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2023.03.27 05:04 T1m3Wizard Is anyone able to help me or thoroughly explain the various Workday accounts/portals (for the same company) I supposedly have to have ?
This is my first time having to use this disaster of a management software as an employee and it's a pain in the a--. I'm pretty tech savvy and tend to pick up interfaces and platforms vary quickly but a lot of these functions are just un-navigable and doesn't make sense. For example, why are there 3 different links/portals -
https://wd3.myworkday.com/[company] - This is supposedly the one where the company assigns you a username to login and to begin the onboarding process and to communicate with your team + payroll if I'm not mistaken. Please let me know if it's also used for anything else that I might be unaware of.
- What annoys me is that I am asked to check my email and enter a passcode every time I login. Is there a way to disable this type of 2FA?
- To add another layer of confusion, the same link above also has an option depending on which browser you use to login via Microsoft account using your company email. I have no idea whether or not the landing page would be the same or if additional options would be made available to me at this point as I have not yet been assigned those credentials yet. Any information here would be greatly appreciated.
https://[company].wd3.myworkdayjobs.com/[company]-Careers - This I believe is the link/portal where you first use to apply for the job. Idiotic because you have to create a new account for every different company you apply to.
- Being that I believe this is only used for the initial application, would I still have to maintain this account going forward? And are these accounts mentioned above in anyway associated with each other or are they considered separate accounts altogether?
Thanks a ton to anyone who is able to help and the more experienced users.
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2023.03.27 05:04 Holiday-Possible29 The Lone Human Part 5
Hey everyone! I hope that you all enjoyed the last part. I wasn’t originally going to spend the time I did on the wedding, but I felt that if I didn’t, then I wouldn’t be able to flesh out the characters as much as I would have liked to otherwise. In this part, I finally get to write a story idea that I have had for the last four days or so. The one issue with that, however, is I learned that I don’t know how to write children characters, so I hope I didn’t do half bad. I also hope that you all like it! Once again, shoutout to
u/wolven91 for the fantastic universe. Also, sorry I didn’t get this out as fast as I would have liked too. This weekend was really hectic and I kind of forgot.
Part 1 Part 2 Part 3 Part 4 -------------------------------------------------------
Orbiting around a planet, there was a space station, and on that station was an apartment. An apartment that had changed hands many times over the years, but now found itself in the ownership of two people that it never would have thought of, a male human and a female ssypno.
The walls that were once bare and lifeless were given new life, as they were covered in a fresh coat of paint, and covered floor to ceiling with paintings, pictures, and children’s drawings. The floor was redone with carpeting that humans preferred, and on that carpet was toys of various sizes and shapes littered about the place. It was quiet, save for the sound of a tv playing.
The brief reprieve from noise was broken as a shrill shriek pierced the air. A human child with golden hair, no older than six years old, came sprinting into the room with a massive smile on her face. She was quickly followed by a ssypno child with lime green scales who looked like she was on the hunt. “Save me dad!” the child shrieked as she dived onto the couch and wormed her way behind Jacob, who was sitting there watching the tv.
“Grace, what are you-“ was all that he managed to get out before getting bowled over by the ssypno child, knocking over the couch along with the two humans sitting on it.
“Is everything alright in there?” came the call from the other room as Tal’ven came into the room.
“Give it back!” hissed the ssypno child, who started coiling tightly around Grace.
“Fir’na, release your sister this instant!” cried Tal’ven as she picked up the children and separated them easily.
“I didn’t do anything! She’s being mean!” squealed Grace as she desperately tried to hide from Fir’na.
“She stole my heating pad!” shouted Fir’na as she tried to stare daggers into where she knew Grace was hiding.
Jacob took a deep breath. He knew from experience that parenting was tough, but when he and Tal’ven had decided to adopt not one, but two orphans from the adoption crisis from a couple years back, he never even considered the challenges that they would face as they raised them. He was the first one to admit that he wasn’t a perfect parent, but he would try his hardest to be a good father.
“Grace,” he started diplomatically, “did you steal Fir’na’s heating pad?” She nodded her head shamefully. “Ok, and why did you do that?”
She shrugged. “She was being mean and saying that she was your favorite.”
“Girls, I love you both equally, that’s the first thing that I want to tell you. The second thing I want to tell you is that you can’t just steal each other’s things. Ok?” She nodded. “Ok, now tell Fir’na sorry for stealing her heating pad.” With a little more insisting on the part of Tal’ven, she finally apologized. “Good. Now Fir’na, it’s not ok to chase people and use force to get your way. Ok?” Fir’na, still staring daggers at Grace, nodded. “Now apologize to Grace for chasing her.” It took some more prodding from Tal’ven and Jacob before she finally apologized. “Now that that’s been taken care of, who wants to watch a movie?”
After ten minutes of debate and appeasement of the two children, they finally settled on Treasure Planet. A classic from Jacob’s childhood, long before humanity had discovered aliens, and were still optimistic that they wouldn’t have the most rotten luck in the galaxy. He thought of his life back then. Tears started to flow as he thought of the simpler times when his biggest worries were getting his tax return done on time, and what the neighbors and his boss thought of him. Now, his biggest worries were all of those things in addition to being a member of the unluckiest species in the galaxy. As he stood on the precipice of despair threatening to overwhelm him, Grace snuggled up closer to him, and he felt the reassuring grip of Tal’ven’s hand in his. He reminded himself that if it weren’t for those things happening to him, he wouldn’t have met the people that he did, and wouldn’t have the family that he had. Despite all of this, he couldn’t help but mourn for what could have been.
As the movie ended, the family started their end of day rituals. Pajamas were put on, and teeth were brushed. In the time between the movie starting and ending, both Jacob and Tal’ven had completely forgotten about the issue of Fir’na’s heating pad. After a couple of minutes of trying to get the information from Grace, Tal’ven finally had enough and gave her a stern stare. She almost immediately cracked and told everyone that she was hiding it under her bed. Jacob started searching under the bed before giving a cry of shock, startling everyone except for Grace, who just looked ashamed.
“So that’s where this went! I’ve been looking for this for three days!” he shouted as he pulled an old leather wallet out from under the bed. “Grace, why did you hide this?”
Without looking up from the ground, she meekly said, “I wanted you to stay home and play with us.”
His heart melted as she uttered those words. “Sweety, I know that I’ve been working a lot, but I promise I’ll take a day off and spend it with you guys.” He pulled Grace and Fir’na into a tight hug. “I promise.”
After the assurances the children had gotten, they both climbed into bed.
“Tell us a story dad!” they practically demanded.
He sighed, “Ok, but just one though,” he said as he dragged the well-worn chair from the corner to in front of their beds. “What story do you want to hear? The story of the time mom and I went skydiving?” At the mention of that Tal’ven suppressed a shudder. “Or do you want to hear about when your mom saved me from some muggers?”
“How did you meet mom?” asked Fir’na curiously.
“You want to hear that?” Both Grace and Fir’na gave an aggressive nod. “Alright, but mom’s going to have to fill in some gaps because it’s her story as much as it is mine.” Jacob chuckled, thinking back all those years ago. Tal’ven gave a nod along with a reassuring squeeze on his shoulder.
“Alright kids, this is the story of how I met your mother.”
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2023.03.27 05:04 lizardnewb Franchise Mode and FOMO
This is gonna be the dumbest post you've read all day, so consider yourself warned.
Alright, I'm just starting year 5 in a Hawks munchkin rebuild. The rebuild is long over, I literally don't need to draft a single player for next year's roster; although I have about 15 players, many of them elite, coming up for contract. I also still have Ken Walker, who is an X-Factor (but never active,) and 99 overall in Elusive Back, and almost a 99 in Power Back. He's 25 years old, and it's going to cost some actual money to keep him since I've put a couple of 2K yard seasons on his resume already.
Whelp, it turns out this year's draft is highlighted by an 83 overall (yes, I cheated to look because I REALLY don't want to draft this kid) elusive back who looks quite a bit like, young Ken Walker; 94 speed, 96 acceleration, 90+ CoD right out of the box. I can definitely get him in the range I'm drafting; I just have no use for another halfback. We run 3 guys who touch the ball already; an elusive main back, a powerback on the goal line, and a WR turned into a HB for 3rd down/passing.
My brain is telling me to forget this rookie even exists; but my perpetual fear of missing out is screaming "you never pass generational talent in Madden drafts at any position" and this guy is about as close as I've gotten; I don't think I've even seen a player higher than 83 in Franchise before, during the draft.
Do I do it? Do I pull the plug on objectively the best user RB in the game if you're using preseason 2022-23 rosters because "this new guy could be anything; he could even be Ken Walker?" How do you trade a fully blinged out Ken Walker without regretting it later if only because now someone else has Ken Walker?
Final note: I don't keep anyone who is 30+, like, period. So if I do keep Walker and pass the kid, we're talking about a single 4 year contract here; and he's probably only going to play 3 years of it because I'll be looking to move him for draft picks at 28ish. Does that change your answer?
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2023.03.27 05:03 kender486 I (36f) need my partner (37m) of 3.5 years to step up!
I (36f) have been with my partner (37m) for 3.5 years. We have a son (20 months), we'll call J, together and i have a daughter (10), we'll call C, from a previous relationship. OK, basics out of the way. I feel like I carry everything for the house and the kids. Just to be clear I don't expect him to help much with C, as she isn't his. That being said here's what I'm in charge of: groceries and general house supplies (dish soap, laundry soap, paper towels, toilet paper etc); clean laundry for myself and kids, put away laundry for myself and J; get kids to school/sitter; ensure all bags are packed with necessities for the day for Js sitter and myself for work, do dishes, pick up around thr house; bath J, ensure C is showered and ready for school; all of both kiddos appts which includes therapies for J as he's delayed; getting kids to appointments; taking time off when J is sick; and reminding him of things I'd like him to do (at his request). Things I see him in charge of: dinner each night (as i get off late), picking J up from sitter, putting J to bed after bath. Things I have to remind him: cleaning up the couch of dog hair (his dog); bringing trash cans up from the curb, mowing, shoveling, not leaving stuff around the dogs and J can get into, cleaning 2 bathrooms and making sure the dogs have food. Honestly I feel like his mother more than a partner. He will see something but completely walk right over it. Just the other day he left a trash bag in the hallway because he "forgot" to grab it. So I took it out after he left. Hes always saying he doesn't have time or can't do it with J around, but then how do I get so much done? I've tried talking to him, I've tried going away for a weekend. I've tried not doing anything, nothing works. I need him to step up and help me more. If he sees something DO something. TL;DR: I feel like my partner is my 3rd child that needs constant reminders to help around the house. How can I have a conversation about this maybe differently than I've had before?
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2023.03.27 05:03 jtr427 Who do I pick?? Need both a CM and CB in my team
2023.03.27 04:57 ronaldo123455 I took gattuso w?
2023.03.27 04:53 bomonty18 Maybe it’s wishful thinking…
puts on tin foil hat
Do y’all think perhaps this was the plan all along? Let’s back up though, as I haven’t said what the plan is.
Trade off players that make the Mavs a worse team but gives them Kyrie. Then tank the season and either A) Keep Kyrie or B) Trade him for someone else we can use. Then we use the draft pick to secure new player and make other FA moves?
Yes, this is some tin foil hat stuff. But it’s in the Mavs best interest to get a higher lottery pick. They have to know they can’t do anything in the playoffs. Also, as much as people hate on Jason Kidd, the guy HAS to know more about basketball in the NBA than probably 99.9999% of Reddit. His answers are so concerning, it really sometimes feels like this was the plan all along. And perhaps that’s part of why Luka has been so off? He knows we are intentionally trying to tank and it’s hard for him to stomach wasting his talent?
I obviously can’t prove this, but with my limited knowledge it seems plausible.
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2023.03.27 04:52 JimmieJ48fan Reddit Xfinity Series Fantasy League Week 7-Richmond (Sat 4-1 1pm)
Rules https://docs.google.com/document/d/1aD2BuCcoagD1rdbDeYdkwMml5ZXr71cBe1sdpql29mI/edit?usp=sharing NOTE: Make Sure before you select any Cup Level Drivers that you still have those picks left to be able to pick them. If you are unsure who counts as a Cup Level Driver pick please see the Xfinity/Truck picks section of the rule book in the link above. Standings after
Week 6 Rank | +/- | Driver | Points | Behind | Wins | Plof Pts | Winnings |
1 | -- | HoovDawg^ | 487 | Leader | 1 | 12 | $315,618 |
2 | -- | carpetbeggar^ | 484 | -3 | 0 | 6 | $282,042 |
3 | +1 | DaltonTG^ | 478 | -9 | 1 | 13 | $281,622 |
4 | -1 | hgimn* | 454 | -33 | 0 | 8 | $277,736 |
5 | -- | Maddi10* | 434 | -53 | 1 | 8 | $294,039 |
6 | +2 | MorganvstheWorld^ | 428 | -59 | 1 | 9 | $288,075 |
7 | +2 | JJohnson48fan* | 417 | -70 | 1 | 11 | $285,830 |
8 | -2 | Cherrypoptart* | 407 | -80 | 1 | 6 | $274,290 |
9 | +1 | justbo-lieve^ | 401 | -86 | 1 | 10 | $267,538 |
10 | -3 | JamieMcMurray26* | 370 | -117 | 0 | 2 | $269,017 |
11 | +1 | mva812^ | 338 | -149 | 0 | 3 | $244,282 |
12 | -1 | CaptainBert^ | 332 | -155 | 0 | 7 | $221,850 |
13 | -- | KJH278* | 328 | -159 | 0 | 3 | $218,677 |
"#" = Rookie
"+" = Clinched Playoff Position
Points Spreadsheet https://sheet.zohopublic.com/sheet/published/4cvt416346002abe845a68f62a66417903de6 Results https://sheet.zohopublic.com/sheet/published/4cvt48c944744612e401cb33bffc174f1c306 Manufacturer Standings after
Week 6 On the Manufacturer tab of the Points link above
ROTY Standings after
Week 6 On the ROTY tab of the Points link above
QUALIFYING DATE AND TIME Saturday April 1st at 8:30 AM EDT NEXT WEEK, SATURDAY APRIL 1st at 1:00 PM EDT Richmond Raceway. . . . . . . . . . . ToyotaCare 250 DASH4CASH Race PICKED RACE WINNER JJohnson48fan, justbo-lieve, DaltonTG, MorganvstheWorld, carpetbeggar, hgimn, Maddi10, and CaptainBert Poles Won (AKA: Highest Average Starting Position of Picks)
hgimn-1
CaptainBert-1
HoovDawg-1
*justbo-lieve-1
Races Won (AKA: Scored most points during a week)
Maddi10-1
Cherrypoptart-1
HoovDawg-1
MorganvstheWorld-1
DaltonTG-1
*JJohnson48fan-1
*justbo-lieve-1
CUP LEVEL DRIVER PICKS LEFT Driver | Left |
CaptainBert^ | 6 |
carpetbeggar^ | 5 |
Cherrypoptart* | 10 |
DaltonTG^ | 7 |
hgimn* | 8 |
HoovDawg^ | 9 |
JamieMcMurray26* | 9 |
JJohnson48fan* | 8 |
justbo-lieve^ | 6 |
KJH278* | 10 |
Maddi10* | 6 |
MorganvstheWorld^ | 8 |
mva812^ | 9 |
BACKUPS https://sheet.zohopublic.com/sheet/published/ayzpq82b2d1197be24c1f84938e7c42d0bf69 Used This Week: Cherrypoptart, JamieMcMurray26, and KJH278
Playoff Grid https://sheet.zohopublic.com/sheet/published/im39f8a24f8d8c72047cd9c618e614855a9fb Dash4Cash: COTA Qualifier Eligible at Richmond: JJohnson48fan, justbo-lieve, MorganvstheWorld, and DaltonTG
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2023.03.27 04:51 seewhatyoudidthere_ How do I cope with and move on from my grandpa possibly verbally abusing me? 28 F 84 M
For the last five years, I’ve moved to live closer to my grandparents. My grandma was diagnosed with dementia during this time. It’s obviously caused my grandpa stress, caring for her, and there have been times where he isn’t nice to me because of his stress. I cut him a break for so many years, but I had a heartbreaking reality this weekend that he is verbally abusing me. I came to this realization when I was over at his house and I was listening to him talk to my younger sister on the phone. He was talking to her normally, and when she mentioned she was sick, he was fine with her not coming over.
Today, my grandpa asked me to go pick him up something from the store, when I had time, which I did today, and I brought it over after I was done with coaching. He immediately asked what I was doing & I explained to him that he had called me this morning and asked to do this. Almost immediately, he starts in on me saying he “never did.” I then asked why he called me 4x in the afternoon, and I said I was at practice (I coach) and couldn’t answer the phone. I told him it was a last minute practice. He got upset with me and yelled at me for telling him this, because I initially told him our season doesn’t start until tomorrow (3/27).
I’ve slowly begun to realize that the stress isn’t the cause….He only talks to me like this. And it broke my heart.
Back in November, I had a bad migraine and couldn’t pick up the phone. He blasted me for it, and made me feel bad. He’s never once done that with my sister.
I don’t know what to do anymore.
TL;DR grandpa possibly verbally abusing me
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2023.03.27 04:50 burst-chan DAT Advice! Should I retake??
| Hi looking for some advice. Just retook my DAT and was wondering if I need to retake again or if I have a chance for this coming up cycle? Background: Worked as a RDA for 4yrs before going to hygiene. RDH for almost 3yrs now! GPA 3.33 Volunteer & shadowing hrs ~200-300+ Definitely nervous about my QR score and honestly thought I did better in Bio bc I was scoring 19/20s for the past week so not sure what happened :c I know that I may have to apply broadly, but I am a CA resident and would like to know what in-state and out-of-state schools I may have a chance at. Any advice would be appreciated!! https://preview.redd.it/z22rjxb947qa1.jpg?width=1460&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c59fe0154415848c20e2ee6d43b4ee2f59aa56f8 submitted by burst-chan to predental [link] [comments] |
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2023.03.27 04:50 lame_gaming i got this warning when opening lightroom classic. it worked before. any help?
2023.03.27 04:47 tsempath Going Through an Overwhelming Spiritual Awakening, need support!
I (25F) was raised by covert narcissists & once I moved away from home I had an overwhelming sense of freedom & call to figure out my "true identity". Finally, am able to think for myself & just simply be me without the control & manipulation of my parents. I also identify as a highly sensitive person as I can't even speak sometimes without crying, I am hyper aware of my surroundings/ body language/ the slightest change in energy of others. Internally, it's just exhausting to be me.
Lately, I've been seeing angel numbers every day multiple times a day (1111, 11:11, 1:11, 3:33, 333, 4:44, 5:55, 777). I cry minimum 3 times a day because my feelings are so heightened. I picked up a pen and started drawing for the first time and apparently drew something far far far advanced for someone who doesn't draw (according to an artist) - I'm assuming because my creativity has been suppressed my entire life, but it made me emotional that I may have hidden talents that were never explored. I look at a plant/ the sky and cry because I'm thankful to be alive. I have this urge to journal, draw, speak on my wisdom, meet like minded people, be a better person, but I don't have many people in my life that understand me. Life is just so overwhelming and I am always crying. I have a boyfriend now also that I hope is right for me as I'm going through this + hoping he has good intentions for me. I am forgiving my parents, while trying to keep boundaries. Also, at a crossroads with my career and need to make decisions fast. Just an overwhelming time. Do these numbers mean anything?
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2023.03.27 04:42 Witchybeauty879 My (40m) bf says he wants someone else because I (22f) won’t give him what he wants.
We are in a long distance relationship I live in Las Vegas he lives In California. He told me he wants to find someone else because I won’t give him what he wants. I have 2 twins I had to raise them all by myself. He wants me to come pick him up I told him my car doesn’t work and I don’t have money to fix it he says I’m making up excuses and lies so I don’t have to pick him up. He says he wants to find someone that will give him the time and love he needs. this fight has been going on for 5 months and he always acts like the victim and he ignores me for 3 hours straight. I don’t know what to do.
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2023.03.27 04:41 business_bear1 I did the impossible. I hoovered my ex back and got closure.
I want to preface this by saying that IMO I believe my ex is a high functioning borderline with narcissistic traits. I sorta hoovered her back through No Contact. I heard through the grape vine of my friends that she was looking to talk to me. I stayed no contact and she eventually hunted me down.
We dated for about a year long distance before she moved across 3 states to move in with me and within 6 weeks she started to devalue and discard me. The relationship became very toxic with silent treatment, stonewalling, gas lighting, lying, manipulation, etc It lasted another 2 months before she moved out. She monkey branched into a new relationship and a new group of friends while living together. I never received closure until recently
I went completely NO CONTACT for 5 months before she finally hunted me down at a music show she knew I'd be at. Slowly we've worked our way into a friendship, which has already been toxic, full of lies and manipulation. But I got to learn more about her perspective and her past.
Things I learned about her:
- She admitted to having childhood trauma and that she has been in and out of therapy for YEARS (news to me). She's currently back in therapy and working on herself. She mentioned that her trauma was that her parents never validated her, having high expectations of her in athletics and objectifying her, not being there for her when she was trying to express feelings or be heard, she never felt loved in their eyes and I think that bc she was never enough in her parent's eyes, her partners are never good enough in her eyes.. She mentioned other things but this was the jest of it.
- She jokingly asked if I had a voodoo doll of her, because she's been going through some shit over the past few months. (She deleted her instagram for 3 months). This makes me think she went through some type of mortification. She wouldn't tell me exactly what happened to her.
-She reluctantly admitted to cheating on me and monkey branching into a new relationship which ended within a couple of months.
- She admitted that sometimes she can completely blank out and forget events that happened when she's under a lot of stress, such as a relationship argument.
- She seems to have made up a completely different narrative in her mind about events that took place in our relationship. It seems like manipulation from my perspective, but she seems so convinced and convicted in her version of events that I'm almost convinced she actually believes her version.
For example, she left some items behind at my house after the break up. I offered her a concert ticket when she broke up with me. She said she didn't want it. A week later, she asked me for the concert ticket which I originally bought for her. I told her she couldn't have the ticket and she immediately raged and unfriended me on social media and asked for her items back. This was confusing to me because I originally offered the ticket to her for free but she didn't want it.
She claims she honestly had just been looking for the items at the time and it was a coincidence that she was asking for those items back. She wasn't punishing me for not giving her the ticket. That's a lie but she seems to believe it in her head.
-She wrote a joking/sarcastic text to me about a vulnerability that I opened up to her about (going to therapy). I wrote one back about her vulnerability and suddenly it wasn't funny anymore. She later told me that I always have a sinister vibe to my texts. When I tell her that she's the one who starts it, she claims the texts were not sarcasm and they were innocent (gas lighting me). I go back and read them and they clearly are not innocent.
- She said she's moving back home in a couple of months, but in the very next sentence she tells me "I'll never say no to getting back together". I just laugh to myself.
- I recently started pursuing a career in aviation, which she knew about just before our breakup. I update her on my progress and she said she's actually changing careers and is going to pursue aviation as well. She's set up an introductory flight with a flight school. She told me the she's pursuing aviation because her dad used to fly her when she was a kid. So she doesn't seem to know what she wants to do with her life (30 yrs old btw). She just happens to pick the same career as me.
Bottom line, I think she struggles with a sense of self. She doesn't apologize and she changes her story to fit her narrative in order to avoid responsibility for things in our relationship. She mentioned that she's "avoidant" (I guess meaning she has an avoidant attachment style) and that her behavior is a "defensive mechanism". So she's clearly self aware but doesn't stop herself when she's lying and manipulating. She also said when she is done with a partner, she completely cuts them off in her head and shes DONE. Ofc, I'm unaware of this at the time and this is what caused a great deal of confusion and panic attacks on my end. I guess this is her splitting me all black. She claims it did not happen over night though. It happened over time and that she had some reservations about our relationship even before she moved in with me. I was unaware of that and she didn't communicate it to me.
She kept bringing up a time when we went to dinner and we had nothing to talk about. She cited this 'dinner' as why we were "not compatible" and didn't really get along when it came down to it. However, the real reason we had nothing to talk about at the 'dinner' was I felt like I was walking on eggshells and relationship issues were going unresolved. So it was killing the vibe and relationship connection. She had no idea she was self-sabotaging the relationship.
It's just impossible to be in a relationship with these people. She was never like this during the honey moon phase. Sorry this is so long, but as someone didn't get closure, I would have loved to read about someone else's closure to better understand the disorder. I hope this helps someone on this subreddit. If anyone wants to DM me, I'm happy to talk.
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2023.03.27 04:41 seewhatyoudidthere_ How do I cope with and move on from my grandpa possibly verbally abusing me? 28 F 84 M
For the last five years, I’ve moved to live closer to my grandparents. My grandma was diagnosed with dementia during this time. It’s obviously caused my grandpa stress, caring for her, and there have been times where he isn’t nice to me because of his stress. I cut him a break for so many years, but I had a heartbreaking reality this weekend that he is verbally abusing me. I came to this realization when I was over at his house and I was listening to him talk to my younger sister on the phone. He was talking to her normally, and when she mentioned she was sick, he was fine with her not coming over.
Today, my grandpa asked me to go pick him up something from the store, when I had time, which I did today, and I brought it over after I was done with coaching. He immediately asked what I was doing & I explained to him that he had called me this morning and asked to do this. Almost immediately, he starts in on me saying he “never did.” I then asked why he called me 4x in the afternoon, and I said I was at practice (I coach) and couldn’t answer the phone. I told him it was a last minute practice. He got upset with me and yelled at me for telling him this, because I initially told him our season doesn’t start until tomorrow (3/27).
I’ve slowly begun to realize that the stress isn’t the cause….He only talks to me like this. And it broke my heart.
Back in November, I had a bad migraine and couldn’t pick up the phone. He blasted me for it, and made me feel bad. He’s never once done that with my sister.
I don’t know what to do anymore.
TL;DR grandpa possibly verbally abusing me
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2023.03.27 04:41 seewhatyoudidthere_ How do I cope with and move on from my grandpa possibly verbally abusing me? 28 F 84 M
For the last five years, I’ve moved to live closer to my grandparents. My grandma was diagnosed with dementia during this time. It’s obviously caused my grandpa stress, caring for her, and there have been times where he isn’t nice to me because of his stress. I cut him a break for so many years, but I had a heartbreaking reality this weekend that he is verbally abusing me. I came to this realization when I was over at his house and I was listening to him talk to my younger sister on the phone. He was talking to her normally, and when she mentioned she was sick, he was fine with her not coming over.
Today, my grandpa asked me to go pick him up something from the store, when I had time, which I did today, and I brought it over after I was done with coaching. He immediately asked what I was doing & I explained to him that he had called me this morning and asked to do this. Almost immediately, he starts in on me saying he “never did.” I then asked why he called me 4x in the afternoon, and I said I was at practice (I coach) and couldn’t answer the phone. I told him it was a last minute practice. He got upset with me and yelled at me for telling him this, because I initially told him our season doesn’t start until tomorrow (3/27).
I’ve slowly begun to realize that the stress isn’t the cause….He only talks to me like this. And it broke my heart.
I don’t know what to do anymore.
TL;DR grandpa possibly verbally abusing me
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2023.03.27 04:39 stabaloasch I (m30) still love her (f26)
About a week ago, my (m30) ex GF (f26) took away the Key for pur apartment while i was sleeping. She unlocked my smartphone and found some chats with girls. Only one or two where a flirt. The rest normal friends. So she broke up, and now i live at my sisters apartment but it sucks.
On friday, i where at our apartment to pick Up my Stuff. We talked more than 3 hours, hugged us, cried a lot and also one or two i love you. We both said we don't want that the talk ends, and it felt good to talk with her. She said we also can keep in contact, but not like the same way. Today we are going on a concert together. And we both said we should talk again. Now i have hope that we can be together again, sure not so fast, start again slowly. When we meet again at her apartment to talk, i will bring her favorite cake, from the bakery around the corner, i wan't that she knows that i'm still interested.
We still love each other or at least, there are still feelings. We wanted to move in a bigger apartment and maybe adobt a dog... Now i lie around at 4:30 am, can't sleep. I just wan't to fix this... I never wanted to hurt her... I hate myself, i hate my situation... Too late I realised how much luck i had with her... I love her...
TLDR, GF broke up with me, still in contact, both have feelings, i wan't her back
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2023.03.27 04:39 Bold-Fox Some concerns about controlling anyone
The amount of customization and player options present in this is certainly impressive, and I'm definitely looking forward to trying it out in six months - The Sims has needed a serious competitor for two decades now, and it's nice that there's finally something else on the horizon (Two something else's, even) that might provide that.
I do have a couple of concerns about the game. Some very minor stuff that 'not sure this is going to be to my taste' style thing that aren't worth making a thread for, but a couple of them are around the concept of controlling anyone.
- Where's the tension? If we can control anyone at any time, where will the tension in the gameplay, and as such the stories that are generated via our sims interacting with the world, come from? If one of my characters is trying to romance someone, how do I keep there being tension in the story when I can just... Swap control to the person they're romancing and play them as also romancing that character, making the relationship just work.
- How do I force myself to focus on a specific subset of characters? If I want to control more than one character for the story I'm wanting to play out, what's going to be present in the game to stop me spiralling out of control and winding up actively trying to control 20 characters at once, which feels... Untennable? And at the same time based on the way I play other games that don't restrict my options and force me to just pick something goddamnit is something I kind of know I'd wind up doing?
Now, to be clear, there are some things about it I like. Multi-household stories were a thing that was easy - if clunky - to do in Sims 2 via rotational play, not really doable in Sims 3 if you wanted to play both sides of the story unless you didn't mind losing your aspiration progress. It should be no problem to do in Life By You due to being able to switch control to anyone. Hell, that sort of play might be
more interesting if I can control just one or two characters from what would be households in The Sims rather than everyone in them, and it's clearly going to be a godsend for folk who like generational play since Sims 3 forced you to kind of keep everyone you still wanted to play living in the same house and it could get got weird and crowded.
Just trying to get my head around how this is going to work in practice - I'm sure a lot of folk are going to have a great time with this aspect of the game, just wondering what the game's going to do to prevent me from ruining my own enjoyment of it.
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2023.03.27 04:37 theYanner Purol Gas Station porcelain sign 18 inches
Here is an Imgur link. I googled around and three things lead me to know its authentic.
- You can see the white base coat under the blue around the mounting holes.
- The mounting holes are rusted and show wear.
- You can feel the layered colors when touching the letters.
It's 18 inches across. I really don't know anything else. Handed down from someone that has too much stuff, they likely picked up while "antiquing".
What's this worth?
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2023.03.27 04:33 JimmieJ48fan Reddit Craftsman Truck Series Fantasy Week 5-Texas (Sat 4-1 4:30pm)
Rules https://docs.google.com/document/d/1aD2BuCcoagD1rdbDeYdkwMml5ZXr71cBe1sdpql29mI/edit?usp=sharing NOTE: Make Sure before you select any Cup Level Drivers that you still have those picks left to be able to pick them. If you are unsure who counts as a Cup Level Driver pick please see the Xfinity/Truck picks section of the rule book in the link above. Standings after
Week 4 Rank | +/- | Driver | Points | Behind | Wins | Plof Pts | Winnings |
1 | -- | hgimn* | 326 | Leader | 2 | 12 | $171,488 |
2 | +1 | mva812^ | 278 | -48 | 1 | 6 | $108,872 |
3 | +3 | justbo-lieve^ | 270 | -56 | 1 | 6 | $121,920 |
4 | -2 | MorganvstheWorld^ | 268 | -58 | 2 | 12 | $172,089 |
5 | -- | JJohnson48fan* | 261 | -65 | 0 | 0 | $88,713 |
6 | +6 | DaltonTG^ | 241 | -85 | 1 | 6 | $115,266 |
7 | +1 | HoovDawg^ | 233 | -93 | 0 | 1 | $79,043 |
8 | +3 | BootlegFirewerks^ | 230 | -96 | 0 | 1 | $80,884 |
9 | +1 | Maddi10* | 228 | -98 | 0 | 1 | $80,221 |
10 | -6 | JamieMcMurray26* | 223 | -103 | 0 | 2 | $90,727 |
11 | -2 | Cherrypoptart* | 219 | -107 | 0 | 0 | $84,645 |
12 | -5 | CaptainBert^ | 191 | -135 | 0 | 1 | $94,585 |
13 | -- | KJH278* | 115 | -211 | 0 | 0 | $73,132 |
"#" = Rookie
"+" = Clinched Playoff Position
Points Spreadsheet https://sheet.zohopublic.com/sheet/published/4cvt4bdef3def76444f9b8eb5f475dcc9299d Results https://sheet.zohopublic.com/sheet/published/4cvt4e2ec6e2fdbb14e898bbbb97541674d5e Manufacturer Standings after
Week 4 On the Manufacturer tab of the Points link above
ROTY Standings after
Week 4 On the ROTY tab of the Points link above
QUALIFYING DATE AND TIME Saturday April 1st at 11:05 AM EDT NEXT WEEK, SATURDAY APRIL 1ST at 4:30 PM EDT Texas Motor Speedway. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . SpeedyCash.com 250 PICKED RACE WINNER JJohnson48fan, DaltonTG, hgimn, justbo-lieve, and HoovDawg Poles Won (AKA: Highest Average Starting Position of Picks)
justbo-lieve-1
hgimn-1
*BootlegFirewerks-1
Races Won (AKA: Scored most points during a week)
MorganvstheWorld-2
*hgimn-2
mva812-1
*justbo-lieve-1
*DaltonTG-1
CUP LEVEL DRIVER PICKS LEFT Driver | Left |
BootlegFirewerks^ | 6 |
CaptainBert^ | 7 |
Cherrypoptart* | 8 |
DaltonTG^ | 6 |
hgimn* | 6 |
HoovDawg^ | 8 |
JamieMcMurray26* | 7 |
JJohnson48fan* | 6 |
justbo-lieve^ | 6 |
KJH278* | 8 |
Maddi10* | 6 |
MorganvstheWorld^ | 6 |
mva812^ | 6 |
BACKUPS https://sheet.zohopublic.com/sheet/published/ayzpq0d2ad854a193443bb5efbd0f78369c9f Used This Week: Cherrypoptart, HoovDawg, JamieMcMurray26, and KJH278
Playoff Grid https://sheet.zohopublic.com/sheet/published/ayzpq9e202bf4090741dcb4c9d229911f733b submitted by
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