Yo, looking for some stuff, I’m throwing out lowball prices but feel free to send me an offer but please don’t negotiate in replies.
Bcm/ Geissele, Solgw, PRI ambi whatever chg handle $50-75 / basic bitch $10
Bcg: no AERO stuff please- PSA is fine as long it’s a microbest $50-75
Warcom, semi salty, salty, new if your kind or similar $90
Lpvo 1-10 send me your offers with a goddamned pic $200-500
IWB- If I’m going to stuff something in my pants I want it to be pretty $30-50
I just got my kids a new kitten, pets are family too 🐾 you have a pup or kitten you can share in comments 😀🥹
Cheers 🥃

I know this is a long shot, I apologize I’m just… desperate.
I have been searching high and low for a Bassador. It wasn’t until tonight I knew what the breed was as I got 2 pups on my birthday in 2009 off of Craigslist and they were Free. I loved these babies and they both are no longer with me as they have passed away. I have been longing for another one of these but have had no luck.
All I was told is that they were miniature labs and they didn’t know what the other breed was as their dog got out and came back pregnant.
Is there a breeder who has them for adoption? How do I go about finding these dogs?! I have searched all over my area but no luck.

This post is made of things I've heard and of random toughts I've had about the new age update. Do I expect any of these to actually be implemented? Ofc not. But they just seemed fun to share.
1) This would be a good opportunity to finally merge the different regions of the game (kms, gms, msea...). It would be a good chunk of extra content for kms players, and it would be reassuring for other regions, as the content would most likely not be suddenly removed. It seems extremely unlikely for this to happen, even more when we keep getting exclusive content like guild castle, but one can dream.
2) An extra enhancement system would be nice. Something similar to starforcing, like lunarforcing...? Would seem fitting. Give it less slots, no chance to boom or drop, but make it a lot more expensive. A system where you can reuse your previous gear to enhance your current gear would be cool. It probably wouldn't work on reg server because you can just sell most of your equips when getting something better, but even then just imagine if you could use your old abso stuff to enhance your arcane stuff, or even your cra to enhance eternals. It could give something like 5% of the stats of the piece, so imagine an abso cape that gave 30% stat, 90 att, 200 stat The enhancement to your arcane cape would be 1.5% stat, 4.5 att, 10 stat. It seems fair, and even good when looking at an arcane weapon with 600 att, 23% att, 30% boss, 200 stat That could give an extra 30 att, 1.15% att, 1.5% boss, 10 stat to your genesis wep. Doesn't seem like a lot but it would be almost free when you already have the equips done, and it could give more space to min maxing, which can be annoying to some, but may also be something to look for to others.
They already showed a way to enhance pb items when killing extreme and seren, so it would make sense to keep expanding that system.
3) New classes may come... I wouldn't be too excited about new classes... other than Yuna please Nexon just do it, being a Kinesis feels lonely
4) New, good ways to catch up in sacred force. Thats ot, it's painful to do dailies for so long.
5) Maybe we will be getting a new ui or something. I truly hope that the art direction doesn't change much, as it is one of the things I love the most about maple... but maybe an update to the engine?
6) 6th job... we have been memeing about it for some time, and it now seems somewhat possible. I'm not sure if they would call it 6th job, but maybe a way to expand your 5th job at lvl 250/260/275. They may be upgrades to 4th job skills, I don't think they want to add more skills you have to press for burst, and if they do, maybe they will simplify the whole process for most classes. 7) Something completely unexpected could happen, and if it does, I hope its good.
The purest form of copium.
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I have a cat who acts like a dog he’s a cool dude but he’s only like 8 months old, and I have a bunch of spiders and scorpions, frogs, ect. I currently work like 50ish hours a week and want to die but I play apex legends and Minecraft when I’m not working. Online friends are great and if you’re in Arizona maybe we can go grab a drink somewhere sometime and do stupid stuff like shooting watermelons in the desert. My Xbox gamer tag is BasedMothMan so feel free to add me!

sup KS. happy Monday
SV is for Sell (PPFF only no note. i will return fund if noted) TV is for trade. feel free to reach out. Ship to lower 48
trade interest are TRM neutron ultem scale & TRM atom ti deep texture scale（just scale） demko scale Demko smooth TI ad20S , microtech ultem. and all other ridiculous good shit.
if you have questions. you can always shoot chat/pm but please allow me find time to reply from work.
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Heretic ROC
Brand new in box with heretic oil. no sign of use and visible scratch. very unique OTF. action is smoother than MT. i don't know if its the curve design. the ergo and the push button become extremely easy. stonewash blade in my eye is best looking. i am second owner. never use never carry. just sit in home for OTF itch to replace my hellhound. and it is great. list it out here to see if it can trade something i m looking for. if owner want to try out this unique OTF. this retail goes at 400. shoot me any question you have.
TV380
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Demko AD20S
3rd owner. sharpened but did a good job. razor sharp. pivot looks zero scratch from both side. cool jade g10 scale see some used sign but not much. with matched ti deep cary. sharkfoot XHP steel. action is without question demko sharlock action. click-clack. this one is for trade for smooth TI AD20S or ultem ad20s . i can top cash or other knife if you like. only going to sell it after i got the TI one. so you can still ask questions. original box.
TV425
hinder maximus
at least 3rd owner. sharpened but did a relatively good job. it can fit all slicy job and no chip. check video.
g10 and ti scale are like new no visible scratch on it. blade is 20cv. this one is sturdier than i expected. and also cool look design. put in my car. had no use. just list there to see if any interest offer to my way. but my interest is TRM ti / ultem . Demko ti / ultem. or microtech ultem. this one came with box paper triway stuff. all of them.
TV 399
🧨SOLD🧨 shiro neon clone
(A-) Blade centering is very good. Lock-up is about 35% and solid with no lock rock or blade play. The action is excellent, very snappiy open and drop shut. The knife has never been carried or used
SV60 TV75
thanks

At my old dt store:
• The usual variety of bodily fluids in or around the bathroom, plus iirc one of my friends found an intimate toy in the trash can or something?? 😭
• Customers walking up to the drive window IN FRONT of the car already at the window… was kinda scary ngl but they just wanted extra milk or whatever
• Probably for a video but some teenager fully screamed “AAAAAAAH!!!!” into the box but I didn’t even react bc I thought it was just Night Shift Partner Shenanigans 💀 He’d cut me off so I asked what he’d like again and he just went “…. a water please”
• Rolling blunts in the drive thru
• Someone tipping me a small pumpkin around Halloween time, and on a separate occasion another customer tipping me an Arcanine pokemon card
• I didn’t hear what a customer had ordered so I asked him to repeat it and he decided to sing it to me, like belting jazz style “Lemme get a chai tea!! Iiiiiice cooollld!” (I gave it to him for free)
• Woman talking nonstop for literally 6 minutes at the box telling us EVERYTHING about her life and gossiping, then proceeding to talk to me for another like 5 at the window bc I thought she was a riot
• People just oversharing constantly lmao
• Customers telling me to verbally discipline THEIR children
• Jamming with customers blasting music or singing in their cars
At my cafe store:
• Schizophrenic customer scribbling nonsense on a whole sheet of paper front and back and leaving it on the handoff for us (religious stuff, sugar mamas???)
• Just happened today—customer asked “If I show you my Starbucks tattoo will you give me a free cake pop?” I gave it to her bc I thought that was hilarious. The tat was pretty high up on the back of her thigh LMAO. Our DM was also present but I don’t think she saw 💀

Decided we are child free. However, we have acquired a lot of stuff. Real estate, antiques, firearms, jewelry, etc.
We would like to give it to someone in exchange for taking care of us when we are infirm. But it’s hard to find anyone to trust.
Does anyone have experience with this? How to find an “heir”? An exchange for all our crap, if they help us pass through the last years of our life.
I don’t want to end up like my relatives in a nursing home.

My wife (30F) and I (31M) have been married 5 years and together almost 9.
My wife has always been the real laid back unbothered type like me from the day we met. We let stuff roll off our back, ignore negativity, and are very open minded. But over the last three or so years (not sure if there’s a correlation, but since TikTok), she’s been embracing this very powerful energy, which I don’t mind at all. I love to see her be in her power and have high standards for the energy that surrounds us.
However, it’s been getting a little out of hand IMO. Over the last year or so, she’s taken on this persona of someone who tells it like it is and has power to remove anyone from her life (and has exercised this power a lot). This has basically manifested into this idea that everyone is disposable and anyone can be humbled/told about themselves…
I’m a very drama free individual, as was she (and she still claims to be), but I feel like this persona looks to the outside world like we just love having issues with people.
Anyhoo- we recently learned that our really good friends are living in an open marriage. They essentially live a single person lifestyle with specific boundaries. This was huge news to us because we simply never would have guessed. We personally wouldn’t ever have an open marriage, but that’s not here nor there. At the end of the day, they are good friends to us and always have been. What they do in private shouldn’t bother us. But for some reason, it really upsets my wife. She feels like having them in our life is corruptive to our marriage and welcomes negative energy. She also feels like if they can betray one another, what makes us think they wouldn’t betray us. She wants to end our 6 year-long friendship with them and she wants them to know specifically why - because we don’t agree with their lifestyle. We are friends with people from all walks of life so I’ve been beyond confused about her reaction.
I want to support my wife and stand by her, but I just don’t see how telling them we don’t agree with their lifestyle is constructive. They’re already losing ‘good’ friends, why make it worse? Also, they’ve been living this lifestyle for 2 years and it was never a problem/corruption when we didn’t know. They trusted us enough to share a very personal thing and I just don’t think it’s fair we cut them off for opening up to people they thought would accept them.
Edit: I think there are a couple reasons why she is reacting this way, but calling them out to her won’t help anything… 1. she comes from a broken home (mom cheated on and left dad for another man - she still struggles forgiving her mom) AND 2. We have a dead bedroom and I think their arrangement and its potential influence might make her (LL) insecure.

Hi. Just joined, and I needed a space to talk about what I've been experiencing for most of my life. I don't know if my mom fits into the description but I don't know how else to address / manage all of this in the long term and I guess I just wanted perspective from a community that's had more experience with this. It's hard to adequately summarise my experience because I've deliberately obscured many memories for the sake of my emotional wellbeing but I want to try. I'm just trying to get the words out of me, so I'm sorry if it doesn't read well.
For as long as I've known I've had a difficult relationship with my mom. It's a lot of different factors. I'm 23 and nonbinary. When I was younger I had a very headstrong personality and I saw my mom as someone who was very similar. She wasn't around a lot, because both my parents worked and my grandmother (dad's mom) stayed with us to look after my sister and I. I don't remember explicitly being very loving to her, although I suppose I must have loved her because I didn't really get too terrible emotionally until I was maybe 13 or so. She was trained as an English teacher, and took a strong hand in my early education. I was reading and writing very early, and I'm graduating college this year as an English major with Honours, highest distinction. I acknowledge her influence in my success. But from what I can remember is she used to make me join her private classes with older students, and we used to clash during those classes because I would question the content and she wasn't happy with that. When I got a bit older and her teaching centre closed down she would do the classes at home with my sister and I to get us to be more educated on current topics, but a lot of those "classes" often devolved into her criticising my dad and his family (less educated than herself) behind their back, and then criticising my sister and I. Don't remember why, but I know I used to run off to the bathroom to cry afterwards pretty often.
It's hazy afterwards. When I was in my teens we continued to have a difficult time getting along. I think it was maybe a lot of disagreements and criticisms. She would tell me I was fat and didn't dress well and that I had a bad personality. My sister often echoed that a lot. She would make us go shopping together and buy clothes that I didn't feel comfortable in. It was doubly hard because I was grappling with my gender identity at the time and suffering from a lot of dysphoria. I remember starting Amy Tan's The Joy Luck Club for Literature class and taking my teacher aside and telling her I didn't know if I could get through the class because I had a really difficult relationship with my mother and I found it really hard to get through the book. She was a really good teacher though, she supported me a lot through that time. In 2016, the year I was doing my nationals and graduating secondary school, my mom disappeared. She had joined some kind of religious group and (we believe) gone overseas with them. She made it out like she was going to be gone for 2 weeks, which became a month, which became... I want to say about 9 months. I think it was like 6 months, then she came back for a bit, then another couple of months. Don't remember exactly. She lied to her parents (who are also very emotionally manipulative and difficult... when they love us they love us but they can be very hard to handle when they don't get their way. they loved me and my sister but when they finally had male grandchildren. well.) about where she was and when she would return. They bombarded her with messages. Mom messaged me and told me to tell her parents things about what she was doing, which was difficult because she was also lying to me and the lies didn't match up and they didn't believe. And I couldn't give them the answer they wanted because I didn't know anything. So for a year, one of the most important years of my life, my grandparents made my life hell. They'd message me, they'd come to my school looking for me, they'd take me out to meals and tell me all about how they were going to die soon and that they needed us to have a good relationship and that I should be grateful that my parents never abused me and I should beg, literally get on my knees and beg, my mother to come home. It got so bad that I, being unfortunately emotionally fragile and quite active on social media, had multiple breakdowns on Facebook, which led my aunt (dad's sister) to call my dad and show him what was going on and he had to ask me if I wanted to stop seeing my grandparents.
But mom eventually came back, and we sort of pretended it didn't happen. Case closed. The next couple of years are a big fog in my memory because I was having a really bad time mentally because of school. So I totally don't remember having any major interactions with mom. Which is good actually.
Then I went to uni. I moved into student housing and getting out of the house was so great. At home I shared the bed in mom's room, and my workspace was wherever I could find some space on a table. So to have my own room (half; shared with a roommate) with my own bed and my own table was super freeing. Mom couldn't let me go. She wanted me home every weekend, bought me a ton of stuff I didn't need, asked me for a copy of my room key. She never used it, but I was afraid for a whole year that she would just walk in when she wanted to. These four years of undergrad, I've become a different person, I'm more confident, I came out, made friends, studied hard, figured out how to dress myself, how to do makeup, everything. Being away from her was amazing.
But mom's fallen into a pattern. She's been disappearing again, months at a time, away more often than not. When she comes back she immediately inserts herself into our lives and starts criticising us; how the house looks, how we've been eating. She buys me gifts I don't like, clothes or earrings. Sister and I think she might be in some kind of religious cult but we don't want to get into that. She hasn't had a full conversation with dad in years. I've tried a few times to engage her in conversation about how her actions have affected us and how she's been emotionally abusive but she won't hear any of it. She said she's been to therapy; I don't think it's real actual therapy, she's more aware of how she was emotionally abused by her parents but won't admit that she was abusive to us. From what she says it sounds like she's more open about painting herself as the victim but that she's better than all of it because she never beat my sister and I. Which is a low bar. We had an argument in a Uniqlo about it. Any time she talks about how she was as a parent she makes it out like she's a really great parent because she didn't do any of the things her parents did. I've just stopped trying.
My boyfriend is of a different race and religion (I am not white, but majority race in my country). When I told my parents they were a little weirded out, but mom didn't say anything about it until months later. She just asked me a few questions, and I thought it was fine. We were getting along, we were having ice cream, just the two of us. Then I told her parents. And they lost it. Messaging me really racist things for over a month. Made my aunts speak to me about it. Eventually I had to insinuate that the relationship wasn't serious and that we broke up and I think they bought it. Of course they also messaged mom. And one weekend when I was home she woke me up in the morning to yell at me about it, and she said a lot of really racist things too, and told me to say anything to my grandparents to get them off her back. Not mine. Not a single word in my defense.
I know this whole post is just... things. Just conversations or events. I don't know how to say how she's made me feel for most of my adolescent life. I don't know how to tell you how bad my mental health was. I don't even know if I'm just pretending not to remember things or if I'm blowing things out of proportion or if I fed myself a different memory so well it feels real. I just know I can't talk to her anymore. She recently returned from a two month trip, during which she spent her birthday and mother's day away from us, and she's back to acting like nothing happened, showering me with gifts, insisting that she'll pick me up from whatever event, cooking meals, and I just can't talk to her anymore. I can't love her, no matter if she does love me. I am so tired and worn out and I want to walk away, want to focus on my career and my own development, look after my dad and sister and boyfriend without her and her side of the family in the picture, but I can't. She's my mom. She couldn't even be fucked to commit to coming to my graduation event when I invited her, just said "Get the seat for me and we'll see." I'm going back tonight to share a bed with her again. I'm a better and different person, except when I'm in her presence. I just wanted my mom to love me and support me. Even if I was a difficult teenager. Even if I'm nonbinary and queer and in an interracial relationship. But I can't, I don't know how to fix things or make it better for myself in the long term.

I wanna know what kind of team that u all think will be the strongest team possible. u can use any char that we know of (like fu xuan, jing liu, and stuff).
Mine would be Seele, SW, Welt, and Luocha. Entanglement and Imprison are two of my favorite break and consistent proc of those break paired with welt delaying power will lead to a lot of break and a lot of free attack. IMO the strongest team that will exist for a while. sadly i wont have enough jade for luocha and will planning more to get kafka ❤️

They say a story is best read begging to end, but best understand from the end and going back to the begging, this is what I will try to do.
I broke up with my love, the woman (f21) I thought I would have by my side forever Jan 18, 2023. We were together for 11 months total, traveled many places, stayed in hotels, went to university together, it was a dream and I loved it.
The day of our break up, was also the last day of my trip to see her at our university. I had graduated, she was still there, I had not seen her in two weeks and she begged me to see her despite my needs to study for the NCLEX.
Last day of my trip, I knew she had limited time as she said earlier that week Wednesdays are 70% classes. I saw her two hours in between classes. I asked when she would be out, she told me, I assume that is a sign she would be free. 15 min later she offers to make a guy friend soup because he is sick, he declines. An odd gesture, and after the call she asks me if I am mad she asked that. I hang out with our friend group, we get dinner, my girl was in class. She showed up! I got no text, nothing. How did she know? She asked her girlfriend when dinner was. Thats cool, no big deal. She was texting some guy from class and laughing at her phone during dinner. She actually got out of class early, didn’t tell me (I expected her to as its my last day there for a month), and went off to hang out with some guys from class and play pool. I got no text or dm reel from her, but she said she was sending reels to guys in class. I was gutted.
The day before she rejected any date idea I had to play video games with some friends from class which is rare they play as a group she said, but I am not always gonna be there… they didn’t even get online…
The first day (out of three) our hike got canceled at the begging of it due to rain. A hike to a spot we found together, a lot of memories there…
She has lied in the past, done more shady stuff with a guy friend, lied about the same thing, etc. These things made me feel insecure, I would tell her, she would say sorry, no change would occur. Things just got worse honestly.
In the begging and throughout there was love, intimacy, and a strong bond. We dated, did things together, talked, but she increased these behaviors more and more. I had to end it, I felt like a chump being with someone who treated me like this. I hope you understand, I love you so, but I had to let you go. I told you my pains, and you let them grow.
I believe love is worth fighting for, but if the other person isn’t fighting, working towards each other, then its time to leave :(

Hi, I’m Cutler. And I love meeting new people and talking about basically everything! I love movies, games, occasionally making art, music, and all kinds of other stuff but I’ll save it for conversation for later. I’m really laid back and will listen to whatever you have to say! If you need a friend to listen to you rant, I’ll be there! Need someone you can be open with and who will be open in return? That’s me! I’ll talk about everything! I probably won’t reply to anyone who’s way way older but nothing else matters and I’m fine with any gender! So feel free to hmu and we can chat and maybe become friends! :) (also sorry if it takes a while for me to reply)

We have been together for about six years and have two children under three with another on the way. I am a stay at home mom and he owns a smoke shop which he puts at least 5-8 hours (sometimes more) in everyday except Sundays and Tuesdays. Those are considered our family days. Recently I have been struggling to get our household stuff done along with being with the children during the day. We have never had a specific schedule for our children and household work. I just get things done when they need to be. Since we moved into our new house we have not finished getting unpacked and cleaned fully and it’s now been about three months. I have been asking for help with the household work or for him to keep the children with him so I can get things done and organized and I feel like it’s a constant argument. He says he feels like it is due to us having no schedule for things to get done on. Which I don’t disagree with but I am lost on how to create a schedule when nothing has ever been completely done. But when I ask for him to help me build a schedule he says he doesn’t want to have to have the mental load of having to do everything at work and home because that should be my job. When he comes home from work he wants to be stress free, which I totally understand but also doesn’t always seem realistic to me. I try to give him time to game when he gets home, because he says it helps relieve his stress, but I get upset when I see things that need to be done going undone at the same time. I am just completely stressed that I am not going to have everything finished before my baby is due (I am currently 26weeks pregnant). I had really bad ppd after my last pregnancy and I don’t want any added stress if I can prevent it. Also how would I bring it up in a way that doesn’t come off as me minimizing the work he does. He doesn’t like when I ask or explain our issues to my mother or close friends and says it makes him uncomfortable.
If you read all this thank you so much and any advice is appreciated.

Hey... I really wanna know your honest opinions. Both of my groups I'm DMing for are telling me I'm right on this, but still I'm not really sure about it. I'm just so disappointed I was just thinking about quitting my campaign.
So. A few days ago we had our weekly session. Into the game there was a Player, Steven. Steven plays this Paladin, really strict and devote to his God. In fact, a Paladin Oath of devotion.
But, in my opinion he didn't follow his oaths:
Honesty. Don't lie or cheat. Let your word be your promise.
Courage. Never fear to act, though caution is wise. -> He always tried to run away as he didn't felt prepared for the quest.
Compassion. Aid others, protect the weak, and punish those who threaten them. Show mercy to your foes, but temper it with wisdom. -> His ally literally threatened a normal npc telling him he would sacrifice his lover and kill the npc if necessary to gain the favour of a devil. Paladin didn't thought there was something wrong. :/
Honor. Treat others with fairness, and let your honorable deeds be an example to them. Do as much good as possible while causing the least amount of harm. -> He didn't care about setting a house on fire (but in his defense, making sure there wasn't anyone inside)
Duty. Be responsible for your actions and their consequences, protect those entrusted to your care, and !!!obey those who have just authority over you!!!!. -> So this is a special problem because... Let me explain our last session.
First of all, what happened.
I met Steven online, he was super nice and friendly. I loved the idea of having him in my campaigns as he was such a nice person. I was really enthusiastic, I launched this campaign just for him, we searched for people to join and have fun together. I think that's why I am so disappointed now, as I didn't expect that type of behavior. We had around 4 weekly sessions now.
As we started the campaign he told me he would love if I could be hard on his character, as he would really love some dramatic and traumatic stuff for his character to happened. He told me he played a Paladin because he really would like to have something fucked up happen to him. I told him about my perspective of his deity and he was good with it. He even spoke to another player and seemed to know about the personality of the deity and the importante of his oaths. Steven isnt new to dnd. He is 6+ years into it now. (I'm 1,5 years into dnd.)
I told the party, always to speak to me if there would be anything they would me like to improve and I am open to every kind of critism. So.
As I noticed along the sessions that he wasn't roleplaying his paladin according to his oaths, I gave him some "alerts" as for example, when he ignored the plea - crying for help of a boy in distress, I told him he woke up with a different feeling. As if there was a difference on the divine energy he feels. As this it goes on. He ignored also the cry for help of a woman that was desperately crying, etc. Because he was afraid of what could lay behind this voice. He didn't even bothered to investigate it. He just run away.
So, last session I thought... His deity is really forgiven and he is low level. So I'll give him a level up, with a nice dramatic scene of his deity to guide him. So the deity appeared and told him his oaths, he told him he needs to fullfil it and he needs to change his ways. But the deity assured he is there to guide his steps and if he wants to fullfil the oath, he will give him the power he needs. (Level up) But. It all went wrong.
The Paladin told the God "your power did nothing to me" (he tried ceremony on a ghost and it didn't worked. He wanted to make the ghost disappear so he used ceremony on the corpse. But that's not how the spell works, as we found out at the session). So he continues "And I don't obey to anyone. I did nothing wrong and if you think you need to abandon me, go for it. There are plenty of other deities that would be Happy for me to serve them"
Yeah. Didn't go well. Also his ally (the problematic one) got his sword out and the deity used a trait to get him unarmed (he did a dex check and failed), but Paladin didn't do anything about the ally threatening his God.
Deity told him he was disappointed of him and left with his powers. (i mean, he broke his oaths and disrespected his deity! Wasn't it obvious? :/ )
Ah. As I presented the deity, I did a narrative as how they felt the ambient, like it was oppressive and the Paladin as he tried to move back got 1d6 damage. All the others only felt the strong presence.
After this events, we ended the session there.
But. after the last session, I noticed he wasn't having his best time. So I reached out and tried to talk to him right after the session.
We talked about it and he said he was alright. I told him not to worry, as his deity (Ilmater, God of Suffering) is really forgiven. So he must not worry as there are plenty of ways to get his favor and powers back. I even told him I will search for some exclusive scenes for him if he wants to do a tiny quest to gain the favor back or I even told him to tell me if he would like something particular. Y tried to explain why this happened and I told him he would regain the favor in the next session just for doing the quest he already was about to do, if he complete it instead of running away. (Following the oaths). I told him, this would get him a cool scene with his deity, etc.
He assured he was okay and it was really fine.
So. But I felt we weren't okay. So today I reached out again. Told him I wanted to talk about this as I feel it isn't okay between us. We talked a little bit, I explained my point and he explained his (he said he didn't do anything wrong to deserve this). Then, after a while he texted again telling me I wasn't fair to him, I fucked up his character as I changed the entire personality of the deity and of how the deity works (Before game I told him how I Roleplay this deity), he got some sort of an attitude even so, I tried to stay calm and even told him he could tell me how he would like the deity to be and I would change this for him. He replied with more attitude telling me something like maybe you should tell the players beforehand if you change the entire religion as drastic as you did.... Etc.
I remained calm and told him again to tell me please how he would like the deity.
There was a sentence especially that hurt me really much. He said that "or the deity was an imposter or he is an idiot" And yeah, I felt that personally. As I did a lot of work to get the custom token, all the scene, the preparation and the thoughts about his deity. And to him, it was a simple idiot.
I didn't told him anything of how he made me feel, I just tried to remain calm and be nice to him, to calm him down. Then I had to start work and told him I was at work schedule so I couldn't answer that fast. He said it was ok.
3 hours later, he texted me literally "here have this back and bye bye" Told him I did not want that thing back and yeah, that's it. He left the servers ( he was in 3 campaigns I master) and did not even say a nice word or anything. Just deleted me of his friends list, wrote bye bye and have fun. That's all.
I am so disappointed. As Master I always have lots of patience with the players and even if I was in the wrong with the roleplay of the deity or with taking his divine powers - Really? I fail once and it is enough to react like this?
I feel disappointed as I really liked this person as a new friend and as a player. I put so much effort on this for him to have a campaign to play. I work 3 diferent jobs, all my limited free time got invested in dnd.
Also I told Steven, I'm a "new" dm, i really want to improve and if there is something I do wrong, just to speak to me and I'll try my best to improve and adapt to my players needs. But it took only 1 fail to him to react like this.
At this session, there was the other group I DM for as guests to see the session as they were curious to see me dming other campaigns. They were really shooked by all this and checked on me after the session if I was ok after that session (Steven and the problem player had some bad attitude....) They told me the scene of the deity was really spectacular and that they would've love if it had happened to them. 3 even asked me to make something similar.
And one of the current party members told me he would like to play a paladin in my campaign to have something like that happen to him.
So they all told me I wasn't in the wrong, they tried to comfort me and most of them told me to kick Steven out. Even so, I wanted to give him a chance as I really appreciated him as player and as person.
So... Sorry for the long text but I wanted you to see as much as posible from of what happened. IATA? What should I have done different ?
(edit: did some changes as I know Steven is in reddit and I don't want him to feel exposed. Name changed, etc.)

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