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2023.06.09 05:32 TopThrill182 Scolded for Putting My Backpack in the Overhead Bin
On a recent United flight, I was scolded for putting my backpack in the overhead bin as opposed to under the seat in front of me. And while I'm generally non-confrontational, I pushed back.
Someone at the end of the boarding process was looking for bin space for their large rolling suitcase. The passenger and flight attendant zeroed in on the bin with my backpack, and the passenger got permission from the flight attendant to turn my backpack onto its side to create more room.
I was fine with that (and usually try to do so preemptively as a courtesy) until the passenger started jamming my backpack to get it to turn over while exclaiming "I don't know what they've got in here!" I spoke up to say that there was a computer inside and to please be careful.
The flight attendant gruffly turned to me and said that my backpack was supposed to be under the seat in front of me.
No thank you! As I always do, I paid $35 to check my suitcase so that I could put my lone carry-on, my backpack, in the bin and leave the space by my feet clear. I value that.
The flight attendant did subsequently tell me that our flight was "weight restricted" and that they had to fit as many bags in the cabin as possible, but I don't see how that was a legitimate excuse for why the passenger couldn't check their large suitcase. I checked my suitcase at only ~50 minutes before departure without issue, and gate agents were offering to gate check bags throughout the boarding process.
When I paid a very expensive last minute fare and $35 to check my suitcase, I don't think it's fair that I and my reasonably sized backpack should have to yield to a passenger trying to cram a large suitcase onto the plane for free at the last minute. If everyone were to do what I do, wouldn't there be plenty of bin space?
Luckily, the passenger's suitcase ultimately fit into another bin, and my backpack stayed where it was. But what baffles me is that I would've been better off bringing an even larger bag on board, and consuming even more bin space. Or I could've put my bottled water in a bag, put that under the seat in front of me, and avoided the whole issue while still requiring the passenger's large suitcase to go elsewhere.
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Someone at the end of the boarding process was looking for bin space for their large rolling suitcase. The passenger and flight attendant zeroed in on the bin with my backpack, and the passenger got permission from the flight attendant to turn my backpack onto its side to create more room.
I was fine with that (and usually try to do so preemptively as a courtesy) until the passenger started jamming my backpack to get it to turn over while exclaiming "I don't know what they've got in here!" I spoke up to say that there was a computer inside and to please be careful.
The flight attendant gruffly turned to me and said that my backpack was supposed to be under the seat in front of me.
No thank you! As I always do, I paid $35 to check my suitcase so that I could put my lone carry-on, my backpack, in the bin and leave the space by my feet clear. I value that.
The flight attendant did subsequently tell me that our flight was "weight restricted" and that they had to fit as many bags in the cabin as possible, but I don't see how that was a legitimate excuse for why the passenger couldn't check their large suitcase. I checked my suitcase at only ~50 minutes before departure without issue, and gate agents were offering to gate check bags throughout the boarding process.
When I paid a very expensive last minute fare and $35 to check my suitcase, I don't think it's fair that I and my reasonably sized backpack should have to yield to a passenger trying to cram a large suitcase onto the plane for free at the last minute. If everyone were to do what I do, wouldn't there be plenty of bin space?
Luckily, the passenger's suitcase ultimately fit into another bin, and my backpack stayed where it was. But what baffles me is that I would've been better off bringing an even larger bag on board, and consuming even more bin space. Or I could've put my bottled water in a bag, put that under the seat in front of me, and avoided the whole issue while still requiring the passenger's large suitcase to go elsewhere.
2023.06.09 05:31 DiamondsR4eveer Please~🥺I am trying to get my favorite item for free. Can you help me?🌾🌾🌾🌾🌾🌾🌾🌾🌾🌾🌾
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2023.06.09 05:30 DiamondsR4eveer Please~🥺I am trying to get my favorite item for free. Can you help me?🌾🌾🌾🌾🌾🌾🌾🌾🌾🌾🌾🌾
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2023.06.09 05:29 phrog1fan M20 United States est [Chat] [Friendship] work sucked today anyone wants to share music or just talk?
Still a little sick and dejected and also a lot of stuff is being annoying in my life right now but anyways just another bored person wanting to make a post I don’t have a lot of hobbies these days but I do like to read books, watch movies, I like to play sport’s soccer more specifically and I also love listening to music feel free to recommend me some open to anything but yea idk hope you have a good rest of your day!
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2023.06.09 05:29 cupidity- 32F [friendship] you're not obligated to always be your very best self. 💕
I don't ask for much in friendships, but I can be clingy once I'm comfortable with you. The issue lies in me becoming comfortable with you, so if you withstand that, I'm going to be an amazing friend. If you are open to long-term friendships with the possibility of me not always responding to you (thank you mental health) or going "code dark" during conversations, I might be for you. I will always be there if you need me to be though.
Let's talk about mental health, I'm tired of the topic being taboo. We all have our demons, so why can't we freely discuss them? I suffer from a mixed bag: Borderline Personality Disorder, which comes with its own friends like anxiety, depression, and paranoia. We can talk about it. I'm not seeking to cure anyone, but I am seeking to help someone's loneliness, the feeling of being trapped in your head and feeling as if you're the only person to go through it, that's scary. I want to help. Most of us have trauma deeper than the Mariana Trench, so let's not hide that.
I like things like dumb books that contain smut (judge me) and finding new genres that I never knew I'd like, marine biology/zoology, video games (I play on the PC), my cat, and animals in general (so yes, pictures. now.), not drinking enough water for days and then downing what I think is enough to drown me, collab Spotify playlists, sleeping when I am depressed, tbh. I like a lot of things but I'm also known to hobby hop, so I've probably tried it (or you'll mention it and I'll think I can do it) so ask me. I've become kind of deep in a mess of feelings and need some hobbies to pull me out!
If you want to know what I look like, feel free to ask but I won't just flat-out post a picture. If you want to vent to me about your night or maybe a day you had, I'd like to hear that. I'm all for the vent sessions and while I don't have anything worth venting over right now, I will happily listen to you vent.
Hope to hear from you. xo.
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Let's talk about mental health, I'm tired of the topic being taboo. We all have our demons, so why can't we freely discuss them? I suffer from a mixed bag: Borderline Personality Disorder, which comes with its own friends like anxiety, depression, and paranoia. We can talk about it. I'm not seeking to cure anyone, but I am seeking to help someone's loneliness, the feeling of being trapped in your head and feeling as if you're the only person to go through it, that's scary. I want to help. Most of us have trauma deeper than the Mariana Trench, so let's not hide that.
I like things like dumb books that contain smut (judge me) and finding new genres that I never knew I'd like, marine biology/zoology, video games (I play on the PC), my cat, and animals in general (so yes, pictures. now.), not drinking enough water for days and then downing what I think is enough to drown me, collab Spotify playlists, sleeping when I am depressed, tbh. I like a lot of things but I'm also known to hobby hop, so I've probably tried it (or you'll mention it and I'll think I can do it) so ask me. I've become kind of deep in a mess of feelings and need some hobbies to pull me out!
If you want to know what I look like, feel free to ask but I won't just flat-out post a picture. If you want to vent to me about your night or maybe a day you had, I'd like to hear that. I'm all for the vent sessions and while I don't have anything worth venting over right now, I will happily listen to you vent.
Hope to hear from you. xo.
2023.06.09 05:29 Lutinja Help me balance my BBEG
If you recognize my username and play in my group, stop reading now.
Hey everyone! So I'm in a bit of a pickle here and could really use some help! I'm a fairly new DM but ive read through both the PHB and DMG.
A while back i found this thread about a monster under the bed.
https://www.reddit.com/DnDBehindTheScreen/comments/rkvi4w/the\_monster\_under\_the\_bed\_a\_frightful\_fey\_packed/
I loved the theme and really wanted to work with it one day so i saved it and moved on with my life. Now recently in my first ever campaign im DM'ing we had two people interested in joining the group on a semi pemanent basis which would bring the PC count up to 7. Hefty number i know, a misstake i know., I'm getting to that hold on for a sec.
To introduce them to the group we decided to do a shorter adventure during the groups "downtime" between quests to introduce the new people to the group. Everyone was level 4 with the plan to reach lvl 5 after the day was saved. A perfect opportunity to save some kidnapped children and beat the monster under the bed i thought!
Anyhow, my first challenge was to pump up the CR of the bedmonster from 1 into something more apropriate, but how do you balance an encounter with 7 lvl 4s, cant be that hard i thought to myself. Off to Kobold fight club, find something apropriatly deadly since its a fight after a long rest. Add a dash of Fey based creature for the flavour. Autumn Eladrin seems like a good choice. CR10 with a medium difficulty.
The plan was to stop the monster from kidnapping a new child, the monster escapes, and then the group follows the monster into a well to save the quest child. Where they find a crying child, and run into the monster, slightly hurt from the previous scuffle. Enter the plottwist, the crying child turns into a second monster. Boom, Deadly fight. Very deadly fight. Boom, the group struggles but comes out on top in the end. Saves the children. Boom, the players are super satisfied with their achivement and that their grit and hard work payed off and they won a great victory. Boom, great session with great reviews of me. Everyone is happy.
Day of the adventure. The plothook sinks in deep, everyone is invested. They feel for the children. They end up at an orphanage where a child has already gone mising and a little 9 year old girl is putting on a brave face defending her adopted siblings from this monster with nothing but a wooden sword and a toy wolf. She pickpocketed gold from one of the adventurers a few days earlier to be able to equip all the kids with protective toys and wooden weapons. The girl is the monsters next target. The party has no idea what the monster is, all they know is that he has told the girl he is after her and that is enough for them to come for him. It's no longer about the money.
They all hide under blankets (Except the Goliath barbarian, they park his bum outside because he cant fit in a childs bed). While waiting they hear the monster taunt and try to lure Lily away from her blanket. He wants to play with her, give her candy, give her toys, the missing boy/brother misses her so much because she abandoned him, he calls for her in his sleep, he misses her so much that he cries every night. The table is shaking right now. Lily screams, everyone throws off their blankets in true super hero fashion witnessing Lily heroicially standing on her bed, wooden sword just dripping with the freshly cut smokey substance the monster is made of. By her side, her toy wolf Wilbur has grown in size and come alive, with buttons for eyes and yarn for fangs he growls at the monster while protecting Lily with his body. The monster, creaming in pain and reaching a panic from all the "grown ups" in the room.
Que an epic battle.
https://imgur.com/GJp1vVA
Monster statblock
Yeah nope. First on initiative, the wizard. Spawns a bloody Flaming Sphere right on top of the Monster, lighting him up and instantly discovering his weakness to light. Second on initative, the Goliath Path of the Giant Barbarian charges through the door like the Kool Aid man, frothing at the mouth with full rage on and grown to large size rushes the monster while screaming incoherent obscenitys and grapples the monster to the ground. The next two rounds concist of the barbarian pinning the monster to the ground while everyone else takes turns kicking the ever loving darkness out of him while the rest cheer them on.
The image is best portrayed by one white die surrounded by 6 black dice. Those who know they know. The monster did a total of 0 damage those two rounds. He took 116. I mean i know, action economy yadda yadda but jesus christ I did not expect this. This wasn't epic at all, it was a light warmup after breakfast. I made sure the damage output would be enough to down the casters in one hit and the tankier ones in two. With 2 attacks and the fear aura i was hoping to at least put some fear into them before skeddadling away with or without the poor child.
After the two rounds a few people had to run and we called it. The following 4 weeks were canceled due to scheduling conflicts before we gave up and went back to the original 5 players. Please help me make this a memorable experience.
This is the party as it stands
Path of the Giant Barbarian with GWM and dreams of becoming a Luchadore.
Banneret Fighter with 19 AC whose greatest joy is to hear my childlike waaaaaaaah as I miss.
Draconic Sorceror with 16 AC and Silvery Barbs ready to ruin every crit i get on the reckless barbarian.
Circle of the Moon druid who likes Bear form.
and finally a Evocation wizard who seems to always light things on fire by misstake.
So my plan right now is that the the wizards lights the orphanage on fire. Thats right, i prefer them to feel terrible over feeling bored. While everyone is trying to contain the fire she has started, again, the monster slips away.
Now, how the hell do i make this memorable. I have a few ideas.
1: Raise str or dex to escape grapple, possibly inherent disadvantage due to being actual darkness.
2: Give him a few lair actions when he retreats to his cave
- Summon smaller shadowmonsters to even out action economy. Im thinking kobold statblock or something similar with pack tactics so a few of them can take down the casters if left unattended
- An action that snuffs out all light sources
- Spellcasting once as a free action
3: Legendary actions
- Succeed a saving throw
- Envelop the room in darkness. Blind everyone and can only see him when adjacent for X turns. Can only be done once (Despite there being 2 of the monsters)
4: Make the lair cave larger with a few fights vs smaller shadowmonsters to drain the party of their resources.Twisted statues coming alive as crooked figures. Twisted paitings with deranged characters in them stepping out to attack the adventures. (I know this is the most reasonable choice but i would prefer not to make the lair a 3 session ordeal, and even then i would need your help to balance him)
5: Higher AC? Higher HP? Just prolong it long enough to get a few hits in and make them work for it?
6: Do nothing because there being 2 of them would be hard enough for 5 level 4 PC?
7: Base him off another monster entirely?
Please help me put the fear back into them =(
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Hey everyone! So I'm in a bit of a pickle here and could really use some help! I'm a fairly new DM but ive read through both the PHB and DMG.
A while back i found this thread about a monster under the bed.
https://www.reddit.com/DnDBehindTheScreen/comments/rkvi4w/the\_monster\_under\_the\_bed\_a\_frightful\_fey\_packed/
I loved the theme and really wanted to work with it one day so i saved it and moved on with my life. Now recently in my first ever campaign im DM'ing we had two people interested in joining the group on a semi pemanent basis which would bring the PC count up to 7. Hefty number i know, a misstake i know., I'm getting to that hold on for a sec.
To introduce them to the group we decided to do a shorter adventure during the groups "downtime" between quests to introduce the new people to the group. Everyone was level 4 with the plan to reach lvl 5 after the day was saved. A perfect opportunity to save some kidnapped children and beat the monster under the bed i thought!
Anyhow, my first challenge was to pump up the CR of the bedmonster from 1 into something more apropriate, but how do you balance an encounter with 7 lvl 4s, cant be that hard i thought to myself. Off to Kobold fight club, find something apropriatly deadly since its a fight after a long rest. Add a dash of Fey based creature for the flavour. Autumn Eladrin seems like a good choice. CR10 with a medium difficulty.
The plan was to stop the monster from kidnapping a new child, the monster escapes, and then the group follows the monster into a well to save the quest child. Where they find a crying child, and run into the monster, slightly hurt from the previous scuffle. Enter the plottwist, the crying child turns into a second monster. Boom, Deadly fight. Very deadly fight. Boom, the group struggles but comes out on top in the end. Saves the children. Boom, the players are super satisfied with their achivement and that their grit and hard work payed off and they won a great victory. Boom, great session with great reviews of me. Everyone is happy.
Day of the adventure. The plothook sinks in deep, everyone is invested. They feel for the children. They end up at an orphanage where a child has already gone mising and a little 9 year old girl is putting on a brave face defending her adopted siblings from this monster with nothing but a wooden sword and a toy wolf. She pickpocketed gold from one of the adventurers a few days earlier to be able to equip all the kids with protective toys and wooden weapons. The girl is the monsters next target. The party has no idea what the monster is, all they know is that he has told the girl he is after her and that is enough for them to come for him. It's no longer about the money.
They all hide under blankets (Except the Goliath barbarian, they park his bum outside because he cant fit in a childs bed). While waiting they hear the monster taunt and try to lure Lily away from her blanket. He wants to play with her, give her candy, give her toys, the missing boy/brother misses her so much because she abandoned him, he calls for her in his sleep, he misses her so much that he cries every night. The table is shaking right now. Lily screams, everyone throws off their blankets in true super hero fashion witnessing Lily heroicially standing on her bed, wooden sword just dripping with the freshly cut smokey substance the monster is made of. By her side, her toy wolf Wilbur has grown in size and come alive, with buttons for eyes and yarn for fangs he growls at the monster while protecting Lily with his body. The monster, creaming in pain and reaching a panic from all the "grown ups" in the room.
Que an epic battle.
https://imgur.com/GJp1vVA
Monster statblock
Yeah nope. First on initiative, the wizard. Spawns a bloody Flaming Sphere right on top of the Monster, lighting him up and instantly discovering his weakness to light. Second on initative, the Goliath Path of the Giant Barbarian charges through the door like the Kool Aid man, frothing at the mouth with full rage on and grown to large size rushes the monster while screaming incoherent obscenitys and grapples the monster to the ground. The next two rounds concist of the barbarian pinning the monster to the ground while everyone else takes turns kicking the ever loving darkness out of him while the rest cheer them on.
The image is best portrayed by one white die surrounded by 6 black dice. Those who know they know. The monster did a total of 0 damage those two rounds. He took 116. I mean i know, action economy yadda yadda but jesus christ I did not expect this. This wasn't epic at all, it was a light warmup after breakfast. I made sure the damage output would be enough to down the casters in one hit and the tankier ones in two. With 2 attacks and the fear aura i was hoping to at least put some fear into them before skeddadling away with or without the poor child.
After the two rounds a few people had to run and we called it. The following 4 weeks were canceled due to scheduling conflicts before we gave up and went back to the original 5 players. Please help me make this a memorable experience.
This is the party as it stands
Path of the Giant Barbarian with GWM and dreams of becoming a Luchadore.
Banneret Fighter with 19 AC whose greatest joy is to hear my childlike waaaaaaaah as I miss.
Draconic Sorceror with 16 AC and Silvery Barbs ready to ruin every crit i get on the reckless barbarian.
Circle of the Moon druid who likes Bear form.
and finally a Evocation wizard who seems to always light things on fire by misstake.
So my plan right now is that the the wizards lights the orphanage on fire. Thats right, i prefer them to feel terrible over feeling bored. While everyone is trying to contain the fire she has started, again, the monster slips away.
Now, how the hell do i make this memorable. I have a few ideas.
1: Raise str or dex to escape grapple, possibly inherent disadvantage due to being actual darkness.
2: Give him a few lair actions when he retreats to his cave
- Summon smaller shadowmonsters to even out action economy. Im thinking kobold statblock or something similar with pack tactics so a few of them can take down the casters if left unattended
- An action that snuffs out all light sources
- Spellcasting once as a free action
3: Legendary actions
- Succeed a saving throw
- Envelop the room in darkness. Blind everyone and can only see him when adjacent for X turns. Can only be done once (Despite there being 2 of the monsters)
4: Make the lair cave larger with a few fights vs smaller shadowmonsters to drain the party of their resources.Twisted statues coming alive as crooked figures. Twisted paitings with deranged characters in them stepping out to attack the adventures. (I know this is the most reasonable choice but i would prefer not to make the lair a 3 session ordeal, and even then i would need your help to balance him)
5: Higher AC? Higher HP? Just prolong it long enough to get a few hits in and make them work for it?
6: Do nothing because there being 2 of them would be hard enough for 5 level 4 PC?
7: Base him off another monster entirely?
Please help me put the fear back into them =(
2023.06.09 05:28 cupidity- 32F \\ you're not obligated to always be your very best self.
I don't ask for much in friendships, but I can be clingy once I'm comfortable with you. The issue lies in me becoming comfortable with you, so if you withstand that, I'm going to be an amazing friend. If you are open to long-term friendships with the possibility of me not always responding to you (thank you mental health) or going "code dark" during conversations, I might be for you. I will always be there if you need me to be though.
Let's talk about mental health, I'm tired of the topic being taboo. We all have our demons, so why can't we freely discuss them? I suffer from a mixed bag: Borderline Personality Disorder, which comes with its own friends like anxiety, depression, and paranoia. We can talk about it. I'm not seeking to cure anyone, but I am seeking to help someone's loneliness, the feeling of being trapped in your head and feeling as if you're the only person to go through it, that's scary. I want to help. Most of us have trauma deeper than the Mariana Trench, so let's not hide that.
I like things like dumb books that contain smut (judge me) and finding new genres that I never knew I'd like, marine biology/zoology, video games (I play on the PC), my cat, and animals in general (so yes, pictures. now.), not drinking enough water for days and then downing what I think is enough to drown me, collab Spotify playlists, sleeping when I am depressed, tbh. I like a lot of things but I'm also known to hobby hop, so I've probably tried it (or you'll mention it and I'll think I can do it) so ask me. I've become kind of deep in a mess of feelings and need some hobbies to pull me out!
If you want to know what I look like, feel free to ask but I won't just flat-out post a picture. If you want to vent to me about your night or maybe a day you had, I'd like to hear that. I'm all for the vent sessions and while I don't have anything worth venting over right now, I will happily listen to you vent.
Hope to hear from you. xo.
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Let's talk about mental health, I'm tired of the topic being taboo. We all have our demons, so why can't we freely discuss them? I suffer from a mixed bag: Borderline Personality Disorder, which comes with its own friends like anxiety, depression, and paranoia. We can talk about it. I'm not seeking to cure anyone, but I am seeking to help someone's loneliness, the feeling of being trapped in your head and feeling as if you're the only person to go through it, that's scary. I want to help. Most of us have trauma deeper than the Mariana Trench, so let's not hide that.
I like things like dumb books that contain smut (judge me) and finding new genres that I never knew I'd like, marine biology/zoology, video games (I play on the PC), my cat, and animals in general (so yes, pictures. now.), not drinking enough water for days and then downing what I think is enough to drown me, collab Spotify playlists, sleeping when I am depressed, tbh. I like a lot of things but I'm also known to hobby hop, so I've probably tried it (or you'll mention it and I'll think I can do it) so ask me. I've become kind of deep in a mess of feelings and need some hobbies to pull me out!
If you want to know what I look like, feel free to ask but I won't just flat-out post a picture. If you want to vent to me about your night or maybe a day you had, I'd like to hear that. I'm all for the vent sessions and while I don't have anything worth venting over right now, I will happily listen to you vent.
Hope to hear from you. xo.
2023.06.09 05:28 cupidity- [32/F] you aren't obligated
to always be your very best self. 💕
I don't ask for much in friendships, but I can be clingy once I'm comfortable with you. The issue lies in me becoming comfortable with you, so if you withstand that, I'm going to be an amazing friend. If you are open to long-term friendships with the possibility of me not always responding to you (thank you mental health) or going "code dark" during conversations, I might be for you. I will always be there if you need me to be though.
Let's talk about mental health, I'm tired of the topic being taboo. We all have our demons, so why can't we freely discuss them? I suffer from a mixed bag: Borderline Personality Disorder, which comes with its own friends like anxiety, depression, and paranoia. We can talk about it. I'm not seeking to cure anyone, but I am seeking to help someone's loneliness, the feeling of being trapped in your head and feeling as if you're the only person to go through it, that's scary. I want to help. Most of us have trauma deeper than the Mariana Trench, so let's not hide that.
I like things like dumb books that contain smut (judge me) and finding new genres that I never knew I'd like, marine biology/zoology, video games (I play on the PC), my cat, and animals in general (so yes, pictures. now.), not drinking enough water for days and then downing what I think is enough to drown me, collab Spotify playlists, sleeping when I am depressed, tbh. I like a lot of things but I'm also known to hobby hop, so I've probably tried it (or you'll mention it and I'll think I can do it) so ask me. I've become kind of deep in a mess of feelings and need some hobbies to pull me out!
If you want to know what I look like, feel free to ask but I won't just flat-out post a picture. If you want to vent to me about your night or maybe a day you had, I'd like to hear that. I'm all for the vent sessions and while I don't have anything worth venting over right now, I will happily listen to you vent.
Hope to hear from you. xo.
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I don't ask for much in friendships, but I can be clingy once I'm comfortable with you. The issue lies in me becoming comfortable with you, so if you withstand that, I'm going to be an amazing friend. If you are open to long-term friendships with the possibility of me not always responding to you (thank you mental health) or going "code dark" during conversations, I might be for you. I will always be there if you need me to be though.
Let's talk about mental health, I'm tired of the topic being taboo. We all have our demons, so why can't we freely discuss them? I suffer from a mixed bag: Borderline Personality Disorder, which comes with its own friends like anxiety, depression, and paranoia. We can talk about it. I'm not seeking to cure anyone, but I am seeking to help someone's loneliness, the feeling of being trapped in your head and feeling as if you're the only person to go through it, that's scary. I want to help. Most of us have trauma deeper than the Mariana Trench, so let's not hide that.
I like things like dumb books that contain smut (judge me) and finding new genres that I never knew I'd like, marine biology/zoology, video games (I play on the PC), my cat, and animals in general (so yes, pictures. now.), not drinking enough water for days and then downing what I think is enough to drown me, collab Spotify playlists, sleeping when I am depressed, tbh. I like a lot of things but I'm also known to hobby hop, so I've probably tried it (or you'll mention it and I'll think I can do it) so ask me. I've become kind of deep in a mess of feelings and need some hobbies to pull me out!
If you want to know what I look like, feel free to ask but I won't just flat-out post a picture. If you want to vent to me about your night or maybe a day you had, I'd like to hear that. I'm all for the vent sessions and while I don't have anything worth venting over right now, I will happily listen to you vent.
Hope to hear from you. xo.
2023.06.09 05:28 DiamondsR4eveer Please~🥺I am trying to get my favorite item for free. Can you help me?🌾🌾🌾🌾🌾🌾🌾🌾🌾🌾
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2023.06.09 05:28 catperson092416 Trying to Believe
I've put it all out there. You know how I feel. I should feel free now, I suppose. I should just focus on me.
It's hard to have faith, even when all the signs are pointing to you. It's so hard to trust myself, to trust the pull, the knowing I have for you.
I feel you with me all the time.
It feels like madness.
I could probably try to make myself forget you now, to be sane and normal and try to fall in love with someone else when I'm ready. But these things always backfire when you try to control them. So I wait. Not for you necessarily, but for me. I wait for myself to heal, for the universe to align, for you to say you want me too.
I feel you do but I don't see it. How to have faith?
I have to love myself now, to know I'll be worthy of the immense love I only imagine. Is it with you? Or with a faceless stranger of the future? I know what I dream of. But what do you want?? Where will our paths take us? How will we ever meet again?
I'm just holding fast, trying to believe.
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It's hard to have faith, even when all the signs are pointing to you. It's so hard to trust myself, to trust the pull, the knowing I have for you.
I feel you with me all the time.
It feels like madness.
I could probably try to make myself forget you now, to be sane and normal and try to fall in love with someone else when I'm ready. But these things always backfire when you try to control them. So I wait. Not for you necessarily, but for me. I wait for myself to heal, for the universe to align, for you to say you want me too.
I feel you do but I don't see it. How to have faith?
I have to love myself now, to know I'll be worthy of the immense love I only imagine. Is it with you? Or with a faceless stranger of the future? I know what I dream of. But what do you want?? Where will our paths take us? How will we ever meet again?
I'm just holding fast, trying to believe.
2023.06.09 05:28 GuaranteeOne4205 AITA for running away the night my younger ex boyfriend told me that he love me and I was his first love?
(31f) i've been dating my ex boyfriend(23) who is eight years younger than me for about seven months. The thing is that we have been casually dating and during that time I guess he developed deeper feelings for me than I did him. During my early 20s I was in a very toxic and abusive relationship that left me seriously traumatized. It took many years and a lot of therapy to work through a lot of my mental health problems. Coming out of that relationship left me with a lot of intimacy and commitment issues. It's one of the main reasons of why I didnt want to be in a serious relationship or be married for a long time or if at all. It also left me feeling like I have to run away from every confrontation or when my anxiety is going through the roof. I have a problem running away from my problems. So four days ago-my then boyfriend and I at the time went on dinner date and then he confessed to me that he wanted to be something more and he could see a future with me. that I was the very first girl that he truly loved. After he told me all of that I thank him and then I said I had to go to the bathroom and just snuck out the side door of the restaurant called an Uber and went home. I was having a panic attack when he was telling me he wanted to take our relationship to the next level so I just ran away like I always do with most of my problems. I have been ghosting him up until today I tried calling him a few times but then he texted me saying he never wanted to see me again.
The thing is I'm seven weeks pregnant with his baby and I found out two weeks ago. I've haven't told anyone that I'm pregnant and honestly I don't know what to do because I never really wanted to be a mother. I'm not a very maternal person and I'm horrible around children. I'm an investment banker so a lot of my time goes to my work. I don't have time nor energy to be a single parent. After I found out I was pregnant I honestly ignored it and hoped it would go away on its own but now I know I have to face my problems. I honestly don't want my ex-boyfriend whole life to be over, to be a father at such a young age. I don't want to potentially hurt him anymore than I already have. And before I found out I was pregnant I didn't think it would work out long-term because there was a huge age gap and mentally age wise we different parts of our lives. I'm thinking of giving the baby up for adoption. Honestly I'm fine for other women to have a choice for an abortion but personally I don't want to terminate the pregnancy. But I don't think it's fair to tell the ex boyfriend about the baby existence. Would I be the asshole if I didn't tell him about the child and just put it up for adoption and let him live his life without knowing about the baby existence or should I just tell him and potentially change his life?
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The thing is I'm seven weeks pregnant with his baby and I found out two weeks ago. I've haven't told anyone that I'm pregnant and honestly I don't know what to do because I never really wanted to be a mother. I'm not a very maternal person and I'm horrible around children. I'm an investment banker so a lot of my time goes to my work. I don't have time nor energy to be a single parent. After I found out I was pregnant I honestly ignored it and hoped it would go away on its own but now I know I have to face my problems. I honestly don't want my ex-boyfriend whole life to be over, to be a father at such a young age. I don't want to potentially hurt him anymore than I already have. And before I found out I was pregnant I didn't think it would work out long-term because there was a huge age gap and mentally age wise we different parts of our lives. I'm thinking of giving the baby up for adoption. Honestly I'm fine for other women to have a choice for an abortion but personally I don't want to terminate the pregnancy. But I don't think it's fair to tell the ex boyfriend about the baby existence. Would I be the asshole if I didn't tell him about the child and just put it up for adoption and let him live his life without knowing about the baby existence or should I just tell him and potentially change his life?
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2023.06.09 05:28 storiesof-adreamer 25 [F4M] #Nashville/USA - Looking for my special subby boyfriend for a GFD long term relationship!
(If this post is still up, I'm still looking!)
Hey there. I really want to develop a female led/slight gentle femdom relationship with a special guy.
When a lot of men see the term "female led relationship," they think, "Oh, the woman will make all the decisions with no input on what I think/want."
Are there dynamics like that? I'm sure there is. Personally, I'm not looking to be "the boss" or "above" you in any way. I want us to be equal... but have you give up control to me in a few other ways. :)
What do I mean? Keep reading on!
● ABOUT ME ●
You can call me Dreamer for now. (I'll tell you my real name once we get to know each other) Please do NOT call me Miss, Master, Dominatrix or Ma'am.
I'm 25 years old and an INFJ-T. I live in Nashville, Tennessee, USA (AKA Music City) and I'm on Central Standard Time. I'm a Black woman and I stand 5 feet, 7 inches tall. My eyes are brown and I wear glasses. I don't have any tattoos or piercings at the moment.
One thing I want to mention is that I'm plus size, AKA a bigger girl. I'm undergoing a vertical sleeve gastrectomy in two months to lose the excess weight I have in a sustainable and permanent way. I'm ready to regain my body and be healthy and confident again. I'd love to have you by my side throughout my journey!
As far as personality goes, I'd describe myself as empathetic and sweet. I like to help others as much as I can. In person, I tend to be rather shy at first. People tend to mistake that for weakness or gullibility. I'm anything but; my strength lies in introspection and quiet observation. I notice every nuance of a person's actions, words, body language, vibe... my intuition hasn't steered me wrong yet!
● INTERESTS ●
I won't go into detail on every single interest that I have but I'll talk about my biggest ones that you'll likely hear me mention the most.
✨️Writing✨️
I've been writing since I was six years old, but I started taking it seriously around 13 years old. All in all, it's been 19 years. As of right now, I primarily write Fanfiction but in the past, I've written short stories, poetry and I even tried to learn how to write screenplays at one point.
I wrote my first full-length book in 2018/2019. I started the sequel in early 2020, but I'm still working on it. I lost a LOT of inspiration during the pandemic but I'm finally writing for it again.
If you also enjoy writing, I'd love to "talk shop" with you and maybe we can exchange some of our past works.
✨️Music✨️
Music has gotten me through a lot over the years. Yeah, yeah, I know everyone says that. But it truly has. It's shaped my life and introduced me to a lot of things and people that I probably never would've done or met otherwise.
There's no point in saying I like xyz genre because I've listened to pretty much everything. The only ones I truly hate are country and gangster rap. If you want specifics, though... I've been a HUGE twenty one pilots fan for 9 years. (I have more merch, stickers and other random shit than I care to admit to lmao) I also love other artists like Amber Run, Purity Ring, Phantogram, Daughter, Lorde, OneRepublic... plus tons more.
I've always had this dumb idea of a guy and I confessing to each other through playlists with songs that make us think fondly about each other...
God, I'm single.
✨️Photography✨️
I've been into photography for 10 years and I've had my DSLR for eight years. (It's definitely the camera version of 'Ol Reliable) I enjoy nature and portrait photography. I'd love to show you some of my work and get your thoughts on it.
✨️TV/Movies✨️
TV genres I like: Animation (like Spongebob), comedy, drama, documentaries (disaster and crime ones are my favorites), true crime (like Forensic Files), old sitcoms (like Sanford and Son) and cooking and baking competitions/reality TV (like Kitchen Nightmares US and UK, Hell's Kitchen, Master Chef, The Great British Baking Show, etc)
Movie genres I like: Animation, drama, comedy, action, psychological thrillers and science fiction. I thoroughly loved The Greatest Showman so one could say I like musicals but it's the only one I've seen so not sure if that really counts. Comic book movies are pretty alright too, but I really haven't seen anything past the first Avengers movie lmaooooo.
I say this as unpretentiously as possible, but I haven't seen most popular TV shows or movies that your average person likes. I think the last "popular" thing I watched was that Jeffrey Dahmer series on Netflix. (mainly out of morbid curiosity because everyone was freaking out about it... and because I think Evan Peters is a cutie) I only saw a few episodes and then forgot to watch the rest of it, but it wasn't as horrific as everyone was saying. Maybe I've watched too much Forensic Files and I'm desensitized lmao.
✨️Video and computer games✨️
Video game genres I like: Adventure, action-adventure, RPGs & JRPGs, Strategy... basically anything that is relatively fun and not horror related.
Some of my all-time favorites: Kingdom Hearts II, Ratchet and Clank, Journey, Final Fantasy VII and Final Fantasy X.
As far as computer games, the only thing I play on a regular basis is The Sims 2 and The Sims 4. As a kid, I loved simulator and time-management games; some old favorites are the RCT series, Simcity: Rush Hour, the first four Diner Dash games, the Delicious series and Burger Shop 2 (which I still have on my computer actually lmao)
✨️Other random interests✨️
Art, traveling, people watching, researching random topics on Wikipedia and watching YouTube, especially channels with old shows and movies.
☆ CAREER ☆
My last position was working nights at a psychiatric hospital. I'm looking for something new at the moment.
☆ SCHOOLING ☆
I'm officially a college student at 25. Yay! Feel free to ask me more about it, I'd love to talk.
☆ ET CETERA ☆
I really love dogs and cats. I have three cats and they're little demons but I love them to death. I also love small animals like ferrets, bunnies and snakes!
My main love languages are words of affirmation, quality time and gift giving/receiving. To be honest, though, there's elements of each language that I enjoy or relate to in one way or another.
I don't smoke and I drink every so often. Otherwise, I'm vaccinated and DDF.
● ABOUT YOU ●
I'm looking for a guy between the ages of 23-33 years old. I might be willing to talk to someone within two years in either direction (so 21 min and 35 max) if you meet all my other preferences/wants. If you're younger than 21 or older than 35, though, please don't contact me.
Please be single and emotionally available. I won't interact with anyone already in a relationship or married (even if you're separated or in a "dead bedroom," you're STILL married) and I'm especially not interested in poly/ENM. I'm 100% monogamous.
Hair is super important to me! I prefer medium length to long hair, something I can stroke and play with a lot lmao.
I have a REALLY big soft spot for blue and/or doe eyes, but don't let that deter you. If you have kind eyes, I'll fall in love with them, no matter their color!
I tend to like softer facial features and even softer personalities. Are you super masculine in public but a total softie in private? Lovely! Are you less masculine but a little more feminine? Great! Are you androgynous or otherwise fall somewhere in between? I can dig it!
Key traits that I like in a guy include, but are not limited to: Being sweet, gentle, empathetic, considerate, an active listener, exceptional at communication and willing to go the extra mile for those that you love, be it family, friends, your partner, etc.
With that being said, it's important that you have time for me. I'm not expecting us to talk 24/7 but if you're always too busy to talk to me, this won't work. At some point, I'd like for us to also talk on the phone as our schedules permit, of course.
As I mentioned in the beginning of this post, please be from the USA/North America and willing to meet and get to know each other in person ASAP.
● WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR ●
It's important to me that you're an active listener; what I mean is that you'll make an effort to listen to what I have to say and respond to it accordingly. If I tell you my thoughts on a matter or ask you a question or give you a compliment etc etc, please respond to it. It makes me feel so sad and small if I feel like my thoughts or opinions are not important/relevant.
I can tell pretty quickly if someone is genuinely interested in me or not. Like I said before, I notice everything lol.
I mentioned earlier how one of my love languages is words of affirmation. One of the ways I enjoy that is through compliments. I'm not looking for you to worship the ground I walk on, but being told "You look beautiful" or "When you do xyz, that makes me really happy" makes me feel SO seen and appreciated.
It's incredibly frustrating to send a picture of myself and get a lukewarm response in return. :(
Affection is also super important to me. Holding hands, hugging, kissing, cuddling, touching... all the cute couple shit. I want you to touch me, not in a pervy way, but in an affectionate way. I want to stroke your hair while I hold you close... little things like that make me incredibly happy.
Keep in mind, everything I want from you, I'll give to you in return. I'll always listen and acknowledge you, give you compliments, shower you in affection, plus whatever else makes you feel wanted and appreciated as a person and in a relationship.
● OUR DYNAMIC ●
I always want you to have a choice and be able to voice your opinion. I will never degrade or boss you around in general, but especially when it comes to your personal choices. I'm a switch that used to be a predominant sub and believe me, I've had doms tell me before, "I make the decision on what you wear, what to eat, who you hang out with, etc etc... because I'm your dom and what I say goes."
Some people may like that. More power to them. But I'm not like that. I want you to feel free to express yourself. If you want my opinion, I'll give it to you, of course. But my job is to build you up and support your decisions, no matter how small!
Again, I'm not looking for you to kiss my ass. I'd love for you to take the lead on most decisions (with my input, of course). But I want you to also have a "service" attitude; whether that's helping out with household chores or surprising me with a massage after work or giving me flowers "just because" or helping me paint my toenails lol... just to name some examples. The sky's the limit.
That extends to "the bedroom" as well. I want my pleasure to be just as important to you as yours is to me.
In short? I just want to feel doted on and taken care of. I want to be the most important person in your life and you be the most important person in my life. I want to make you feel special and praise you and tell you how much you mean to me. And I want the same in return. 💓
● "KINKS" ●
This is inevitably gonna come up at some point. I'll say when it comes to my "kinks" (if you want to call them that) I like:
Teasing, edging, telling you when you can cum and begging me for it (I believe it's called orgasm control/denial), moaning, praise, blindfolds, eye contact, body worshiping (you and me), breast worship, oral, fingering and using toys on you.
Been a little curious about pegging someone one day. We'd have to build up to it, of course, because I don't want to hurt you. If you're not into that, though, don't worry! It's definitely not a requirement.
Things I do NOT like (or hard limits) are:
Humiliation, degradation, anything that causes you or me physical, emotional and mental harm, blood, pee, scat, vomit, diapers, CNC, ageplay, raceplay, hitting, slapping, choking or anything else illegal, unethical or otherwise unloving.
● IN CONCLUSION... ●
If you read all of this, good job! Here's a cookie, hope you like chocolate chip. 🍪
Seriously, though, I can't name every little thing I want. Despite the length of this post, I'm not trying to play Build-A-Boy. I realize you have your own caveats and that's totally fine. Let's get to know each other and see what happens. All I ask for, again, is that you want a serious, longterm relationship and not view me as just some sort of "kink dispenser."
Chats or DMs are fine. When you send me a message, please include the following...
• Name or alias • Location • Age • Height, body type, hair cololength, eye color • Your interests/hobbies • Whether you're a sub or a switch • What you're looking for out of a relationship and something (or things) you really enjoyed about my post • A clear, SFW picture of yourself • Your current favorite song (so I know you actually read through all of this) • Whatever else you want to add to catch my attention. The more you can match my "detailed energy," the better.
I won't reply to those who ignore my preferences or the message requirements above. If you send me nudes/dick pics/sexting or FWB requests/rude messages, you will be blocked and reported.
Thank you so much for reading this, and I hope you have a good night!
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Hey there. I really want to develop a female led/slight gentle femdom relationship with a special guy.
When a lot of men see the term "female led relationship," they think, "Oh, the woman will make all the decisions with no input on what I think/want."
Are there dynamics like that? I'm sure there is. Personally, I'm not looking to be "the boss" or "above" you in any way. I want us to be equal... but have you give up control to me in a few other ways. :)
What do I mean? Keep reading on!
● ABOUT ME ●
You can call me Dreamer for now. (I'll tell you my real name once we get to know each other) Please do NOT call me Miss, Master, Dominatrix or Ma'am.
I'm 25 years old and an INFJ-T. I live in Nashville, Tennessee, USA (AKA Music City) and I'm on Central Standard Time. I'm a Black woman and I stand 5 feet, 7 inches tall. My eyes are brown and I wear glasses. I don't have any tattoos or piercings at the moment.
One thing I want to mention is that I'm plus size, AKA a bigger girl. I'm undergoing a vertical sleeve gastrectomy in two months to lose the excess weight I have in a sustainable and permanent way. I'm ready to regain my body and be healthy and confident again. I'd love to have you by my side throughout my journey!
As far as personality goes, I'd describe myself as empathetic and sweet. I like to help others as much as I can. In person, I tend to be rather shy at first. People tend to mistake that for weakness or gullibility. I'm anything but; my strength lies in introspection and quiet observation. I notice every nuance of a person's actions, words, body language, vibe... my intuition hasn't steered me wrong yet!
● INTERESTS ●
I won't go into detail on every single interest that I have but I'll talk about my biggest ones that you'll likely hear me mention the most.
✨️Writing✨️
I've been writing since I was six years old, but I started taking it seriously around 13 years old. All in all, it's been 19 years. As of right now, I primarily write Fanfiction but in the past, I've written short stories, poetry and I even tried to learn how to write screenplays at one point.
I wrote my first full-length book in 2018/2019. I started the sequel in early 2020, but I'm still working on it. I lost a LOT of inspiration during the pandemic but I'm finally writing for it again.
If you also enjoy writing, I'd love to "talk shop" with you and maybe we can exchange some of our past works.
✨️Music✨️
Music has gotten me through a lot over the years. Yeah, yeah, I know everyone says that. But it truly has. It's shaped my life and introduced me to a lot of things and people that I probably never would've done or met otherwise.
There's no point in saying I like xyz genre because I've listened to pretty much everything. The only ones I truly hate are country and gangster rap. If you want specifics, though... I've been a HUGE twenty one pilots fan for 9 years. (I have more merch, stickers and other random shit than I care to admit to lmao) I also love other artists like Amber Run, Purity Ring, Phantogram, Daughter, Lorde, OneRepublic... plus tons more.
I've always had this dumb idea of a guy and I confessing to each other through playlists with songs that make us think fondly about each other...
God, I'm single.
✨️Photography✨️
I've been into photography for 10 years and I've had my DSLR for eight years. (It's definitely the camera version of 'Ol Reliable) I enjoy nature and portrait photography. I'd love to show you some of my work and get your thoughts on it.
✨️TV/Movies✨️
TV genres I like: Animation (like Spongebob), comedy, drama, documentaries (disaster and crime ones are my favorites), true crime (like Forensic Files), old sitcoms (like Sanford and Son) and cooking and baking competitions/reality TV (like Kitchen Nightmares US and UK, Hell's Kitchen, Master Chef, The Great British Baking Show, etc)
Movie genres I like: Animation, drama, comedy, action, psychological thrillers and science fiction. I thoroughly loved The Greatest Showman so one could say I like musicals but it's the only one I've seen so not sure if that really counts. Comic book movies are pretty alright too, but I really haven't seen anything past the first Avengers movie lmaooooo.
I say this as unpretentiously as possible, but I haven't seen most popular TV shows or movies that your average person likes. I think the last "popular" thing I watched was that Jeffrey Dahmer series on Netflix. (mainly out of morbid curiosity because everyone was freaking out about it... and because I think Evan Peters is a cutie) I only saw a few episodes and then forgot to watch the rest of it, but it wasn't as horrific as everyone was saying. Maybe I've watched too much Forensic Files and I'm desensitized lmao.
✨️Video and computer games✨️
Video game genres I like: Adventure, action-adventure, RPGs & JRPGs, Strategy... basically anything that is relatively fun and not horror related.
Some of my all-time favorites: Kingdom Hearts II, Ratchet and Clank, Journey, Final Fantasy VII and Final Fantasy X.
As far as computer games, the only thing I play on a regular basis is The Sims 2 and The Sims 4. As a kid, I loved simulator and time-management games; some old favorites are the RCT series, Simcity: Rush Hour, the first four Diner Dash games, the Delicious series and Burger Shop 2 (which I still have on my computer actually lmao)
✨️Other random interests✨️
Art, traveling, people watching, researching random topics on Wikipedia and watching YouTube, especially channels with old shows and movies.
☆ CAREER ☆
My last position was working nights at a psychiatric hospital. I'm looking for something new at the moment.
☆ SCHOOLING ☆
I'm officially a college student at 25. Yay! Feel free to ask me more about it, I'd love to talk.
☆ ET CETERA ☆
I really love dogs and cats. I have three cats and they're little demons but I love them to death. I also love small animals like ferrets, bunnies and snakes!
My main love languages are words of affirmation, quality time and gift giving/receiving. To be honest, though, there's elements of each language that I enjoy or relate to in one way or another.
I don't smoke and I drink every so often. Otherwise, I'm vaccinated and DDF.
● ABOUT YOU ●
I'm looking for a guy between the ages of 23-33 years old. I might be willing to talk to someone within two years in either direction (so 21 min and 35 max) if you meet all my other preferences/wants. If you're younger than 21 or older than 35, though, please don't contact me.
Please be single and emotionally available. I won't interact with anyone already in a relationship or married (even if you're separated or in a "dead bedroom," you're STILL married) and I'm especially not interested in poly/ENM. I'm 100% monogamous.
Hair is super important to me! I prefer medium length to long hair, something I can stroke and play with a lot lmao.
I have a REALLY big soft spot for blue and/or doe eyes, but don't let that deter you. If you have kind eyes, I'll fall in love with them, no matter their color!
I tend to like softer facial features and even softer personalities. Are you super masculine in public but a total softie in private? Lovely! Are you less masculine but a little more feminine? Great! Are you androgynous or otherwise fall somewhere in between? I can dig it!
Key traits that I like in a guy include, but are not limited to: Being sweet, gentle, empathetic, considerate, an active listener, exceptional at communication and willing to go the extra mile for those that you love, be it family, friends, your partner, etc.
With that being said, it's important that you have time for me. I'm not expecting us to talk 24/7 but if you're always too busy to talk to me, this won't work. At some point, I'd like for us to also talk on the phone as our schedules permit, of course.
As I mentioned in the beginning of this post, please be from the USA/North America and willing to meet and get to know each other in person ASAP.
● WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR ●
It's important to me that you're an active listener; what I mean is that you'll make an effort to listen to what I have to say and respond to it accordingly. If I tell you my thoughts on a matter or ask you a question or give you a compliment etc etc, please respond to it. It makes me feel so sad and small if I feel like my thoughts or opinions are not important/relevant.
I can tell pretty quickly if someone is genuinely interested in me or not. Like I said before, I notice everything lol.
I mentioned earlier how one of my love languages is words of affirmation. One of the ways I enjoy that is through compliments. I'm not looking for you to worship the ground I walk on, but being told "You look beautiful" or "When you do xyz, that makes me really happy" makes me feel SO seen and appreciated.
It's incredibly frustrating to send a picture of myself and get a lukewarm response in return. :(
Affection is also super important to me. Holding hands, hugging, kissing, cuddling, touching... all the cute couple shit. I want you to touch me, not in a pervy way, but in an affectionate way. I want to stroke your hair while I hold you close... little things like that make me incredibly happy.
Keep in mind, everything I want from you, I'll give to you in return. I'll always listen and acknowledge you, give you compliments, shower you in affection, plus whatever else makes you feel wanted and appreciated as a person and in a relationship.
● OUR DYNAMIC ●
I always want you to have a choice and be able to voice your opinion. I will never degrade or boss you around in general, but especially when it comes to your personal choices. I'm a switch that used to be a predominant sub and believe me, I've had doms tell me before, "I make the decision on what you wear, what to eat, who you hang out with, etc etc... because I'm your dom and what I say goes."
Some people may like that. More power to them. But I'm not like that. I want you to feel free to express yourself. If you want my opinion, I'll give it to you, of course. But my job is to build you up and support your decisions, no matter how small!
Again, I'm not looking for you to kiss my ass. I'd love for you to take the lead on most decisions (with my input, of course). But I want you to also have a "service" attitude; whether that's helping out with household chores or surprising me with a massage after work or giving me flowers "just because" or helping me paint my toenails lol... just to name some examples. The sky's the limit.
That extends to "the bedroom" as well. I want my pleasure to be just as important to you as yours is to me.
In short? I just want to feel doted on and taken care of. I want to be the most important person in your life and you be the most important person in my life. I want to make you feel special and praise you and tell you how much you mean to me. And I want the same in return. 💓
● "KINKS" ●
This is inevitably gonna come up at some point. I'll say when it comes to my "kinks" (if you want to call them that) I like:
Teasing, edging, telling you when you can cum and begging me for it (I believe it's called orgasm control/denial), moaning, praise, blindfolds, eye contact, body worshiping (you and me), breast worship, oral, fingering and using toys on you.
Been a little curious about pegging someone one day. We'd have to build up to it, of course, because I don't want to hurt you. If you're not into that, though, don't worry! It's definitely not a requirement.
Things I do NOT like (or hard limits) are:
Humiliation, degradation, anything that causes you or me physical, emotional and mental harm, blood, pee, scat, vomit, diapers, CNC, ageplay, raceplay, hitting, slapping, choking or anything else illegal, unethical or otherwise unloving.
● IN CONCLUSION... ●
If you read all of this, good job! Here's a cookie, hope you like chocolate chip. 🍪
Seriously, though, I can't name every little thing I want. Despite the length of this post, I'm not trying to play Build-A-Boy. I realize you have your own caveats and that's totally fine. Let's get to know each other and see what happens. All I ask for, again, is that you want a serious, longterm relationship and not view me as just some sort of "kink dispenser."
Chats or DMs are fine. When you send me a message, please include the following...
• Name or alias • Location • Age • Height, body type, hair cololength, eye color • Your interests/hobbies • Whether you're a sub or a switch • What you're looking for out of a relationship and something (or things) you really enjoyed about my post • A clear, SFW picture of yourself • Your current favorite song (so I know you actually read through all of this) • Whatever else you want to add to catch my attention. The more you can match my "detailed energy," the better.
I won't reply to those who ignore my preferences or the message requirements above. If you send me nudes/dick pics/sexting or FWB requests/rude messages, you will be blocked and reported.
Thank you so much for reading this, and I hope you have a good night!
- Dreamer
2023.06.09 05:27 epic-bathy-gal don't txt ur ex
https://discord.com/invite/bathwater
Do you need a distraction from the pain? Or do just want to talk with someone who gets it? I'd like to share where I've been doing that. A discord group of people like you.
Feel free to vent your frustrations out into the void, or reach out to the community for support and advice. Everyone here has gone through or is going through the same thing, we all understand.
The group also hosts events like watching movies or playing games in voice chat. Listening to music together and event hosting karaoke! These events have helped me get through some dark nights and keep me afloat on days I'd otherwise be isolated and alone. There are serious discussions and playful jokes all around. It's also got a strong meme culture brewing, you're bound to have good laughs on the darkest of days.
https://discord.com/invite/bathwater
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Do you need a distraction from the pain? Or do just want to talk with someone who gets it? I'd like to share where I've been doing that. A discord group of people like you.
Feel free to vent your frustrations out into the void, or reach out to the community for support and advice. Everyone here has gone through or is going through the same thing, we all understand.
The group also hosts events like watching movies or playing games in voice chat. Listening to music together and event hosting karaoke! These events have helped me get through some dark nights and keep me afloat on days I'd otherwise be isolated and alone. There are serious discussions and playful jokes all around. It's also got a strong meme culture brewing, you're bound to have good laughs on the darkest of days.
https://discord.com/invite/bathwater
2023.06.09 05:27 DiamondsR4eveer Please~🥺I am trying to get my favorite item for free. Can you help me?🌾🌾🌾🌾🌾🌾🌾🌾🌾🌾🌾🌾
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2023.06.09 05:27 Available_Gas_8768 [M4F] Catfish me as anyone… I thought everyone forgot about my birthday until you surprise me.
I come home from an exhausting day at work. I turn the corner to my bedroom and you surprise me.
I want this rp to be very flexible so we can make it our own. You can surprise me as any woman you want in any way you want, the pics are there if you don’t have a ref. You could be a family member, a friend, or whatever you can think of. It also doesn’t have to be in the bedroom, it can be at a restaurant, office party, or wherever you want.
I have very few limits and I’m a switch so feel free to suggest ideas. If nothing else come with a list of kinks and limits so we can work from there. I look forward to chatting with you. If you’re comfortable you could even hit me up on discord JasonWhite#7734. If it goes well I’d love to do something long term.
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I want this rp to be very flexible so we can make it our own. You can surprise me as any woman you want in any way you want, the pics are there if you don’t have a ref. You could be a family member, a friend, or whatever you can think of. It also doesn’t have to be in the bedroom, it can be at a restaurant, office party, or wherever you want.
I have very few limits and I’m a switch so feel free to suggest ideas. If nothing else come with a list of kinks and limits so we can work from there. I look forward to chatting with you. If you’re comfortable you could even hit me up on discord JasonWhite#7734. If it goes well I’d love to do something long term.
2023.06.09 05:27 phrog1fan M20 United States est work sucked today anyone wants to share music or just talk?
Still a little sick and dejected and also a lot of stuff is being annoying in my life right now but anyways just another bored person wanting to make a post I don’t have a lot of hobbies these days but I do like to read books, watch movies, I like to play sport’s soccer more specifically and I also love listening to music feel free to recommend me some open to anything but yea idk hope you have a good rest of your day!
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2023.06.09 05:27 DiamondsR4eveer Please~🥺I am trying to get my favorite item for free. Can you help me?🌾🌾🌾🌾🌾🌾🌾🌾🌾🌾🌾🌾
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2023.06.09 05:27 sctilley Study Guides/Help for Praxis 5362 exam (English to Speakers of Other Languages)
Hi,
Praxis 5362 exam (English to Speakers of Other Languages)
I will be taking this exam soon and I can't find any good information on what will be on it. Furthermore, I may have to study.
Does anyone have any good resources / study guide / practice tests they can point me too?
Obviously free is preferred, but I'd be willing to pay if it comes highly recommended.
I'd also love to hear people's experiences with it. Was it difficult? What kinds of questions did it have? Anything that you want to share?
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Praxis 5362 exam (English to Speakers of Other Languages)
I will be taking this exam soon and I can't find any good information on what will be on it. Furthermore, I may have to study.
Does anyone have any good resources / study guide / practice tests they can point me too?
Obviously free is preferred, but I'd be willing to pay if it comes highly recommended.
I'd also love to hear people's experiences with it. Was it difficult? What kinds of questions did it have? Anything that you want to share?
2023.06.09 05:27 cupidity- 32F // you're not obligated to always be your very best self. 💕
I don't ask for much in friendships, but I can be clingy once I'm comfortable with you. The issue lies in me becoming comfortable with you, so if you withstand that, I'm going to be an amazing friend. If you are open to long-term friendships with the possibility of me not always responding to you (thank you mental health) or going "code dark" during conversations, I might be for you. I will always be there if you need me to be though.
Let's talk about mental health, I'm tired of the topic being taboo. We all have our demons, so why can't we freely discuss them? I suffer from a mixed bag: Borderline Personality Disorder, which comes with its own friends like anxiety, depression, and paranoia. We can talk about it. I'm not seeking to cure anyone, but I am seeking to help someone's loneliness, the feeling of being trapped in your head and feeling as if you're the only person to go through it, that's scary. I want to help. Most of us have trauma deeper than the Mariana Trench, so let's not hide that.
I like things like dumb books that contain smut (judge me) and finding new genres that I never knew I'd like, marine biology/zoology, video games (I play on the PC), my cat, and animals in general (so yes, pictures. now.), not drinking enough water for days and then downing what I think is enough to drown me, collab Spotify playlists, sleeping when I am depressed, tbh. I like a lot of things but I'm also known to hobby hop, so I've probably tried it (or you'll mention it and I'll think I can do it) so ask me. I've become kind of deep in a mess of feelings and need some hobbies to pull me out!
If you want to know what I look like, feel free to ask but I won't just flat-out post a picture. If you want to vent to me about your night or maybe a day you had, I'd like to hear that. I'm all for the vent sessions and while I don't have anything worth venting over right now, I will happily listen to you vent.
Hope to hear from you. xo.
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Let's talk about mental health, I'm tired of the topic being taboo. We all have our demons, so why can't we freely discuss them? I suffer from a mixed bag: Borderline Personality Disorder, which comes with its own friends like anxiety, depression, and paranoia. We can talk about it. I'm not seeking to cure anyone, but I am seeking to help someone's loneliness, the feeling of being trapped in your head and feeling as if you're the only person to go through it, that's scary. I want to help. Most of us have trauma deeper than the Mariana Trench, so let's not hide that.
I like things like dumb books that contain smut (judge me) and finding new genres that I never knew I'd like, marine biology/zoology, video games (I play on the PC), my cat, and animals in general (so yes, pictures. now.), not drinking enough water for days and then downing what I think is enough to drown me, collab Spotify playlists, sleeping when I am depressed, tbh. I like a lot of things but I'm also known to hobby hop, so I've probably tried it (or you'll mention it and I'll think I can do it) so ask me. I've become kind of deep in a mess of feelings and need some hobbies to pull me out!
If you want to know what I look like, feel free to ask but I won't just flat-out post a picture. If you want to vent to me about your night or maybe a day you had, I'd like to hear that. I'm all for the vent sessions and while I don't have anything worth venting over right now, I will happily listen to you vent.
Hope to hear from you. xo.
2023.06.09 05:26 self_solitary How much screen time is okay?
I average 6 hours a day and I saw a post on here that said 2 hours a day = 30 days a year which just scared the living hell out of me. Now I'm starting to truly realize the toll that social media has taken on my intelligence, my mental capacity and my attention span. I can't get back all the time I've lost and quitting cold turkey seems impossible. I am completely addicted to YouTube and YouTube shorts.
I feel like maybe replacing mindless scrolling with watching movies is a slight improvement as I would at least be spending all that time consuming art and not short form content creator algorithm optimized clickbaity bullshit. Ideally though, I would replace all my free time with working on hobbies like guitar or piano or even reading books but I find it incredibly difficult to focus on these things for a large amount of time and I always end up back on my phone again.
Have you all managed to strike a balance between scrolling, if only just to keep up with the news and such, as well as self improvement and feeding your brain? Is an hour a day of screen time / video games too much? I realize this is an ironic question as the most productive people won't be on the app to see this post but any help is appreciated.
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I feel like maybe replacing mindless scrolling with watching movies is a slight improvement as I would at least be spending all that time consuming art and not short form content creator algorithm optimized clickbaity bullshit. Ideally though, I would replace all my free time with working on hobbies like guitar or piano or even reading books but I find it incredibly difficult to focus on these things for a large amount of time and I always end up back on my phone again.
Have you all managed to strike a balance between scrolling, if only just to keep up with the news and such, as well as self improvement and feeding your brain? Is an hour a day of screen time / video games too much? I realize this is an ironic question as the most productive people won't be on the app to see this post but any help is appreciated.
2023.06.09 05:26 sctilley Study Guides/Help for Praxis 5362 exam (English to Speakers of Other Languages)
Hi,
Praxis 5362 exam (English to Speakers of Other Languages)
I will be taking this exam soon and I can't find any good information on what will be on it. Furthermore, I may have to study.
Does anyone have any good resources / study guide / practice tests they can point me too?
Obviously free is preferred, but I'd be willing to pay if it comes highly recommended.
I'd also love to hear people's experiences with it. Was it difficult? What kinds of questions did it have? Anything that you want to share?
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Praxis 5362 exam (English to Speakers of Other Languages)
I will be taking this exam soon and I can't find any good information on what will be on it. Furthermore, I may have to study.
Does anyone have any good resources / study guide / practice tests they can point me too?
Obviously free is preferred, but I'd be willing to pay if it comes highly recommended.
I'd also love to hear people's experiences with it. Was it difficult? What kinds of questions did it have? Anything that you want to share?