and human behavior with animation:
THE MONKEY/STEPLADDER EXPERIMENT ------------------------------------------------------------
Continued here. RISE Mapo-gu Campus Jan 6. 2023 AHEV (Ansan Hwajeong English Village) Dec 31. 2022 PEAI Daechi/Seocho and iSpeak Dec 22. 2022 IYA Skola/ Hillside Collegiate (Wirye) Dec 12. 2022 Altiora-gangseo/SLS Dec. 7. 2022 Bucheon Rise Dec 4. 2022 Poly-Eunpyung gu Campus Nov 30. 2022 American Stem Prep Nov 29. 2022 Plum Academy/ FTK / FTK Jamwon Nov 22. 2022 Sequoia Hagwon Jeju Nov 21. 2022 Cheongshim Language Institute in Bucheon Nov 18. 2022 St Paul American Scholars, Gwangyo Branch Nov 5. 2022 Pinewood, Misa, Hanam,Gyeonggido Oct 31. 2022 YBM ECC Gimpo Oct 31. 2022 POLY, Dongdaemun-gu, Seoul Oct 27. 2022 Global kids Korea haeundae Busan Oct 19. 2022 Hillside Collegiate Songdo Oct 16. 2022 Walnut Global Education, Seoul Oct 14. 2022 GBA Academy or Dream I Kindergarden, in Goyang Oct 12. 2022 TCIS (Thinking Christian International School) Sep 3. 2022 Sage's English Academy (SEA) Sep 9. 2022 Chungdahm Learning aka Creverse Sep 17. 2022 ComoBlanc/ Dreamberry Sep 22. 2022 Worwick Franklin Institute, Ok-dong, Ulsan Aug 21.2022 JM Academy in Seoul Aug 20.2022 JM Academy in Seoul Aug 15.2022 Spol English Institute Gimhae, Oxford Academy Gyerong, Eunbit Kindergarten Ansan, EiE Korea Hwaseong Aug 11.2022 Little Fox English Academy Hyeokshindoshi and Wansan in Jeonju Aug 9. 2022 FTK Songdo Branch Aug 7. 2022 ReadingStar International Aug 4.2022 FTK English East Pangyo, Bundang, Seongnam Aug 1. 2022 Lion English, Gajwa, Seoul Jul 28.2022 Milestone Institute Seocho Branch Jul 26.2022 Gwanak SLP and DYB Choi-sun Sangdo Jul 26.2022 ILS JEJU Jul 25.2022 CLS- Children's Language Academy Jul 19.2022 Welltain Christian International School (WCIS) in Cheong-na Jul 19.2022 Geniplus in Seocho Jul 16.2022 ELL Academy, Incheon Jul 15.2022 Bibakids Jul 7.2022 Infocus English Academy in Wonju, South Korea Jun 28.2022 Bay Hills International Language Institute Jun 24.2022 Altiora EDS and English Revolution Hagwon in Gwangmyeong Jul 1, 2022 DAKS Language Academy Gwangmyeong Campus Jul 1, 2022 Simson Bibakids Jun 29, 2022 Bay Hills International Language Institute Jun 28, 2022 Evening Class/Kids Class, Pyeongtaek Jun 27, 2022 Ian School, GLITT, Children's Musical Company Jun 24, 2022 YBM ECC Dongnae Jun 16, 2022 YBM ECC Dongnae, Busan Jun 16, 2022 American Stem Prep Jun 4, 2022 DOCS Language Academy in Gwangmyeong Jun 4, 2022 SLP and DYB Cheonan May 29,2022 GE English Academy in Ilsan May 22, 2022 HILLSIDE COLLEGIATE HAEUNDAE May 19, 2022 DUX Literature Academy, Daechi May 17, 2022 EASM Academy- Changwon May 17. 2022 ComoBlanc / DreamBerry - Songdo May 17, 2022 SLP Ulsan Namgu May 16, 2022 Edupro Haba in Songpa-gu May 12, 2022 Wonderland Kindergarten, Jukjeon, Daegu May 12, 2022 YBM ECC Dongnae May 11, 2022 Gimpo Sau/Janggi Chungdahm May 11, 2022 BILLION EDUCATION/BILLION KID May 11, 2022 Docs Academy in Gwangmyeong May 8, 2022 YMB ECC Dongdaemun May 6, 2022 DOCS Academy Beagot – Siheung May 4, 2022 FTK Bucheon May 3, 2022 Cheonan SLP May 2, 2022 Wizville Langauge Institut May 2, 2022 Hillside Collegiate/Iya Skola in Songdo Incheon Apr 20, 2022 Prairie English Academy in Gimpo Apr 20, 2022 DOCS Academy, Siheung Apr 15, 2022 Frage English Institute, Suseong-gu, Daegu Jamsil C-GATE Cheongna SLP in Seogu, Incheon KidsWiz in Nowon DOCS academy baegot in siheung Jungchul language Institute Cheongju-si DUX EOS Wingsly School, Yeongtong, Suwon, South Korea Maplebear Gimpo Iya Skola Ulsan Francis Parker Collegiate in Bundang HABA League Academy in Anyang JK English Academy, Jinhae FTK GuriDasan branch Ilsan POLY EASM Language Institute - Changwon, Gyeongsangnamdo JM English Welcome World English in Suwon SPEP American Stem Prep Aspk/aspj in Yongin Singapore International School - Gwangju Gangnam English Academy (GEA) in Sinsa-Dong JM Academy Dongah Institute/Yongin Children's Musical Company, Ian School, GLITT Kid's College Suseong Daegu RISE Yeouido Avalon English The GENIUS Academy in DAEGU Milestone Institute Seocho branch Ballet Model in Gangnam Milestone Institute in Daechi, Seoul Dux in Daechi Rise Bundang Miller English School - Hwa-jeong, Goyang-si SOT (School of Tomorrow) Gwanakgu campus JM Academy in Seoul SLP Ulsan Nam-gu branch Wizville Language Institute in Yeonhui-dong Seodaemun The Genius Academy in Daegu EiE Yeoju SLP Uijeoungbu Little Fox Daechi in Gangnam, Seoul SLP Ansan SLP Yeongdeungpo Avalon English, Yeongtong DOCS School Gwangmyeong Little America ECC Gwangsan, Gwangju NamDongtan ECC Bucheon POLY L Bridge or L khan, or U2m school located in Hwaseong or Dongtan 2 ICEV CL Education Pyeongchon MICA International Scholars, Yongin Milestone Institute Seocho Kingspledu, Jeju WCK English Academy IGS Avalon English Yongsan-gu BNK Academy Nowon-gu RISE Pyeongchon Sejong igarten Ballet and Model in Gangnam Daegu Gyeongbuk English Village (Yueungjin University) Nooree Education, Daegu, Korea Francis Parker Collegiate branch in Haeundae, Busan Icare hagwon in Seogwipo SPEP Cheonan Buldang Altiora Dongah Institute/ Yongin Red Wagon English School in Bundang MLC formerly known as Maplebear Sejong Campus Ecole d'art Language Institute - Changwon, Gyeongsangnamdo JB (Jeongbal) Poly Winny Winny Wonheung, Goyany. YBM PINE Gangnam English Academy PEEC pyeongtaek English Education Center YLC (Yulgok Language Center) in Gimcheon. Samhyook Elementary School- Wonju South Korea. Kangnam Pride Institute in Gangdong-gu, Seoul American Stem Prep - Formerly St. Paul Kinder ALITORA- ILSAN (SIKSA-DONG) YMB ECC Dongdaemun Altiora Jeju / WeGrow Academy DOCS in Gwangmyeong Wizville Yeonhui-dong POLY Gwangmyeong Poly in Haeundae, Busan BNK (Banana Kids) Nowon Gangnam English Academy (GEA) EASM academy in Changwon Little Fox Centum in Busan YBM ECC DAECHI KINGSPLEDU English Kindergarten, Jeju Cheongshim based in Bucheon YBM C-GATE in Apgujeong JP English School Badasoop English Village, Sejong City Chungdahm- Mokdong 2 Campus BCIS Education Paju FastONE GangnamSeoul, South Korea Banana Kids School in Uijeongbu, South Korea CIS (Canada International School) Uijeongbu JM English in Songpa Cheonan SLP VIS English in Yeouido. AKA Little Socie in Yeouido Poly Seodaemun campus Rise schools, Wirye Campus Daejeon Worwick Bay Hills Reggio Emilia International English Academy YBM ECC Seongbuk HILLSIDE COLLEGIATE HAEUNDAE YBM ECC Gimpo Little Fox Deungchon school Global Kids Korea, Busan SEED International School Badasoop English Village. Sejeong city JLS Academy (Seosan-Si) SLP Jeonju-si oppisite Emart SPEP/The Princeton Review/In Times In April/Chungdham in Suwon (jeongjadong) Bucheon Sunny School TKLeaders English, Busan Seodaemun Poly Milestone Institute (MI) Altoria in Jamsil Oxford Language School in Cheongju Kids College Walker Hill Guuu Maple Bear Pyeongchon Fast one and Dux academy YBM Seoul (Adult Division) Chungdahm CDI April Ulsan Branch YBM Adult division TASK English in Cheonan, Chungnam Sejong Poly JM English Academy in Songpa MPoly Dongnae, Busan Hanseo University RISE Yeouido Iya skola, Seoul Little River Day School GSI Cheongna and GSI Ilsan (Global Standard English Institute) Feinschule, Gyeyang-gu (near jakjeon), Incheon Sahm Yook Elementary School ILCE (I Love Clover English), Daejeon, South Korea R&R English Academy Gwangyang Jeollanamdo Winnie Education, Ilsan Gyeyang Global Language Center in Incheon ARA in Jeonju Apgujeong GATE Seocho SLP Gyeongsang National University (GNU), City of Jinju Masan Poly Korea School Cheonggu Ehwa POLY Cheongna Campus Ara Academy, Jeonju, South Korea Kids Club in Yeonje-gu Busan Norian School in Dunggu Usan FASTONE ENGLISH (Gwanghwamoon) Singapore International School - Gwangju Lighthouse International School, Ilsan Wizville Yeonhui-dong Big Heart Christian School MPOLY - Seo-gu, Daejeon Thinking Child School (TCS) in Busan Gyeyang Global Language Center. Incheon, Gyeyanggu Dux Little scholar academy Incheon English Village(ICEV) Multicampus Education Co Paedea Plus GE English Academy in Ilsan Gyeyang Global Language Center. Incheon One By One in Apgujeong, Seoul Suwon campus - DYB Choisun Dux Apgujeong MICA International School (not an accredited international school) POLY Bucheon Geumho Little Fox Language Center Jeonju Avalon English Academy - Mokpo Campus N.IVY, Daegu, in Dalseogu GRAPE, Daegu, Suseongu Jones International Christian Studies Suwon Global Village ECC Bukgu Daegu Future Education, Seoul ING English in Wirye/Hanam/Seongnam English Book Ladder - Joengja Bundang v
ILS in Hanam city Songdo International Kindergarten Guro Wonderland Language Institute Creative Children's Learning Center, in Seoul Inje English Village Avalon, Suji Jungchul Seochang Campus Little America Academy in Gimpo SPEP: QUICK FACTS Speaking Proficiency Enhancement Program, Apgujeong, Seoul CDI Gimhae Jangyu branch Grace Academy in Migeum CDI/ Chungdham Sangin, Daegu CIS/NAIS/Canada International School- Uijeongbu EIE/IBC English Town in Daegu Gangnam English Academy in Sinsa-dong, Seoul Korea POLY School Suwon Campus Kids Club Willy Campus Paedeaplus Icheon Chungdahm Institute Yeongtong DUKE English Literature Academy Daechi iChristmas Korea in Seocho-gu CDI Songdo Branch Avalon Yongin campus Gwangmyeong SLP SEODAEMUN POLY Kids College Pyeongtaek Elan Preparatory in Mokdong Poly Mokdong campus, Seoul Jungchul English Academy Geoje CDI Chungdahm Daejeon Review Chungdahm Learning (CDI) Incheon Cheongna Branch Gangnam English Academy (GEA), Apgujeong LIA Seocho Wingsturn Kindergarten/Academy near Sindang Norian Kindergarten, Dong-gu, Ulsan Korea Christian International School, Yeong-deung dong Jung Chul academy Redwagon Academy English Book Ladder, near Jeongja Roy's English Academy in Songjeong-dong, Gumi Mapo Youth CenteKEST Hwajeong POLY TOPLY English Institute, Bucheon Junggye POLY Daegu Chungdahm/April SLP Gwanak-Gu JC English School in Jecheon ABC LEARNING CENTER in Haendang Pyeongtaek English Education Centre Lighthouse English Center, Hagwi SOT (school of tomorrow) in Seocho Global Aviation college English Kindergarten, just outside Migeum & Dongcheong-dong in Bundang/Suji 5 Touch Language in Giheung, Yongin Triple A English Academy near Seohyeon Station in Bundang Worwick Franklin Institute - Wirye (New town/ Shindoshi) Kaylee English School in Cheonan SPEP/One-Stop Prep, Based Out of Gangnam in Seoul Bambini Edu in Songpa Avalon, Tae Jon Dong, Gwangju, Gyeonggi-do Worwik franklin institute Ulsan Gimpo POLY, Seoul Songdo International Language Center (SILC) in Songdo, Incheon Nagwon Feinschule Hagwon in Bonseon-dong in Nam-gu, Gwangju Dr.Jung E Class - Gwangjin-Gu Branch v
Gyeongsang National University Dongtan kids College Daegu, Sangin April/CDI iSponge branch located in Geomdan Sageori Jungchul Academy, Cheolsan Dong, Gwangmyeong Banana Kids school, Uijeongbu, South Korea SLP Jungnang Evine (Junggye-dong branch in Nowon-gu). Brain Talk English Academy, Mokpo/Namak Dongrae Yonje SLP in Sajik, Busan I-garten in Cheongdahm Kim & Lee Language Institute in Suwon International Language School (ILS), Bongdam-eup Talkster Waegook Hagwon in Suwon, Gyeonggi-do Aphabet Street School in seoho Edu Pro in Bangi Dong JLEE Preparatory, Bundang area GrapeTree Academy/GrapeTree English Learning Center, Gangdong gu, Gildong, Seoul Chungdahm Institute I-Garten (formally IDEA KIDS ASSETS) Cheongdam, Seoul KJC21 hagwon, Jangyu, Gimhae Bono language world- Gumi, Okgye-dong Chungdahm Institute in Uijeongbu International Life Long Learning Center in Yeonsu-Dong, Incheon Prime Academy (Prime Junior) in Yeonhui-dong, Seoul Noumena Education Initiative - Gangnam, Seoul Cambridge Institute in Gangnam Pagoda, Gangnam Branch NY English Studio, Haehwa-dong, Seoul Jin Myung Language School, inside the Jin Myung Fitness Center, Jakjeon, Incheon BPA (Best Prep Academy) near Jeongja station in Bundang, Korea Berkeley Language School, Haeundae, Busan Sogang Language Program (SLP) in Songpa Gu Pagoda Junior Hwajeong Yeonsei language school Gumi Genesis English Academy, Ilsan Avalon/Langcon Academy in Pyeongtaek Wiz Island - Janghanpyeong / Dongdaemun Branch PalsLab Hagwon in Yeontong-gu, Suwon-si Boramae UBestA Language School/ UBestA Language Institute in Yeongdeungpo-gu, Seoul Youngseon Middle School in Jeollabuk-do Maple Bear Songpa or Maple Bear Bundang Global Tesol SLP's Hwajeong branch YBM ECC Suseong-gu Daegu Miracle Academy, Suseong-gu, Daegu KDLP Korean Dual-Language Program, Gimhae South Korea Dongnae Yeonje Gu SLP (Seogang Language program) in Busan ESL Academy in Yeonsu-dong, Chungju (aka FTK ESL Academy, Chungju) BaeUm Kids English Village, Haan dong, Gwangmyeong, Gyeonggi do Best Prep Academy (BPA) in Jeongja JungChul English Academy, Palyong-dong, Changwon CCLE (Canadian Cultural Language Experience) Jeongja Worwick Franklin Institute, Jeongja Chungdahm and CDI April Gwangmyoung, Cheolsan Station Geumjeong Corem in Busan Namcheon Eastern English Academy in Busan LOTIS, Leaders of Tomorrow International School in Jamsil UACE International Language Institute, Suji Woosong University in Daejeon, South Korea Kings Kids English Academy in Gangnam and Songpa Wonderland in Hyangnam, near Hwaseong-si, Gyeonggi-do World Prep School in Geoje Seoil Foreign Language Institute in Yullyang-dong Sangdang-gu (Cheongju, Chungbuk) E. Bo Young Talking Club, Chungju Advanced Junior English in Bundang SLP Dongnae in Busan TLBU GLOBAL school in goyang MLS (My Language School), in Kyungsung University area, Busan JC English academy in jecheon South Korea submitted by
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2023.06.09 05:25 Global_mobile21 Those Who Graduated Without an Internship
I graduated in 2020 without being able to secure an internship. Since then, my job hunt for roles in my field has been exhausting. I did get a per diem part time role in my field in 2021, but had to leave earlier than I wanted to. The pay was terrible with unstable hours. The commute alone ate up a decent amount of my pay and was super long. What's upsetting is that my coworkers who could afford to stay or live in the city were able to get more experience and get full time roles. Now I feel trapped in low paying part time customer service roles, no matter how hard I try. My desired field is media/entertainment. I am aiming for entry level admin roles. I have had some interviews for full time admin positions inside my field and outside my field. Like so many other job hunters, I've gotten ghosted too many times to count.
I will say I'm not opposed to switching fields at all. Literally whatever role has a decent enough salary I'm okay with. My question is, for anyone who graduated without an internship, did you eventually find work in your field? Or even a decent paying job in a field you never intended om being in? What did you do to better your situation? It just feels impossible to gain experience outside of internships. I've even seen some job postings that don't even count internships as experience. I did make a stride and had a quick career chat with someone who works in my field and gave me some tips. I'm just at a loss of what else to do.Thank you!
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2023.06.09 05:11 Academic-Ad-7088 27M doesn't put effort into relationship with 27F, who is ready for marriage
tl;dr I've (27F) been with this guy(27M) for almost 8 years on and off. We're celibate and believe we should wait for marriage. We've grown together and now I'm ready for the next step. I worry about our future together because he never plans things in the relationship and in his own life. He has a stressful job and I'm very understanding. He's house hunting for his family and has no time for me basically.
He's very comfortable in the relationship now and thinks I'll always be around when he remembers me. I make all the plans to hangout. If I don't he doesn't offer to make any plans, doesn't surprise me anymore. Bc of his job if I do see him most of the time it's for 1-3 hours at a time. He makes me feel bad for hanging out with him for long periods of time. He's my best friend and now it's really annoying me how he makes me feel like a chore to hangout with. Im getting fed up and today was the last straw. I've been asking him since yesterday to make a plan to just see me for 30 mins the next day, to get coffee and go back to work. He's made no effort to actually commit to a plan for today. We don't live far from each other btw. So now as I FaceTime him 9pm, bc he barely calls me, his friend hits him up to hangout. My bf tells me he's getting married soon I won't see him as much. I said no hangout with me and he still went to his friends. And that he will make it up tomorrow. But he will prob just blow up my phone tomorrow and I won't answer . But like wtf I've been asking you to see me for at bare minimum 30 mins and you can't even do that for me. His friend would def choose his fiance over hanging out with friends no question about it. But my bf is the total opposite all the time.
We're both late 20s and I just want something stable. Like the same love and respect, you have when you're about to be married is the love I give and want back. I just love, love and he's always been like this but now it's like I'm begging him to even answer a ft call. I'm so upset with him, he doesn't listen to me, he just kindve dismisses it and on to "less arguing more having fun convo." I'm light hearted and a little goofy/fun and he takes advantage bc he knows I'll let it go. I feel like I'm the problem like an enabler for this behavior but I love him and I don't know why he's treating me like I'm nothing. I feel naive. How should one approach this situation?
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2023.06.09 05:06 No_Damage7940 I'm Yelling my heart out here since i have no one to speak about this!
So! I have been job hunting for 2 years now! meanwhile, i did a BootCamp to change my career for it and kept working on it. in these 2 years, life isn't fair to me! I'm not victim-playing! i started stressing out, gained weight even following a proper diet, i found out my son has ASD, later last year Nov we found my dad has stage 4 cancer and i couldn't look at his PET CT.... cancer spread over all his organs and it was so traumatic to know that he will die soon and still give false hopes to my mom! He died on December 24th! 2 weeks later i found out the pain in my ankle is from a grade 3 ligament tear and had to wear a casting for 4 months and it still pains but less than my heart!. I was close with my dad and always spend most of my free time on video calls with him! i live in another country! Now i have no one to talk to! i don't wanna pour my sadness to others and let them know im at my lowest and sobbing every day! since i know that no one cares! today i messaged 6 people in LinkedIn almost begging for a job, i wanna divert my thoughts to something els! i have a video of my dad from my last year's birthday wishes! i just keep rewatching it to listen to his voice! i soothes me but still, the void from his absence is just getting bigger every day!.............. DAD.......... I MISS YOU! i just wish i could say it so loud
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2023.06.09 04:43 Kimfun23 My avatar review
Avatar James Cameron directed Avatar, previously he has directed The Terminator franchise, Aliens, and Titanic. It stars Zoe Saldana, Sam Worthington from Terminator Salvation, Sigourney Weaver from the Alien franchise, Michelle Rodriguez, Joel David Moore, laz Alonso, and Stephen Lang.
A former Marine, Jake Sully (Sam Worthington) is tasked with becoming an Avatar to get information on the Na’vi people by gaining their trust, to try and convince them to leave their home. Sully Then reports back to the military so they could come and mine Unobtanium on their land.
I watched Avatar when I was younger and found it boring, watching it as an adult however, I really enjoyed it. It had action, beautiful scenes, and a touching yet sad story.
There is lots of adventure and action throughout this movie. While Neytiri (Zoe Saldana) was training Sully to live like Na’vi people, he learned how to: ride a direhorse, banshee, hunt, and speak their language. Sully riding animals, reminded me of when Harry rode Buckbeak in Harry Potter, in both films they were scared but after flying, they both seemed to enjoy it. The final fight has a lot of action with the Na’vi trying to save their home from the military.
Mauro Fiore, the cinematographer and director James Cameron did an incredible job making Pandora look very beautiful. Avatar was the first successful movie to combine live action and c.g.i (computer generated imagery), with the movie being 60 percent c.g.i., yet looking realistic.
At first Sully was on the side of the military and was there to gather information. As time goes on he learns that even though the Navi people don’t live like he does, they have a long history of living in Pandora and deserve to keep their home. Unfortunately, the military still wanted the land for themselves. When I watched this when I was younger I clearly didn’t appreciate the impact this movie had on Hollywood or the deeper meaning behind it. Most people have probably already seen Avatar, but if you haven’t, I would recommend it.
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2023.06.09 04:42 Kimfun23 My review of avatar 2009.
Avatar James Cameron directed Avatar, previously he has directed The Terminator franchise, Aliens, and Titanic. It stars Zoe Saldana, Sam Worthington from Terminator Salvation, Sigourney Weaver from the Alien franchise, Michelle Rodriguez, Joel David Moore, laz Alonso, and Stephen Lang.
A former Marine, Jake Sully (Sam Worthington) is tasked with becoming an Avatar to get information on the Na’vi people by gaining their trust, to try and convince them to leave their home. Sully Then reports back to the military so they could come and mine Unobtanium on their land.
I watched Avatar when I was younger and found it boring, watching it as an adult however, I really enjoyed it. It had action, beautiful scenes, and a touching yet sad story.
There is lots of adventure and action throughout this movie. While Neytiri (Zoe Saldana) was training Sully to live like Na’vi people, he learned how to: ride a direhorse, banshee, hunt, and speak their language. Sully riding animals, reminded me of when Harry rode Buckbeak in Harry Potter, in both films they were scared but after flying, they both seemed to enjoy it. The final fight has a lot of action with the Na’vi trying to save their home from the military.
Mauro Fiore, the cinematographer and director James Cameron did an incredible job making Pandora look very beautiful. Avatar was the first successful movie to combine live action and c.g.i (computer generated imagery), with the movie being 60 percent c.g.i., yet looking realistic.
At first Sully was on the side of the military and was there to gather information. As time goes on he learns that even though the Navi people don’t live like he does, they have a long history of living in Pandora and deserve to keep their home. Unfortunately, the military still wanted the land for themselves. When I watched this when I was younger I clearly didn’t appreciate the impact this movie had on Hollywood or the deeper meaning behind it. Most people have probably already seen Avatar, but if you haven’t, I would recommend it.
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2023.06.09 04:38 Kimfun23 My avatar review
Avatar James Cameron directed Avatar, previously he has directed The Terminator franchise, Aliens, and Titanic. It stars Zoe Saldana, Sam Worthington from Terminator Salvation, Sigourney Weaver from the Alien franchise, Michelle Rodriguez, Joel David Moore, laz Alonso, and Stephen Lang.
A former Marine, Jake Sully (Sam Worthington) is tasked with becoming an Avatar to get information on the Na’vi people by gaining their trust, to try and convince them to leave their home. Sully Then reports back to the military so they could come and mine Unobtanium on their land.
I watched Avatar when I was younger and found it boring, watching it as an adult however, I really enjoyed it. It had action, beautiful scenes, and a touching yet sad story.
There is lots of adventure and action throughout this movie. While Neytiri (Zoe Saldana) was training Sully to live like Na’vi people, he learned how to: ride a direhorse, banshee, hunt, and speak their language. Sully riding animals, reminded me of when Harry rode Buckbeak in Harry Potter, in both films they were scared but after flying, they both seemed to enjoy it. The final fight has a lot of action with the Na’vi trying to save their home from the military.
Mauro Fiore, the cinematographer and director James Cameron did an incredible job making Pandora look very beautiful. Avatar was the first successful movie to combine live action and c.g.i (computer generated imagery), with the movie being 60 percent c.g.i., yet looking realistic.
At first Sully was on the side of the military and was there to gather information. As time goes on he learns that even though the Navi people don’t live like he does, they have a long history of living in Pandora and deserve to keep their home. Unfortunately, the military still wanted the land for themselves. When I watched this when I was younger I clearly didn’t appreciate the impact this movie had on Hollywood or the deeper meaning behind it. Most people have probably already seen Avatar, but if you haven’t, I would recommend it.
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2023.06.09 04:37 Kimfun23 My avatar review
Avatar James Cameron directed Avatar, previously he has directed The Terminator franchise, Aliens, and Titanic. It stars Zoe Saldana, Sam Worthington from Terminator Salvation, Sigourney Weaver from the Alien franchise, Michelle Rodriguez, Joel David Moore, laz Alonso, and Stephen Lang.
A former Marine, Jake Sully (Sam Worthington) is tasked with becoming an Avatar to get information on the Na’vi people by gaining their trust, to try and convince them to leave their home. Sully Then reports back to the military so they could come and mine Unobtanium on their land.
I watched Avatar when I was younger and found it boring, watching it as an adult however, I really enjoyed it. It had action, beautiful scenes, and a touching yet sad story.
There is lots of adventure and action throughout this movie. While Neytiri (Zoe Saldana) was training Sully to live like Na’vi people, he learned how to: ride a direhorse, banshee, hunt, and speak their language. Sully riding animals, reminded me of when Harry rode Buckbeak in Harry Potter, in both films they were scared but after flying, they both seemed to enjoy it. The final fight has a lot of action with the Na’vi trying to save their home from the military.
Mauro Fiore, the cinematographer and director James Cameron did an incredible job making Pandora look very beautiful. Avatar was the first successful movie to combine live action and c.g.i (computer generated imagery), with the movie being 60 percent c.g.i., yet looking realistic.
At first Sully was on the side of the military and was there to gather information. As time goes on he learns that even though the Navi people don’t live like he does, they have a long history of living in Pandora and deserve to keep their home. Unfortunately, the military still wanted the land for themselves. When I watched this when I was younger I clearly didn’t appreciate the impact this movie had on Hollywood or the deeper meaning behind it. Most people have probably already seen Avatar, but if you haven’t, I would recommend it.
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2023.06.09 04:36 Allexis94 Family of 3 in need of some help!
Hello! Due to an unforeseen round of layoffs at my husbands job, we’ve found ourselves struggling to get by while job hunting. Im currently pregnant (23 weeks. Omg!) and we have a 14 month old at home. Any amount of money to help with diapers/wipes or gas money would help out a ton. My car is out of gas and our bank is in the hole but with gas I could hopefully go out to DoorDash to try and get us by.
I appreciate any and all help!
https://www.paypal.me/allexis94?locale.x=en_US I also have cashapp under the same name. Allexis94.
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2023.06.09 04:03 AlexShadow21 I am so over it
So I started a new position about a week ago, which coming with the territory means training and mistakes are going to be made as I am learning the ropes right?
Well backstory, I have been in the same field for 5 years (hospital nursing), I decide I need more work than my previous position was able to give. Originally 32 hrs a pay period was more than enough to live on, but now not so much so I decided to hunt for atleast 40hrs a pay period. So I find this job and apply and accept the role.
HUGE MISTAKE. I am not even 3 days there, and they throw me to the wolves, alone completely with 40 tasks I have never encountered before in my previous nursing role. I am asking for help, only to be scoffed at and mocked like I am the idiot of the pack. The other nurses speaking in hushed tones about "the new nurse is kind of stupid", writting messages about me in the hospital chatroom (think discord, but for hospital staff to IM eachother). While you may think, "Alex how do you know they are talking about you?" let me tell you the lovellyyy event that occured at lunch my first week.
I was eating lunch outside because the weather is nice, no rain or bad weather in sight, which seems fine right? Wrong. I come in and all the sudden the nurses around me are screaming and making a big deal that I had 2 small blades of grass in my hair as I was laying in the grassy court yard trying to relax my mind a bit. This explodes because 1 nurse then reports me to HR and management and I get written up for "not complying to company standard dress code". Instead of the nurses simply coming to me and being civil saying "hey, you have some grass in your hair, may want to fix it" they report me and have me FOR THE FIRST TIME EVER IN MY 5 YEARS AS A NURSE, written up.. I returned to my desk to see all my "coworkers"smirking and asking "what happened" as if playing dumb to not knowing EXACTLY what it was.
I just dont know what to do or where to turn. I regret leaving my previous role every day I return to this godforsaken new position. I have no outlet, as clearly the HR department is only for the people that have been there the longest. I could not even explain my case before that lovely pink notice was flaunted in my face. Whats worse is the company has a 6 month minimum position policy, where I am forced to work this role for 6 months before i am allowed to begin looking for other employment.
I just dont know what to do. In all my years nursing, I have never felt more alone, lost, and hurt. In a mere 3 weeks I started in this position, I have come home crying because the incessant bullying and belittling remarks I receive every shift. Asking for help on new tasks I am not familiar with I receive eye rolls and scoffs of attitude, many times followed by "how long have you worked here? you dont know this? -_-" I just want to scream..clearly I dont know or i would not be asking.
Its come to the low point that my alarm goes off and I have to tell myself not to cry. I just do not think time is going to make this position easy..the people and honestly the over all aura in the building feels like a toxic miasma. To add to the story, it is k nown in other departments that severe bullying is happening in this specific area.
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2023.06.09 03:55 absoluteScientific Do people still submit cover letters if the job posting doesn’t state they are required?
I feel like this has become less common in recent years but I’m not sure. Getting back into the swing of job hunting after a few years of not needing to so wanted to get a reality check on this particular matter.
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2023.06.09 03:26 AnAngryGardenGnome Short Story of my Ironman playthrough so far
It's been almost a week since I entered the Zone.
With nothing to my name but a pistol and a second hand suit, I needed to find a way to get better gear if I wanted to reach The Heart of the Zone, and find out if the Wish Granter was real, or just another story that drunkard at the bar made up to have someone buy him a drink.
After a couple of days of travelling between Cordon and Garbage, I decided I had head north to Rostok and find a way through the Red Forest in order to get to Pripyat before spring.
On my way there I found a corpse on the ground: a Mercenary, he had a nice modified MP5 on him, and some coordinates to a stash in Truck Cemetery.
Had it be from someone else I would have probably ignored it, but it being from a Merc, it tempted me like a siren on the sharp rocks
Nonetheless I decided that for the time being I needed some better gear if I even just dreamed of going there.
Spoke with a certain Colonel Petrenko for about an hour, and decided to help Duty out for a while, the pay is good, and the jobs are pretty straight forward.
Made a friend in the form of the local technician: Mangun, though I guess Sponge would be a better name for him, due all the empty bottles of vodka I saw lying around his shop.
But, everyone got their coping mechanism in the zone, alcool is one of the least dangerous ones I suppose, better than hunting mutants or going for a jog in the swamps anyway.
A couple of days passed, and I amassed about 30k Rubles and repaired a double barrel shotgun, and baptized it with a short hunt.
I then decided to stock up in vodka and buy a Basic Toolkit from Spirit, yet another drunk, this time loitering in the Yantar region, right next to the scientists. Honestly I'm just surprised he didn't manage to get his hands on their medical alcohol, but I digress.
Mangun was ecstatic when I handed it to him, to give credit where credit is due, that man managed to keep a platoon worth of weapons and gear functional with very minimal equipment, and in a complete stupor for most of the time.
Something was still gnawing at the back of my head every day since I found it.
That stash
Every time I glanced over at the map, it was mocking me: a giant green circle in the middle of rows of cars, like a bright middle finger pointed directly at my face.
It was time I confronted my fears and head there.
I decided I'll deliver a package to Army Warehouse first, then head south towards it.
While giving away the small parcel I met 2 loners passing by, I convinced them to join me and try to get to the stash, we would split the loot once returned to Rostok.
And there it was, an ocean of wrecks and anomalies laying in front of us.
Can't quite make it out in words, but the whole place seemed to shift around every time I would look away for a moment, as if it was haunted by the ghosts of all the people that died in those vehicles, being them heroes or jackals.
Being part of the latter, I decided not to dwell on that thought further, and just move on.
After dispatching part of the local fauna we slowly crept south-east, stopping only to check the map and to listen for the direction of distant gunfire.
I heard a lot of horror stories from other Loners regarding the Cemetery, from bloodsucking monstrosities to mind altering midgets, to hooded people that would just make you blow your own brain without moving a muscle, but nothing would prepare me for what we were about to meet.
We approached the last turn of our journey with great caution as the floor was littered with dozens of blind-dogs and boars.
I thought that maybe a group of Duty soldier culled the area, but the closer we got to them, the more we noticed that there were no bullet wounds, but rather they seemed as if they have been crushed under an immense weigh.
As if on cue, with a thunderous step, a giant stepped out of a burrow, I thought of it a boulder of some sort at first, but as it uncovered from the debris it mantled itself with, I started to notice the features of a disgusted and disgruntled face, framed in between two legs the size of ancient oak trunks.
I panicked and bolted for the roof of one of the trucks behind me, my companions were not as lucky: the first one died on the spot, having his entire body been folded into a pool of gore and bones.
I reached for the other one to come closer and grab my hand, but he was too terrified to hear reason and just kept shooting at the abomination.
I... prefer not to speak of what happened to him.
I kept pelleting the beast from my position, jumping from a truck to the other when it would get to close to tipping the one I was standing on.
In the end however it was not me who killed it, but The Zone itself.
In its blind rage it charged through an anomaly and got trapped in it, not even its might could save it from what The Zone had in stock.
After getting down from the truck I searched for what remained of my former comrades: an AK-105 from the first and a gas mask from the second.
I leaned over a car, only to see a small tool box inside of it.
All the pain, all the horror, it would have been worth it, if only for this treasure.
I opened it, and found only a few cans of food and a moldy suit, way too ruined to be worn by anyone.
It was all for nothing.
2 brave Stalker have been lost to the zone, and I got nothing to show for it.
I retreated back to Rostok, and sat down on the mattress set up for me across the hall from Mangun's shop.
"I don't even remember their names" I muttered
"I didn't even pay attention to their names"
The Zone changed me for the worst.
I want out of here, but there is no place for me outside now.
I am now part of The Zone, and will be lost to it.
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2023.06.09 03:17 threadlight 32 [M4F] netherlands / anywhere - In the mood for I don't know
Rough summary:
- 32M
- Born and living in The Netherlands
- Long walks
- Eating out
- Poker night
- Movies
- Tv shows
- Trying new food
- Reading
- Played a lot of league of legends but lost interest some time ago. I was plat at my peak
- Like trivia games
- Working full time in IT, mostly from home, good with computers in general
- Doing intermittent fasting diet currently
- 173 cm / 5'8". 80 kg / 176 lb. Pale. Still got all my (black) hair. Brown eyes.
- Outside stuff includes:
- hunting for new restaurants / places on tripadvisor
- walking through the city and parks, finding new places
- gelatto ice cream...got to try as many flavor as possible..
- damn this is hard
- Like doing lot of experimental drugs, 5-MeO-MiPT and 4-HO-MET and those kind of things.
- I also have a boring degree and boring corporate job.
Music:
- Synthwave
- Chillsynth
- Yu-utsu
- Billy talent
- Slipknot
- Shingo nakamura
- Tiesto
- Phoenix
- Snarky puppy
- Bôa
- Jimmy eat world
- Mitski
- Placebo
- Bullet for my valentine
- Emil rottmayer
- Carpenter brut
- Daft punk
- Potsu
- Max richter
- Drum and bass
- Infected mushroom
- Ratatat
- Neelix
- Fred falke
- Crystal castles
Reading:
- Science fiction
- Mainstream lit
- Some fantasy
- Non-fiction: educational/fun
I have watched a lot of tv shows and movies. I like drama, romance, mystery, adventure, fantasy, sci-fi, surival, heavy dialog movies. Movies I like include: american beauty, the english patient, 'before' trilogy, mystic river, against the ice, arctic, annihilation, her, timecrimes, the remains of the day (book too) and much much much more
Selfie exchange possible, I'll be in sunglasses though. Telegram or DMs, whichever you prefer.
Finishing remarks:
I am a poor sleeper.
Lately feeling existential dread.
I have no specific expectations or set destination in mind with this.
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2023.06.09 02:57 Reasonable-Lab985 Can’t sleep and I need to vent
Hi guys. It’s like 3:56 am where I live. I can’t sleep, and I haven’t been able to sleep properly in a while. I have a massive depressive episode which have been hunting me since the very beginning of this year. I’ve had this depression since… idk, many years. I almost can’t remember what it’s like to feel normal, at least for a moment. I’m always foggy, tired, and irritated, anxious, etc. My mind is a carousel.
The main reason of my depression are actually my parents. I’m 24 yo/ f, I live with my partner 27 yo/ m who I’ve been with for 4 years already.
The issues I have right now: my parents moved abroad during my last year of uni, which was 3 years ago. They actually went on a vacation to Spain, and never returned. As romantic as it sounds, it is actually not at al… they left their house, our house, in the care of my grandmother. The house is huge (2 living rooms, 1 gigantic kitchen, 2 big bathrooms, 2 bedrooms and a dressing room which was initially a bedroom as well + 1 garage which was transformed into a mini gym). My grandma cannot take proper care of the house, so obviously it started to degrade very fast: walls cracked, furniture needs to be changed, there’s an actual massive pipe issue within the house structure, so the whole sanitary system is not working at the moment. The yard looks like a jungle. I live 6-7 hours away from that house so there is no way I can get there and get things done. Even if I had the possibility of going to that house more often, I don’t have the material means to invest, I have a home of my own and bills, and I pay my own education. I live paycheck to paycheck right now with all that going on.
My parents are trying for already 3 years to open a restaurant in Spain, which has been sabotaged by local restaurants and authorities countless times already. Because Spain unfortunately is very racist… my problem is my parents left there and expected to make a fortune. Instead, they ended up in court (they sued the supplier which they bought the building from because they fraud the infrastructure paperwork of the restaurant which put their lives at risk). And also reported local competitors for stalking them and trying to break in and vandalize my parents local. Authorities ignored their charges even when presented with video proofs….
My parents initially tried to force me and my bf to move abroad immediately after they left… we refused, they couldn’t accept the “no” and started to act crazy. They wanted to offer me their apartment they live in, in Spain, as a birthday gift. I accepted it as they wanted. But after a while they took away the gift because, well, obviously what’s the point of gifting me an apartment I can’t use since it’s in another country + they live in there. They suggested to give me the apartment after they start earning money and move out to another place. I suggested, if they really want to buy me a property, to buy one here where I live so I could use it effectively. They immediately started accusing me of wanting their money… somehow…. And assumed I am manipulated by my bf and they even called him and threatened him with violence. They tried to break us up. Now they make no money, and are covered in debt they lied to me about. They told me they borrowed money from family members… but I found out from my grandma that the amount was way way way larger than they told me…. At some point they started calling me when I was working at the office and fight with me through the phone. Even if I told them I was at work, they would keep shouting in the phone. I had to hang up on them multiple times and just block their numbers through the day to keep myself focused from them.
They had the opportunity to sell our house I was talking about previously… when the agency called, they told the broker that the price is outdated and they need to think further to raise it. They didn’t do it because the house would be truly worth more… they did it to: 1. Take somehow revenge on my grandma who’s taking care of the house, because she is also not ok with how my parents behave and how they are handling things, 2. Blame my grandma for wanting their money, even tho a big part from the loan was landed by my grandma to them, 3. Pure greed… my parents love money, always have, and have always been greedy. That’s why they bought the restaurant with landed money, believing they would magically become rich (and they said it with their own mouths). They ended up not selling the house at all in the end… just for the sake of petty revenge and greed. And that’s house is not worth more than the initial price because if someone buys it, that person needs to redecorate and repare some big portions of the house. They could have sold it and cover the debts they have… but they didn’t..
Last month, on 11th April, was my birthday… my parents called me to tell me happy birthday… and scream again their nonsense regarding why I no longer talk to them like I used to. I told them everything that was hurting me regarding their behavior. My mom started crying, my dad was screaming on the background. My mom hang up the phone. After that fight they started lying to the whole family that I do drugs and they are worried… I don’t even smoke or drink, even less consume substances… and the hypocrisy is they actually are both massive weed consumers.
I am in an emotional mess. I haven’t been able to focus on my work since the beginning of the year. Also, I have examen session. So far I have failed 2 consecutive exams and I think I’m failing the one I had today as well…. I can’t sleep well, and when I do I only dream crazy things and have night terrors. I dreamed I was murdered a couple of nights ago. I started taking melatonin, but it doesn’t really help. I keep playing in my heads things my parents said and have done…. I also have past trauma from childhood caused by them. My dad worked as a loan shark, along with a group of friends. They were like mafia in the little town I lived. My dad had issues with gambling, drugs, alcohol, cheated on my mom, beat and rape her while I was at home with them….
I totally feel like a failure, like I am not a normal person. I gained a lot of weight due to stress… I used to look phenomenal when I was about 17 years old. Now I look every year like… older, fatter, more tired. I feel like a failure. I lost my period, due to pcos. I fail my exams… and I can’t focus on my job either. I don’t know what to do at this point. I feel trapped in this reality.
Anyways, it’s a long post… but I wanted to vent.
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